Thinking outside the toy box can be quite simple and still work within the most limited shopping budget. Here is a list of 10 gift ideas for young children that promote creativity, family time, literacy or simply encourage play.

1. Book subscription service

The world of children’s literature is vast and amazing, yet it can be overwhelming for a parent to select just the right book for your child. Book subscription services, such a Bookroo provide an accessible way for a child to receive a curated selection of books. The sender can choose a month-to-month subscription, or three- and six-month options depending on budget and preference. (Bookroo, starting at $20)

2. Set of classes

Enrolling children in group activities has many benefits, from further developing listening and attention skills to overall social skill development. Sharing the gift of a set of classes is a great way to engage a child in a new activity or introduce new experiences. Group classes such as those offered by Music Together programs offer parent-child opportunities. Classes offered at local dance studios and sports camps are another option that can be a big hit with both the children and the parents. (Music Together, class prices vary)

3. Season pass

Most museums and zoos offer memberships at different levels of patronage and a basic family membership that are quite reasonable. Since visiting these venues with young children can mean shorter windows of opportunity for exploration — depending on nap schedules — memberships provide an accessible means for frequent short visits. Also, many places provide members with benefits such as early entry, access to special events and discounted admission for guests. Find a zoo near you and check out the membership options. (Association of Zoos and Aquariums, prices vary)

4. Activity kits

Whether you have a budding artist or are looking for a creative outlet for your kids, Seedling activity kits are fun and catered to the skill levels of different ages. From designing your own bird wings to inventing your own insects, there is a kit for just about any interest. (Seedling, $18)

5. Sleeping bag

Want a versatile gift? Then, why not consider a sleeping bag, like the cozy L.L.Bean camp sleeping bag. Sleeping bags are not just for outdoor adventures, but are a great accessory for sleepovers or creative sleep escapades in your own home. (L.L.Bean, $70)

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6. Play-Doh

Encouraging play doesn’t have to be expensive — and purchasing a Play-Doh case of colors is an inexpensive gift that promotes fine motor development. Add a set of cookie cutters or other household tools (think straws, rolling pins or muffin tins) to create an open-ended play opportunity. (Amazon, $8)

7. Magazine subscription

Receiving mail is exciting for children and a monthly magazine subscription is an affordable non-toy gift idea that can last a full year. Both Highlights and Cricket Media offer monthly magazine products for children as young as the 0-2 age range. (Highlights, $40)

8. Bath fun

Whether you fancy the more traditional rubber ducky or the trendier snail stacker, bath goodies such as those available at Magic Beans are a great stocking stuffer idea and gift that will help any parent survive the dreaded end-of-the-day madness. A little bath fun is sure to entertain and distract the most tired child at the end of the day. (Magic Beans, $13)

9. Craft subscription

If you’re like me, you enjoy completing crafts with your children — but finding the time to organize ideas and maintain a closet full of supplies is challenging. Kiwi Crate is a great way to help a child explore their creative side with projects and activities that are catered to the appropriate age. (Kiwi Crate, $20)

10. Puzzles

When it comes to non-toy gifts, puzzles are one of the biggest hits in our house. Crocodile Creek has a variety of options — including this Space junior floor puzzle — that are sure to get the entire family in on the action. They also provide a wonderful assortment of options for young children that start with puzzle blocks and larger pieces for smaller fingers. (Crocodile Creek, $16)

These items range from hundreds of dollars to under $20. No matter what your budget, you'll find something that's sure to be a hit with that person on your list who just can't get enough electronics.

1. Xbox One 1TB Elite

So, for all you non-tech people out there, your first question is going to be: "Why is '1TB Elite' important?" For the serious gamer, 500 gigabytes just isn't enough space. You have to have 1TB. Really, this Xbox One 1TB Elite is only $100 more than the 500-gigabyte version. You're already spending a lot, so go ahead and get the best thing out there! (Amazon, $495)

I know the Xbox One was the hot thing last year, but we waited. Why, you ask? Because my technology geek wasn't about to purchase the first version without good backward compatibility — it's still important to be able to play that stack of Xbox 360 games on his shelf. This year, all the kinks are worked out and the Xbox One is still a hot item.

2. Kinect for Xbox One

You just bought the Xbox One, now you need the Kinect for all those dance parties I know you're going to have. Actually, I love the Kinect, and the kids love it just as much as I do. Your technology geek really wants this for all those active games he's planning to play. He'll be so happy you bought it for him, and so will you. (Amazon, $124)

3. Microsoft Band

You just have to get one of these. Go to the Microsoft store and have them measure your arm so you get just the right fit. It's a fitness band and it runs your productivity apps. It doesn't get much better than this. (Microsoft, $250)

4. Quadcopter drone

Quadcopters are so fun and easy to fly! You can do all sorts of stunts and feel like a pro within minutes of taking it out of the box. (Amazon, $150)

5. Roku 4 media player

It's got 2,500 streaming channels. Need I say more? There's so much to watch, and so little time. Just plug it into your TV and you're off. (Amazon, $129

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6. Automatic Bluetooth Car Reader

This nifty device gives you your car info at your fingertips: fuel efficiency, troubleshooting and it can even help you find your car if you lost it in a parking lot — not that that's ever happened to that technology geek on your gift-giving list. Just use the app on your phone and everything you ever wanted to know about your car is right there. (Automatic, $100)

7. Dual probe grilling thermometer

... With a wireless monitor! Just stick it into your meat and walk away. No need to stand over the grill to be grilling like a pro. Who knows? You might even get some gaming done while you wait. (Amazon, $70)

8. Wireless speakers

This speaker is water-resistant, shock-resistant, connects to your devices via Bluetooth and is just the right size for carrying along anywhere. Basically, it's awesome. For a wireless speaker, it's pretty inexpensive. I should also add that it's beach-proof and kid-proof. My entire family enjoys this speaker, and it's held up so well to all the use. (Amazon, $40)

9. Mini quadcopter

Want a quadcopter but need something inexpensive? Give this one a try. It's tiny and oh so fun. Get a couple and have your own quadcopter war! (Amazon, $17)

10. Wireless earbuds

No technology gift list is complete without headphones. These are inexpensive, come in several different colors and are lightweight for easy on-the-go use. (Amazon, $18)

Chocolate candy ball

Supplies:

• Styrofoam ball
• 10-ounce bag of chocolate candies
• Toothpicks
• Ribbon
• Scissors
• Glue

Directions:

1. Cut a piece of ribbon approximately six inches long.
2. Fold the ribbon to make a loop and glue it to the Styrofoam ball.
3. Break several toothpicks in half and press the pointed ends of the toothpicks into the bottom of each of the chocolate candies.
4. After the glue on the ribbon has dried, start sticking the chocolate candy on the Styrofoam ball.
5. Keep adding chocolate until the entire ball is covered. Then the ornament is ready to hang on your tree.

