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Neapolitan parfaits are a creamy three-layer treat for any time of day

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You might be wondering where I found chocolate yogurt... the truth is, I didn't. I made it by mixing together plain yogurt, unsweetened cocoa and chocolate syrup. The result? A delicious creamy chocolate yogurt! Make these parfaits in Mason jars for an easy grab 'n' go breakfast or mid-afternoon snack.

Neapolitan parfaits

Neapolitan parfaits

Serves: 24

Serving size: 4 ounces

Ingredients:

  • 1 (32-ounce) plain yogurt
  • 1 tablespoon unsweetened cocoa
  • 1/4 cup plus 1 tablespoon chocolate syrup
  • 1 (32-ounce) vanilla yogurt
  • 1 (32-ounce) strawberry yogurt
  • 1-1/2 cups granola

Directions:

  1. In a medium bowl mix together the plain yogurt, cocoa and chocolate syrup until completely combined.
  2. Add a layer of each yogurt flavor to a 4-ounce container in this order: chocolate, vanilla and strawberry.
  3. Top with 1 tablespoon of granola.

Store in the refrigerator until ready to serve.

Visit Lady Behind The Curtain for more delicious Brunch Recipes.


The Americans: Paige Jennings has way too much power for a teen

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And no, I'm not talking about the moment where we found out Stan's suspicions about Zinaida were spot-on. (Good work, Stan! You might not be the worst FBI agent of all time after all.)

I'm talking about the moment when Paige Jennings confronted her parents about the fact that their lives make no sense. You see, young Paige has finally caught on to the fact that most travel agents don't deal with endless emergencies in the middle of the night. She's also done the math and realized that they have absolutely no family in the country. Well, except for that time Aunt Helen apparated into Season 2, and then apparated right back out.

More: The Americans: Philip better not cross the line with Kimmy

Rather than hold out on their daughter any longer, Philip and Elizabeth decide to tell her the truth. Well, the beginning of the truth. They tell her that they're Soviet Union spies who are just doing a little homework assignment for their country, but they leave out the fact that they're also experienced murderers who will sleep with anyone to get the job done. Which, honestly, I found to be a refreshingly smart parenting choice for the Jennings. I'm honestly shocked Elizabeth didn't immediately get out her kill list and start bragging to Paige. I would've assumed she'd been waiting for this mother-daughter bonding moment ever since she popped Paige out.

The rest of the episode, or the Jennings' part, at least, revolved around the growing tension over whether or not Paige would tattle on her parents. And oh em gee, was the tension growing! Paige has way too much power right now. While I'm sure she loves her parents deep down, she's not all that crazy about them at the moment. (And to be fair, her reasons for that are pretty solid.) So that fact, combined with the fact she's a hormonal teenager with no concept of the words "future" or "foresight" makes me think she's going to do something really stupid. Even worse, I fear that the really stupid thing will involve Pastor NeedsToLearnToMindHisOwnBeeswax. Side note: Anyone else starting to get the feeling he won't survive the season?

More: Is Keri Russell dating her costar Matthew Rhys?

I'm honestly not sure if my heart can handle the rest of the season, since I just know that I'll spend every episode waiting for Paige to tell on her parents. Especially because you saw the wheels turning in her head last night when Stan came over for dinner. It was like she just realized exactly how much of her life is a lie. It's not just that her parents are spies, it's that their entire life's been crafted around their spy business. If she can't even count on the fact that FBI Agent Stan is her dad's best friend, what can she count on? Well, besides Henry being oblivious to his family imploding all around him.

Considering that FX just signed the show for a 4th season, I can hold out a little hope that this season won't end with Elizabeth and Philip in prison. But ugh, now that Paige knows, you just know that the end of the spy days are rapidly approaching. And this, my friends, is why we don't give teenagers this kind of power.

These abuse allegations about Teen Mom star Adam Lind are truly horrible

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More: Teen Mom 2 star Chelsea Houska's troubled ex Adam Lind arrested

According to Radar Online, Lind's ex-girlfriend, Jessica Nicole, recently filed court documents in South Dakota's Minnehaha county circuit court to get a restraining order against him. And in the docs, she has reportedly made some pretty horrific abuse allegations.

Nicole allegedly claims that she suffered abuse at the hands of Lind during their relationship and in recent weeks. The publication notes one incident in which she reportedly claimed that when she tried to leave their home Lind started "choking" and "hitting her" as well as starting to "break things" and "flipping over the table."

More: Teen Mom's Adam Lind arrested for the second time in 4 months

Even after the relationship ended, Nicole apparently claimed that the abuse did not. Lind reportedly continued to phone and text her, and even drive by her grandmother's house in a "threatening fashion."

"I was told… that he would come after my family and that he would 'crush my skull,'" she writes in the court documents, according to Radar Online. "When I told him that would obviously kill me, he said, 'Oh well, I'd already be going to prison.'"