More: 10 Worst toys of 2015: Is your kid's wish on the list?

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Hard candy cut-out ornaments

Supplies:

• Hard candy
• Metal cookie cutters
• Parchment paper
• Baking sheet
• Straw
• String

Directions:

1. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F.
2. Place a piece of parchment paper on top of the baking sheet.
3. Set the metal cookie cutters on top of the parchment paper.
4. Fill inside the metal cookie cutter with hard candy.
5. Put the baking sheet with the candy in the oven. Watch it closely as the candy melts over the next five to 10 minutes.
6. Once the candy has melted slightly and has filled the shape of the cookie cutter, remove it from the oven.
7. Allow the melted candy to cool. Before it sets completely, use a straw to make a hole in the top of the ornament for hanging.
8. Once the candy has cooled completely, carefully remove it from the cookie cutter.
9. Cut a piece of string and tie it through the hole to hang the ornament.

More: 8 Creative Christmas Eve traditions to make the night even more magical

Next Up: Candy Lollipop Ornaments

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Candy lollipop ornament

Supplies:

• Licorice or Twizzlers
• Small tube of cake icing
• Rubber band
• Lollipop sticks
• Cellophane
• Ribbon
• Tape or glue

More: The coolest video games for kids this holiday season

Directions:

1. Create a spiral by rolling the candy. Use a small amount of cake icing to act as glue to hold the swirl together. If needed, use a rubber band to keep the candy in place while the icing dries.
2. Place another dab of icing on the back of the swirl. Attach the lollipop stick to the swirl with the dab of icing.
3. Cut a small piece of cellophane and wrap it around the candy.
4. Tie the cellophane with a piece of ribbon.
5. Use tape or glue to attach a second piece of ribbon to the back of the ornament to hang the ornament.

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Kim wasn't due for another three weeks, but her new baby boy didn't seem to care about due dates. The delivery of North West's baby brother came hours after Kim posted to Instagram that she was ready for her little guy to make his arrival:

The couple then made an official birth announcement, including the news that "mother and son are doing well" on Kim's website.

Although delivering a baby early can come with risks, it's good to know everything turned out OK for the West family. And considering Kim's had a rather difficult pregnancy, seeing the end come three weeks early is no doubt a relief.

More: Connie Britton reveals her biggest parenting challenge

Of course what's still under wraps is the one thing everyone wants to know: The name of Kanye and Kim's baby boy! Kim revealed earlier this fall that she was shying away from another direction name, and stuck a pin in the rumors that they'd welcome a boy named South West.

As for her pick? Kim admitted to Ellen Degeneres that she really dug the name Easton, an English name that's grown in popularity in recent years. Of course that's still a bit of a direction name, but it's one with a long history.

Then again, the couple just might surprise us with something totally unique ... it wouldn't be the first time!

More: Couple's insanely creative gender reveal knocks it out of the park

1. Felt wreath

A felt wreath that gives your home a touch of the outdoor, without the maintenance of real flowers! Felt wildflower wreath (The Felt Flower Shop, $65)

2. Rustic sign

This rustic sign declares beautiful words for any farm home. "With Love in Her Heart" rustic sign (House Of Belonging, $150)

3. Stylish boots

Keep your feet warm and dry from muddy farm weather in these stylish boots. Hunter Original boots (Zappos, $148)

4. Family letterpress block set

Family is the cornerstone of any farmhouse. "Family" letterpress block set (Dayspring, $57)

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5. Chicken-wire-door frame

Display your pictures in farmhouse fashion! Chicken-wire-door frame (Target, $29.99)

6. Sturdy bowls

These sturdy bowls will work hard in any farm kitchen. Stoneware dipping cups (Amazon, $10.99)

7. Wreath

Bring green into your farmhouse with this on-trend wreath. 21" boxwood wreath (Target, $44.99)

8. Lip Balm

This lip balm will protect you from the harsh outdoor elements. C. O. Bigelow rose salve lip balm (Nordstrom, $5)

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9. Hand salve

Farm hands work hard. Keep them soft with this hand salve. Kiehl's ultimate strength hand salve (Nordstrom, $15)

10. Hardy meals

Hardy meals for any farm kitchen. The Pioneer Woman Cooks: Dinnertime (Amazon, $17.99)

11. Antler wall hanging

Bring the rustic feel into your home while keeping a modern edge. Antler study wall hanging (vol25., $75)

12. Hand towel

Your hand towel needs to work hard, but that doesn't mean it can't look nice. Tasseled hand towel (Nordstrom, $13)

13. For chicken owners

A book for anyone who owns chickens, pins pictures of chickens or just dreams of chickens. Free-Range Chicken Gardens (Amazon, $14)

Olaf!

And even though it looks impossible to create, nail guru Miss Pop breaks it down in easy steps that make it more reasonable. Even better, it's an easy way to impress the kids at all those holiday parties you're invited to.

But, a good board game can do wonders. We started playing some new games recently, and the board games available are nothing like the games I remember. They are richly detailed with varying levels of complexity. They're nothing like the old games I grew up with, which often ended in a lot of board-flipping anger or just plain boredom.

Here is an awesome gift guide for unique and fun gifts for board game novices and enthusiasts alike.

1. Agricola

This game is a great introduction to newer styles of board games. Agricola has several rounds of play and makes you think about portioning resources on your little farm. It has a family level, too, which my son always begs to play. The details are so rich, and each game is a little different — so even years later, I still love it. You have to play more than once to get the hang of it, but then it draws you in. (Amazon, $49)

2. Moldable fimo clay

One of the most fun things you can do for your games is to create your own pieces. Instead of using brightly colored wood chips in Agricola to represent animals and crops, you can make your own little pigs and cows, which are infinitely cuter. This is a fun activity to do together, which comes in handy down the line as you play. Get a multicolor pack, so can make all the different animals and crops you want. (Amazon, $8)

3. Pandemic

This is a cooperative game where players work together to save the world from four different deadly diseases. It is fun to work together for a change. Everybody wins or everybody loses. This is true in life a lot. And it's a lot more pleasant than most games, like Monopoly. (Amazon, $20)

4. Pandemic Legacy Blue

This game is a total paradigm shift in how board games are played. Without giving too much away — in Pandemic Legacy you get two games a month for a year and lots of different cards, which change the conditions over time. Find a group and play together for a year — what a fun way to get a group of friends together on a regular basis. You could even play two games in one night, so the meet ups are monthly. (Amazon, $30)

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5. Pandemic Legacy Red

If you are getting the blue version, why not get the red version as well? I love the idea of being able to play the game again, since you can't restart the legacy game. You can play with a different group or keep the same players, but try different combinations. It's a fun way to see how much is skill and how much is luck. Can you tell I'm obsessed with this game yet? (Amazon, $49)

6. Mysterium

Mysterium is a murder mystery game set in 1920s Scotland. The game is played with different mediums and one ghost who gives clues. This is a semi-cooperative game, where a majority of mediums need to solve the crime before the ghost can rest. (Amazon, $39)

7. Dixit

Dixit is a really fun family game. The game comes with a large variety of colorful and whimsically drawn cards, and players take turns telling stories based on a card and getting others to guess the right card. It is a fun way to get kids to recall literature we have read. The Chronicles of Narnia is a common theme, but so are Disney movies. (Amazon, $25)

8. Lucite bookshelf

Lucite is my favorite new look. It is so funky and clean and is a great piece to mix and match with existing decor. The great thing about this Lucite bookshelf is that it disappears in a room because of the clear sides. It's the perfect way for someone to store a growing board game collection. (The Land of Nod, $200).

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9. Family Business

This is a card game involving strategy and luck. Family Business uses different historical mob families as the card characters. (It is always fun to read their names.) It is quick to set up and very engaging — a fun one for a small group to play together. (Amazon, $14)

10. Black Sheep

Black Sheep is kind of like a beginner version of Agricola in a lot of ways — you collect animals and build your farm. There is a lot of really interesting strategies involved in how you play your cards and influence the other players to put down cards. Kids can play this game as well, making it a great game for players at different levels. (Amazon, $24)

11. Risk: Star Wars edition

This is such a cute edition of Risk. If you've played the original before, you know how it can become tedious quickly. The Star Wars edition reboot does a great job of transporting the game into the Star Wars universe and makes game play a lot more brisk and engaging. The board game enthusiast on your giving list will be pleasantly surprised by the new version, which lets you reenact the final scene from Return of the Jedi. (Amazon, $24)

Now, I am at the threshold of tweendom and this one folks, while slightly breaking my heart, is more likely to break my bank.

There has to be a way to change out all of those fairies, ballerinas and unicorns for more “grown up” décor without completely throwing out every single piece of furniture and blanket you’ve ever bought. That stuff was expensive. So here are a few tips for giving your tween a more “grown-up” room without buying all new.

Ask your tween/teen — especially if they are of the female persuasion

Each child is different, but not every single one cares about the minutia of decorating. Have a talk and find out what your child might like.

Organization is close to sanity

Start by eliminating all the stuff you know is not staying like the Cinderella Lego Blocks. Sure they were adorable at one time, but your 15 year old is not going to be playing with them anytime soon; same goes for all of those board books, lovies and size 4T adorable dresses that have overstayed their welcome. Find them a new home where they can be appropriately loved.

If it doesn’t work, chuck it.

If your tween hates it, get it out of there. Those fairies hanging from the ceiling were darling when she was two, but now she keeps bumping her head into them. Get rid of them — unless she is still way into fairies, then re-purpose them. Just because your kid is big doesn’t mean they’ve outgrown their childhood; each kid is different. Hell, I still love unicorns.

Paint your world beautiful

A can of fresh paint can make a world of difference and can change the entire feel of the room. Believe me, going from ballerina pink to silver can definitely make a tween feel more sophisticated.

Out with the kiddie and in with the teen

In addition to a big kid bed, try big kid bedding — PB Teen has some great patterns and nicer lighting — we opted for modern lamps and lighting, no more pink or Fancy Nancy nightlights. Provide a comfy chair in a well-lit area for reading. It’s not quite the tented reading corner my girls had when they were younger, but it serves the same purpose.

Make it cozy

You’ve changed the bedding and wall colors and moved around some furniture, now throw down a funky area rug to help deaden the sound of all that loud music in your very near future. Wayfair has loads of great patterns in nearly every color your teen could ever want.

Window dressing

Time to pull down those Disney Princess curtains and replace them with room darkening drapes. We’ve actually had these in the girls’ rooms since they were babies to help with nap time, but they are perfect for brooding teens who like to sleep in on weekends.

What’s your favorite tip for transitioning your child’s room into a tween room?

Now not only do you have to tell Aunty Gladys that you love the horrid Christmas sweater she knitted for you, but you also have to come up with a whole range of fibs to keep the magic alive for your kids.

Oh, yes. Christmas is when uncomfortable parenting moments receive a standing ovation. Here are seven of the most awkward:

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1. Letters to Santa

You actually actively encourage your kids to write out their hopes and dreams in crayon and then pretend to post them to the North Pole, just so you can ransack them and figure out what on the list is achievable. Magical flying purple squirrel with a tiny bolero? Out. A rocking horse made entirely of caramel popcorn? Maybe.

2. Elf on the shelf

Rather than spend your evening sensibly by catching up on sleep or watching the latest episode of Keeping Up with the Kardashians (don't judge — we all have our vices), you spend hours arranging a tiny elf into yet another bizarre — but often hilarious — pose, just so your kids think it can move on its own.

3. Santa photos

Why is Santa here? Shouldn't he be making toys? Where's Rudolf? Why is Santa so thin? You spend hours fielding questions, making up elaborate stories just so your kid can sit on a stranger's lap for a photo.

More: Bendable Elf on the Shelf: How to make your Elf posable

4. Lying about Santa

The sled is a hovercraft, that's why it lands so quietly. Bravo. When there's no chimney, Santa abseils down the side of the building, jimmies open a window and crawls in that way. You hear the words come out of your mouth and immediately want to kick yourself in the shin. Now you're going to have to spend three nights in bed with your terrified 4-year-old.

5. Dressing as Santa

Just because lying about it wasn't enough, now you have to ask your uncle Boris to play Santa without offending him or mentioning his physique. Alternatively, you can "pop out to the store" yourself and hope your kids don't recognise you or question why Santa changed since the day they took photos with him or wonder why you didn't actually buy anything.

6. Sneakily wrapping and then hiding presents

It's midnight. You've turned your bed into a wrapping station and hold your breath as you fold every corner and rip every bit of tape. Now to find a good hiding place. Under the bed? Too obvious. In the wardrobe? Not going to work either. You rip up the floorboards to stash the goods. The magic has been preserved.

7. Stealthily placing gifts under the tree

Prepare for a lot of herding and shuffling of kids as you lie through your teeth and attempt to sneak Jimmy's new bike into the living room.

More: 26 Christmas movies that will be on Netflix this year

For some, it’s a no-brainer, but it can be quite confusing. It can be difficult to figure out an appropriate gift for an ex-husband. You basically know everything about this man. You know his likes and dislikes, but due to the current nature of your relationship, you must be very careful when selecting a gift.

Choosing the wrong gift can send the wrong message to your ex. When it comes to divorce, it is essential that you purchase appropriate gifts. As a gift to you, I have created a list of appropriate and fun Christmas gifts for your ex.

1. Universal Smart Eye and Watch Valet

This nightstand valet is a life-saver for the guy who always misplaces his watches, phone and keys. (Etsy, Undulating Contours, $40) 

 2. Leather iPhone 6 case

Every guy should own one of these leather iPhone cases! Any case that works as a phone case and wallet is essential. (Etsy, Barva Leather, $36)

3. Men’s shaving gift set

This shaving gift set includes a wood-handled boar bristle shave brush, shaving soap in a glass dish and your choice of bar soap all inside a wooden cigar box. (Etsy, Rustic Designs By Amie, $35)

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4. Beer cap map of USA

The ultimate gift for any craft beer drinker, these USA beer cap maps are just what you need to keep track of your brewing adventures. (Etsy, Home Wet Bar, $35)

5. Bar cart art

Bar cart art works as wall decor in any home! Very creative and unique, your ex will love it. (Etsy, Jilly Jack Designs, $30)

6. Leather passport cover

If your ex is anything like my hubby, he could use an extra case for his passport. This handcrafted leather passport cover is beautiful. (Etsy, Gifts and Travel, $27)

7. Personalized deluxe duffel bag

This personalized gym bag is the perfect bag for a gym rat. (Etsy, Wedding Shoppe, $38)

8. Eat like a Man cookbook

Eat Like a Man shows him how to find his way around a kitchen. (Amazon, $20) 

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9. George Foreman GR2121P 8-Serving Plate Grill

The George Forman Grill is self explanatory. It's very functional and makes cooking a snap. (Amazon, $55)

 10. TV remote-control organizer with clamp drapes over sofa arm

He won't have to dig around the couch for the remote with this organizer. (Amazon, $15) 

11. Arrogant beard care kit

Try this beard care kit for the guy who loves to have flawless skin. (Beard Crafters, $50)

12. Amazon Fire TV Stick with Voice Remote

If your ex loves gadgets, try the Fire TV Stick. (Amazon, $50)

That wraps up my holiday guide. Please like and share! Tell me how it all turned out!

Good reads

1. The School of Greatness: A Real-World Guide to Living Bigger, Loving Deeper, and Leaving a Legacy by Lewis Howes

It’s often said that good is the enemy of great, and lifestyle entrepreneur Lewis Howes is on a mission to ensure that everyone lives up to their greatness. Perfect for the side hustler, The School of Greatness shares tips and insights from some of the world’s most revered business leaders on clarifying vision, developing hustle and taking action. One can’t help but be inspired after finishing this read. (Amazon, $15)

2. Making the Case: How to Be Your Own Best Advocate by Kimberly Guilfoyle

It’s no secret that women often have a challenging time asking for what they want — but especially when it comes to business, that’s not an option. In Making the Case, Kimberly Guilfoyle empowers her readers with the ability to create a compelling case to get to "yes" and get their needs met. (Amazon, $13)

3. Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert

If the side hustler in your life is hesitant to jump into full-time entrepreneurship, the latest from Elizabeth Gilbert may be exactly what he or she needs. Encouraging readers to push past fear, Gilbert delivers doses of courage and enchantment that challenge the shy take a leap of faith. (Amazon, $11)

4. Success Magazine subscription

Going the side-hustle route can feel like a lonely journey that nobody else understands. Hand your favorite side hustler a copy of Success Magazine for monthly doses of inspiration and insights around business, leadership and innovation. (Success Magazine, $34.95)

5. #GirlBoss by Sophia Amoruso

You can’t have a book list for female professionals without including Sophia Amoruso’s The New York Times best seller #GirlBoss. As the C.E.O. of Nasty Gal, a $250-million fashion retailer, Amoruso doesn’t come from the background one might stereotypically assume. For those hustlers who need a reminder that success isn’t based on pedigree and that anyone can accomplish anything, #GirlBoss is the perfect read. (Amazon, $10)

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Motivation and wellness

6. ClassPass

Chances are the ambitious side hustler in your life doesn’t complain about not finding time to work out, they make it! The question is, what workout to do? ClassPass keeps fitness fun and leaves your body guessing with hundreds of workout options. Ranging from yoga to CrossFit and barre to kickboxing, ClassPass will keep both the mind and body challenged. (ClassPass, $89/month)

7. Color Me Stress-Free: Nearly 100 Coloring Templates to Unplug and Unwind by Lacy Mucklow and illustrated by Angela Porter

Unleash your inner little kid and break out the coloring pencils for this fun form of stress-relief! Between a day job and a side business, the side hustler definitely doesn’t suffer from a lack of stress. Bring some Zen and relaxation into their lives with this simple and therapeutic way to unwind. (Amazon, $12)

8. Inspirational art print

Sometimes when we look up, we just need to see a little inspiration. For a thoughtful gift with an artsy feel, scores of independent artists on Etsy have created a variety of inspirational art prints to decorate the walls, enliven the spirit and remind her that she can and she will! (Etsy, $15)

9. Slow-drip Cold Bruer

The hottest thing in coffee is cold brew — keep her caffeinated (and saving $5 on her morning Starbucks!) with the slow-drip Cold Bruer system. Sip on the complex flavor, minus the bitterness typically found in most homemade coffees. (Bruer, $80)

10. Helpling

Between working for the boss and being the boss, who has time to clean the house too? Enter Helpling, the perfect solution for the busy side hustler. Similar to how Uber matches commuters with drivers, Helpling finds your home cleaner online and is available in multiple countries worldwide. (Helpling, $25/hour)

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Tech Toys

11. GripTight GorillaPod Stand

Between Periscope, Meerkat and YouTube, there’s always something for the side hustler to film or shoot while on the go to keep their business up to social media snuff. We love Joby’s GripTight GorillaPod Stand — this lightweight, bendable, flexible tripod will accommodate most any smartphone and grip onto the most unusual surfaces (think railings and rounded surfaces) for the perfect selfie. (Joby, $30)

12. Jackery Giant+

Few things can cause the kind of panic-inducing anxiety that one gets when they see that their phone is down to 10 percent battery life. Never mind the double-induced fear of a phone battery and a tablet battery going low. Enter the Jackery Giant+. Quick and easy to throw in a purse, this little lifesaver — no, seriously — will charge two devices at the same time, eliminating the need to find the nearest coffee shop to boot up. (Jackery, $30)

13. Blue Microphones Yeti USB microphone

The side hustler knows that audiences will tolerate less-than-perfect video, but nobody has the patience for poor quality audio. Podcasters, webinar hosts, musicians and anyone who hosts audio-based content online will fall in heart with Blue’s Yeti family of microphones. Not only do they capture pristine sound, but they also just require a simple USB plug in. (Amazon, $149)

14. Square card reader

Wherever the side hustler is, she needs to be able to make a sale. The Square reader is the must-have item for mobile entrepreneurs. Plug it into a smartphone that’s connected to the Internet, et voilà: safe and secure digital payment processing center. (SquareUp, free with 2.65 percent pay-per-swipe)

15. Microsoft Surface Book (128 gigabytes)

The hustle is real: We’re willing to bet that most side hustlers don’t go far without their laptop — their trusted sidekick that’s perfect to get tasks done during downtime. Save their shoulders! The Microsoft Surface Book offers the performance of a laptop with the light versatility of a tablet, the best of both worlds. (Best Buy, $1,500)

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Organizational tools

16. Business card holder

Never one to miss a networking opportunity, the side hustler can be found trading business cards left, right and center. The Robinson slim card case eliminates clumsily fumbling between compartments and makes swapping cards a seamless and effortless interaction. (Tory Burch, $59)

17. Gold confetti organizational set

We’d be hard pressed to find a female entrepreneur who hasn’t fallen in love with this year’s trend of white with gold dots. Girlie meets glam! The side hustler will stylishly stay on top of tasks with this four-panel set that looks great while organizing a flurry of notes, appointments, tasks and push pins. (Paper Source, $30)

18. Simplified planner

You can’t help but get excited for the day ahead with the stunning Happy Stripe simplified planner in hand. Even if you live and die by the Google calendar on your smartphone, the daily edition of the simplified planner is perfect for managing day-to-day tasks, complete with hourly scheduling and space to plan dinner. This perfect planner can be customized with well-thought-out accessories, including colorful flags and stretchy bands to keep everything in place. Shopping for the male on your list? Check out Dapperdesk for the dudes. (Emily Ley, $58)

19. Expander file folder

Contracts, receipts, invoices — the side hustler is just getting accustomed to all the paperwork that an entrepreneurial life brings. Take boring filing and organization up a notch with the Work It expandable file folder, that’s a gorgeous touch to any office space. (Indigo, $17)

20. Kate Spade Whistle While You Work Tackle Box

Leave it to Kate Spade to put a feminine twist on the tackle box. Complete with the cutest tape, stationary, magnets and push pins imaginable, loose sheets of paper don’t stand a chance against the chic-ly organized side hustler. (Kate Spade, $40)

Don't share mascara because it might cause infection. Watch out for allergic reactions.

These are important things to be aware of, but one woman has a warning for every makeup lover out there — and it's likely something you've never thought of before.

More: 10 Beauty experiences to give your makeup-addicted friends

"If any of you do your makeup in a little mirror in front of the window like I do, stash it away when you're done," Kasey Ault wrote on Facebook Dec. 1. "I just came home to a house full of smoke and found clear evidence of a fire on my desk."

The reason: She believes her makeup mirror reflected the sunlight off the magnified side. "I'm extremely lucky the fire didn't reach the battery of my iPad, my wooden desk, my laundry basket next to my desk," she continued. It miraculously was somehow contained. I had my sweet chihuahua asleep in that room, along with my other three dogs and five cats in the house. I could have lost them all."

More: This foolproof method will make any lipstick matte

Though it's not common, fires resulting from makeup mirrors have happened before. Earlier this year, a British couple's mansion was gutted after a makeup mirror reflected the light. "Cases of reflected light triggering fires in homes are rare, however we would urge the public to be aware of the potential danger of reflective surfaces intensifying the sun's rays," a rep for the Royal Berkshire Fire and Rescue Service told the Daily Mail in February.

It's most likely to happen in the winter months because the "low-lying sun can shine on fixed surfaces for a prolonged period." So while it probably won't happen to you, it's better safe than sorry. Just stick your mirror in the drawer when you're done applying your makeup.

More: Russian makeup artist sparks intense backlash over her dead fish creations

Detox means cleansing your body of all the excesses that it has absorbed.

There are many benefits that you can derive from a thorough detox. They include getting rid of chemicals and toxins that accumulate in our bodies from processed foods and ready-made meals, improving the efficiency of the immune system, losing weight and achieving holistic well-being.

There are many products out there that promise complete detox to your mind and body, and there are a number of websites and online tutorials offering detox advice. But, not all of them are trustworthy or genuine.

You need to understand the unique nature and requirements of your body and determine what works for you. Winter is especially the time to cleanse your body and step into the new year in good health. And where better to start than your kitchen? Your nutritional intake and exercise regimen are the two most important factors for an effective detox.

Here are a few tips to help you enjoy a happy and healthy 2016!

Stay hydrated

Water is the key to staying light after a night of indulgence — for instance, the day after a big holiday party. It helps flush out toxins from the body and helps your digestive system recover. Also, winter months are a particularly important time to stay hydrated. It can do wonders for your skin and overall health.

It works even better when the first thing that you have in the morning is a cup of warm water with a slice of fresh lemon or lime in it — feel free to add honey too! Tangy lime is rich in antioxidants and will help speed up the cleansing process.

You can continue sipping on infused water throughout the day and enjoy the multitude of benefits. Vitamin C and potassium are present in abundance in lemons and limes, which help your body achieve optimal performance.

Vitamin C helps break down toxins into water-soluble form and speed up their elimination from the body. Lemon also helps increase enzyme production in the body and aids in blood purification.

Eat greens

Green leafy veggies are a best bet to give your body tons of nutrition as well as essential nutrients and minerals. Robust kale, mustard greens, turnip tops, chard and ice spinach are all found in most markets — especially during the winter months. Escarole is another bridging green that can be a tremendously powerful source of nutrition in the winter.

Trendy kale and flavor-rich collards that are abundant in winter are part of the Brassica vegetable family and are nutritional powerhouses, rich in manganese, potassium, phytochemicals, vitamins A, C, K and E and a host of other nutrients.

Dark green veggies are among the most powerful detoxing foods that you can eat. These foods help create a strong alkaline environment in the body to help reduce the growth of bad bacteria and acids. An alkaline body environment is healthy and prevents the buildup of cellular toxins, including cancer-causing free radicals.

Chlorophyll present in green leafy veggies increases oxygen supply to cells, thereby improving their health.

Get some light exercise

Heavy exercise when you are feeling bloated and full can do more harm than good. A brisk walk can give the much-needed jolt to your metabolism that has been lulled to sleep by the fat and sugar overload from holiday festivities!

The extra calories that have been piled on need to be worked off or they may accumulate in unseemly or even dangerous places. If it’s the day after Thanksgiving or Christmas, a brisk walk can prime your metabolism to help process the extra intake.

Yoga is another great way to give your body a cleansing workout. It takes into account the physical and spiritual health of a person. Yoga is a great way to calm and soothe both body and spirit. A healthy mind is an essential part of a comprehensive detox — so grab your gear and get moving!

Also make sure that you remove excess alcohol buildup from your body. Foods containing fructose will help burn alcohol in the body. Fresh fruit juices, coconut water and tomato juice will help your body recover from a hangover, and they also supply vitamins and minerals.

The bottom line

Winter is the best time to pamper yourself. It is the season when some of the healthiest fruits and veggies around begin to make their seasonal appearance in markets. In addition to indulging in seasonal festivities, make sure that you give your body the TLC it deserves. A smart detox can help you start the new year on a happy and healthy note.

Kim Catlin is the head of customer relations at Withdrawal Ease. She is also the wife of George Catlin, founder of Withdrawal Ease and author of The Opiate Withdrawal Survival Guide.

In the past few months I have offered up quick accounts of my experience with mammograms, colonoscopy, and gastrostomy. Some might call that over-sharing. The fact is, I deliberately look for ways to either be funny or poignant about things that matter to people my own age, to try to humanize daunting milestones.

I figure if I can make fun of myself, or relate a positive ending to a scary scenario, perhaps others will be less afraid to tackle those things we all know we should be checking up on. Who in their right mind would voluntarily have tender bits squashed between glass plates or be probed with a medical Roto-Rooter? Up to this age, we have mostly just had the odd x-ray on creaky knees or aching backs, maybe a periodic pap smear.

Stuff is getting more real, and 50 years of wear and tear warrants a closer look.

Our generation, those born between 1950 and 1970, are the ones who feasted on convenience foods. Artificial flavorings, colors and sweeteners, along with a laundry-list of preservatives, were our newly-working mothers' saviors in the kitchen. We were the Tang Generation. We were Cheez Whiz, Twinkies and SpaghettiOs. TV dinners in partitioned tinfoil pans. Most of that stuff still exists to some degree, but for us then, they were new-fangled inventions, and we gobbled them up.

We have since learned we weren't maybe so forward-thinking after all, because our digestive and respiratory tissues have suffered. We have figured out that fructose and pesticides weren't wise. We are back to basic fresh foods responsibly-produced, but still need to keep apprised of our aging assumptions, which means doing all of those eeww-inducing and totally-humbling procedures.

I cannot tell you how many friends of mine, and their loved ones, have made themselves get screened and come back relieved. Some of them have come back with battle plans. A few of them waited too long and are now fighting for their lives.

Some of us are going to get sick no matter what we do; it's the crappiest part of getting older. We shore up one another as best we can, try to be understanding and helpful without intruding upon private pain and circle the wagons. Being as proactive as we can about our own bodies is the least we can do not just for ourselves but for those who love us even when we are in denial.

So, I figure I tell you about my colonoscopy and conquering a 30-year fear in the hands of compassionate professionals, maybe you'll think about booking your own Kodak Moments — thanks to my friend Gail for that nickname. Google the terms and understand what's at stake.

Time itself feels like it's stuck on 78 rpms and the needle skips. So get out there. Do the stuff that makes you feel all puppy-tail-wiggly and consciously enjoy it. Be present enough to forget your stresses for the duration of a belly-laugh. Hug somebody who doesn't get enough of them. Sing theme songs from sitcoms only your contemporaries will remember. If you forget a few of the words, just make them up and keep singing.

Have a dance party with a giggly little kid. Let them paint your toe nails. Boogie at the bus stop to keep warm on a wintry day. Wear your softest blue jeans and comfortable shoes and take a friend's dog for a walk; they get an hour's grace and you get a little fresh air with a happy canine companion in whose company it will be tough not to grin. Send an anonymous fan letter to a friend. Bake bread so your house smells like heaven for the day. Lose yourself in a favorite book. Try something you've always had a private yen for. (My Mum's was archery). Love yourself a little. It's all Good Medicine.

The hardest part about preparing this ham is making sure it fits in the slow cooker. I've made the mistake before of getting a ham that was a little too big.

So now I make sure to get a ham that's on the smaller side when cooking it in the slow cooker so the lid will fit on top.

The bourbon, butter and apple cider glaze definitely agrees with this scrumptious ham, and it's better than any glaze that comes premade.

Slow cooker hot buttered bourbon and apple cider ham recipe

Serves 12

Prep time: 10 minutes | Cook time: 4 hours | Total time: 4 hours 10 minutes

Ingredients:

• 1 fully cooked (6 pound) half bone-in ham (or smaller, depending on the size of the slow cooker)
• 1 cup apple cider (or apple juice)
• 2 tablespoons apple cider vinegar
• 1/2 cup (4 ounces) bourbon
• 1/2 cup brown sugar
• 1/8 teaspoon ground cinnamon
• 1/2 teaspoon ground ginger
• 1 pinch ground cloves

Directions:

1. To a medium-size bowl, add the apple cider, apple cider vinegar, bourbon, brown sugar, cinnamon, ginger and cloves. Whisk together.
2. To the slow cooker, add 1/2 the apple cider mixture.
3. Lightly score the skin on the ham with a knife.
4. Lay the ham in the slow cooker.
5. Pour the remaining apple cider mixture on top of the ham.
6. Set the slow cooker on the 4-hour setting, cover, and let cook.
7. Serve the ham hot or chilled.

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1. The Pearl Leather Crossbody Bag & Clutch

She can exude classic style on-the-go with The Pearl Leather Crossbody Bag & Clutch. The sleek design secures passports, tablets and other essentials in zippered compartments and the cross body strap is adjustable for over the shoulder styles or use as a clutch depending on what the day calls for. (L&S, $248)

2. Sweet Briar Notebooks

Encourage her to document the intimate and obscure details of her favorite trips with these Sweet Briar Notebooks. This set of three beautifully-crafted floral journals is perfect for recording precious memories. (Anthropologie, $13)

3. Jackery Giant+ Dual USB Portable Battery Charger & External Battery Pack

Keep her phone charged so she’s free to take pictures and videos to document her journeys with the Jackery Giant+ Dual USB Portable Battery Charger & External Battery Pack for iPhone, iPad, Galaxy and Android Smart Devices. (Amazon, $29)

4. Stella Nova Political Antique Ocean Swivel and Tilt Globe

The beautiful Stella Nova Political Antique Ocean Swivel and Tilt Globe makes the perfect accent piece in the home of any serious wanderluster. (Amazon, $13)

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5. Passport Holder Protect Cover Case Organizers

Protect her passport in one of these elegant pink or brown Passport Holder Protect Cover Case Organizers. (Amazon, $3)

6. The Longchamp 'Le Pliage' Backpack

The perfect carry-on backpack, The Longchamp 'Le Pliage' Backpack is stylish and ready for travel, whether it’s a weekend getaway or a safari trek. (Nordstrom, $125)

7. Evan Healy’s Rose Face Care Kit

Pamper her skin when she’s on the go with Evan Healy’s Rose Face Care Kit. Always organic, this hydrating and rejuvenating set includes a cleanser, a toner, a serum, a facial mask and a moisturizer — while being carry-on compliant. (Evan Healy, $30)

8. Juice Plus+ Orchard, Vineyard, Garden Blend

Help her get the best whole-food immune-boosting nutrition while she’s traveling, no matter how sparse her food options may be with the Juice Plus+ Orchard, Vineyard, Garden Blend. (Juice Plus, $71)

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9. The Chrysalis Cardi by Encircled

She can get over eight different styles with The Chrysalis Cardi by Encircled. Ethically-made from sustainable, eco-conscious fabrics, the Chrysalis Cardi is timeless and effortlessly chic, allowing her to travel light while still having the option to dress for every occasion on her journey. (Encircled, $128)   

10. Sojourn Herbal Apothecary

Treat her to a journey of the senses with these all-natural, ultra-moisturizing, travel-inspired body butters from Sojourn Herbal Apothecary. Each hand-crafted lotion, scented with organic pure essential oils is inspired by a destination around the world. (Etsy, Sojourn Apothecary, $30)

11. GlobeIn Artisan Box

This is a subscription she’ll love. Each monthly GlobeIn Artisan Box is an adventure to a world bazaar or central market in a far-flung locale without having to leave your zip code. Each gift set comes in a custom-woven keepsake basket,  follows a theme and comes with four to five unique and exotic finds. (GlobeIn, $30 and up)

12. Try the World Subscription Box

Treat her to delicacies from around the world. With the Try the World Subscription Box, she can travel the world every two months with an expertly curated collection of culinary delights from around the world. (Try the World, $49 and up)

1. The Macallan Edition No.1 Highland Single Malt Scotch Whiskey 750ML

(Morrell & Company, Rockefeller Plaza, $130)

2. Uniform Wares M40 Watch

Patrick Bek and Oliver Fowles, 2015 (MoMA Store.com, $450)

3. Working Man's Hygiene Kit

(Uncommongoods.com, $50)

4. Kristina Fender - Nico The Kid

Motorcycle Wall Art

(Usshop Gestalten.com, $150)

5. 3D Antique Silver Darth Vader Cuff Links

(CuffLinks.com, $50)

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6. Chant Mini Speaker

(The House of Marley, $50)

7. Baselamp Glow Lamp

(Luke Lamp Co., $99)

8. Outdoor Survival Flask

(V S S L, $73)

9. The Keyboard Waffle Iron

(Keyboard Waffle Iron.com, $85)

10. The Mission Belt

Variety of colors - adjustable

(The Mission Belt.com, $40)

11. Coffee of the Month Club - 3, 6, 12 Months

(Dean & Deluca, $70 — 3 Months, $135 — 6 Months, $260 — 12 Months)

1. Amazon Echo

As a new mom, you always have your hands full, and you are constantly feeding the baby. Amazon Echo is hands-free and always on. You can ask it to answer questions, play music, read the news and more. It can hear you from across the room — even while music is playing. All you have to do is ask (Amazon, $180).

2. Lily-Jade diaper bag

This adorable diaper bag can also be used as a purse. New moms can hold a stylish bag when they are with and without baby. It includes a pouch with clip for your phone, cards, coins and miscellaneous items. It also includes a removable, washable, zippered-top baby-bag organizer and changing pad (Lily-Jade, $169).

3. Ugg slippers

Ugg Slippers are a must-have for all moms. When cold weather hits, I always have mine on. I love that they are comfy enough to wear around the house but durable enough to run errands in (Ugg Australia, $150).

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4. Mother Tucker leggings

These compression leggings will give new moms a leg-up on looking trim and toned after baby. She will kiss you after she puts these on for the first time. I wear them under my jeans, and I love them with long sweaters and boots. The waistband doesn’t roll down either, which can be a big pain with other shape-wear (Belly Bandit, $80).

5. Personalized iPad photo case

All new moms love pictures of their new babies. A personalized tablet case is such a cute way to have your baby’s photo with you wherever you go. This would be especially great for working moms too (Shutterfly, $70).

6. Blardigan

You need ultimate comfort when you are a new mom. This blardigan (blanket/cardigan) is so comfortable and stylishly conceals some areas we moms like to hide sometimes. It is great for breastfeeding moms because it can act as a cover too (Nordstrom, $92).

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7. Personalized keychain/diaper bag clip

This personalized clip is a perfect little accessory for a new mom’s keychain. It adds a little bit of bling and color, along with a personalized touch. So cute! (Etsy, Buy Some Love, $10)

8. Mio Skincare Your Fit Skin for Life kit

Gift her with this perfect little skincare trio for a new mom. You get a range of skincare treatments designed to nourish, firm and strengthen your skin. Your muscles will feel soothed and your skin will look hydrated and radiant (Mio Skincare, $33).

9. Lululemon Vinyasa scarf

We love this scarf for new moms because it is stylish and so versatile. The possibilities are — nearly — endless with this cozy, customizable circle scarf. With the snaps, you can use it as a scarf, a wrap, a shrug, a hood, a cover for your stroller or a cover up for breastfeeding — you name it (Lululemon, $48).

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10. Gift card to Urban Sitter

When you are a new mom, it is hard to get anything done or have time for yourself. A gift of babysitting would be amazing to any mom. Even if it is someone to come hold the baby while you take a shower! (UrbanSitter, price varies)

11. Photon LED Skin Rejuvenation Therapy mask

Never mind what you hear about “that glow.” Pregnancy can be rough on the complexion. Also, getting regular facials or light treatments is next to impossible for moms, so this gift brings the spa to her. These light masks help balance skin tone, firm your skin, inhibit the formation of melanin pigment, fight acne and more. It’s like going to the spa every day in your own home (Amazon, $157)..

12. Gift Certificate to a spa

Every new mom needs special time to herself. Caring for a new baby takes a lot out of you. So a gift certificate to a spa for a massage would be much appreciated by a new mama (Massage Envy, price varies).

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13. Juicy Couture Faux-Fur Pom-Pom Diaper Bag Clip

If you have a fashionable new mom in your life, she probably would love this adorable diaper bag clip. It’s a cute way to dress up a diaper bag. It can also be used as a key chain (Kohl's, $16).

14. House-cleaning gift certificate

The absolute last thing that a new mom wants to do is to clean the house. A perfect gift for a new mom would be for someone else to do the cleaning for her (Molly Maids, price varies).

What struck me is that we finally have equality. If George Clooney had a female bodyguard and we were shown pictures of her in a bikini, women would think she was being wronged. Women of 2015 are supposed to be carrying on the banner of equal pay for equal work. We hold men accountable that it’s not the look of a woman but that she can do her job. The lead story, male and female, has come to focus on how that person looks, not if he or she is the most qualified.

Watching the program, I felt like I was on the wrong-side of a double standard, one where a female entertainer can have eye-candy as their “bodyguard” because he can still do the job, yet the press would think a female bodyguard was just hired for her looks. Feminists would be outraged. Mothers would tell their daughters this should not be their hero. We would look into our child’s eyes and say a woman is to be valued for her brains, her skills and her inner beauty. There would be a social media storm, decrying that a woman bodyguard is just as capable regardless of her allure.

We teach our sons that they must be strong, yet caring. We mentor our boys so that they see the strength of their female peers. Our children, both girls and boys, play together on the playground and work together on STEM projects. Employers are learning to see the value of an integrated workforce. Companies are penalized for having unfair hiring and promoting practices.

Still, the glass ceiling remains. Image still trumps resumé. A contestant on a beauty pageant was ridiculed for showing her brain and her heart. Female athletes are still rated first on looks, second on ability. Women are still encouraged to be teachers rather than engineers.

For over 50 years, women have fought for gender equality.

I never expected the first equality achieved would be a male bodyguard being valued for his looks and not his capability.

There were many justifications for repurposing the large formal dining room, the biggest room in our house: 

1. We are not "formal dining room people," plus we've left our friends and family behind in our former city.

2. There's a (small) eating area off the kitchen.

3. We really, really need extra living space — and, hey, I’m all about making a home work for its people!

Sometimes, however, we become so used to doing things the same old way that we get stuck doing things the same old way.

One day, I had a moment of clarity. There we were, my lovely family — including two young men (now over 6 feet tall), girlfriends, my daughter, a boyfriend (you get the picture) — squeezed around a little table in a little room.

“What is this madness?” I asked. It was time to take back the dining room. Since I love to decorate, this gave me a fun new project — but my intentions were very altruistic, I swear!

I found a large vintage dining set at a country auction for $50, which fit my small redecorating budget quite well. Do you know that many of the baby boomers are downsizing and getting rid of their old dining room sets? There are some great bargains out there, and you can easily repurpose them so that they stand up to modern family living. Check out my how-to blog post.

What I am most happy about is that we not only gained a larger, more comfortable dining room, but also our occasional family dinners, typically held on special occasions, have evolved into a new tradition: the weekly family dinner night.

Here are our family dinner night “rules”:

Flexibility is key

Since everyone’s schedule is irregular — these are young people with school, shift work and part-time jobs, plus two of them are living on their own — we figure out a night that works for everybody. This is our biggest challenge, but lots of texting and messaging helps. If someone can’t make it, we carry on (and forgive them!).

A #NotFancy menu and atmosphere is preferred

My son’s girlfriend and I came up with this hashtag as a bit of a joke (it tends to drive my son a little crazy since he hates hashtags), but our meals can be classified as “cheap and cheerful.” This means, we cook a lot of Crock-Pot stews in the winter, barbecued burgers and chicken in the summer and easy, but comforting meals, such as spaghetti bolognese. I make sure that there is lots of food, since the two kids who don’t live at home love to take leftovers.

While the meal is casual, this doesn’t mean that we don’t pretty things up — candles, place mats, napkins and flowers are all essential parts of the dinner.

Participation in meal planning and preparation is highly valued

This did not start out as a rule, but it has evolved over time so that everyone is so invested in our weekly dinners that they get very involved in the meal planning. My foodie son will show up a couple of hours early, if time permits, to help with food prep. My daughter often brings over extra items for the meal and also helps out with food prep. Texting and Facebook messaging get utilized a lot — both with meal suggestions, grocery store bargains, recipes and, of course, scheduling.

Can I mention here that it is a lot more satisfying to text the kids who are no longer living at home with messages other than, “How are thing’s going?”

Friends are always welcome

Of course, we welcome significant others who become regular participants of the family dinners, but friends get included too, if they happen to be around. A girlfriend’s father was recently visiting from Europe, and it was highly anticipated by all of us that he would be joining us at the weekly dinner.

You will be shunned and mocked (OK, maybe a slight exaggeration) if you bring a cell phone to the table

The dinners are all about human interaction and lively conversation.

Nobody leaves until everything is cleaned up (Does this need to be said?)

Let’s just say that this is the expectation, but occasionally someone (I’m not naming names here) will sneak away early, thinking that nobody notices (we all do).

It is hard to summarize the benefits to my family of our regular weekly dinners, but sometimes when I walk into the kitchen to grab an item we forgot, I stop for a moment and listen to the sounds of my family’s laughter and conversation and silently give thanks to the wise and insightful builder of our old house, who knew that a formal dining room was an essential part of a family home.