There was a period of silence but when the threats resumed, Nicole reportedly decided to file court papers detailing Lind's alleged steroid use — and she's now getting threats from other people, too.

More: Teen Mom 2 star Adam Lind has reportedly made a life-changing decision

"I am now getting threats through other people from Adam who has already severely physically harmed me," she writes in the papers.

According to Radar Online, sources told them that a temporary order of protection was denied because of insufficient evidence, although the court ordered a hearing to be held on April 28.

Let's hope the truth comes out about these allegations, in whoever's favor that might be in.

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11 Times

10,000 Buildings will 'Light It Up Blue' tonight for autism

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From London's Trafalgar Square to New York's famed Empire State Building, more than 10,000 buildings will be cast in blue light to honor those who struggle with autism.

In Cleveland, Ohio, the Terminal Tower will join CenturyLink Field, the Great Pyramid in Egypt, the Las Vegas "welcome" sign and One World Trade Center.

Here's Brooklyn Nets player Deron Williams and family flipping the switch to turn the Empire State Building blue.

Deron Williams Light it up Blue

Deron Williams Light it up Blue

Find a building in your area that's "Lighting It Up Blue" by visiting Autism Speaks and entering your zip code in its search tool. Other buildings that will light up the sky in sapphire light for autism include the Prince's Palace of Monaco, the Nelson Mandela Bridge in South Africa and the Ministry of Education in Kiev, Ukraine.

How do they do it? Turns out Home Depot and Philips teamed up to create a special "autism blue" light bulb to turn any home or building into a beacon of autism awareness called the Autism Speaks 25-Watt Incandescent A19 Transparent Blue Light Bulb. It's just $3, and there's still time to swap out your porch light before nightfall.

Autism Speaks light bulb

Image: Home Depot

Share photos of blue homes and buildings in your area on social media with the hashtag #LIUB, and show your support for those struggling with autism and for their loved ones.

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14 Awesome egg hacks you need in your life

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As someone who considers herself a pretty darn good cook, I feel fairly confident in my abilities in the kitchen. I can make pasta from scratch, grind my own burger meat, whip up fancy sauces and create delicious meals from random items in the fridge. But do not ask me to cook eggs. Just don't.

Eggs have my number. I can't scramble them, fry them or poach them. The end result is an overcooked and rubbery egglike substance. (And that's if I can even get them out of the pan.) I'll admit that I stopped trying some years ago, so now when eggs are required, the task falls to my husband. Maybe it's the generous amount of bacon grease he cooks them in, but his eggs taste better any day.

But now, HouseholdHacker tells us the microwave can make us look like egg-cooking geniuses. Sunny-side up and poached eggs with that perfectly runny yolk. Fluffy scrambled eggs that don't have the texture of chewing gum. Sure, my first choice isn't to microwave my food, but in the case of eggs, I'll take all the help I can get.

14 egg hacks

14 egg hacks

There's more cool stuff in the video too. Check it out... I'll be expertly cooking eggs in the microwave if you need me.

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Kitchen design trends we can't stop drooling over

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Striking red

This super contemporary kitchen, with its metallic red gloss lacquered doors and steel worktops, isn't for the faint-hearted.

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Kitchen trends 5

Photo credit: Scavolini Store Manila/Instagram

Elegant storage

The island is the focal point of this kitchen, with all crockery, food and other necessities out of sight inside the sleek lacquered cupboard units. Perfect for those who hate clutter.

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Kitchen trends 6

Photo credit: Scavolini Store Manila/Instagram

Warm tones and copper accessories

Metallics is a big trend for kitchens in 2015 but if gold leaf marble (yes, really) is a bit too ostentatious for your liking, go for copper. It's modern without being over the top and goes brilliantly well with rich, dark woods.

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Kitchen trends 8

Perfect peninsula

A well-designed peninsula pulls together the cooking, washing and eating areas of your kitchen and you don't have to have a huge space for it to work.

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Kitchen trends 7

Photo credit: Scavolini Store Manila/Instagram

Blue and white details

Blue and white is a classic kitchen colour palette and we love the fact that it can be both modern and traditional. Vibrant blue, turquoise and bright aqua adds a sense of calm no matter how hectic meal times get, which is probably why it is so popular for kitchens.

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Kitchen trends 1

Photo credit: Nickey Kehoe/Instagram

Marble and monochrome

If you already have a white kitchen you're halfway there with the monochrome trend. The grey cabinet doors and black stools create a contemporary, elegant colour palette in this kitchen.

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Kitchen trends 3

Photo credit: homepolish/Instagram

More: Country casual decor for the modern girl

Retro colours

The easiest way to give your kitchen personality is through colour. Retro colours are huge this season: teal blue, mustard yellow, olive green and burnt orange.

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Kitchen trends 10

Industrial design

Exposed beams, stainless steel and only the occasional pop of colour give a kitchen an industrial feel.

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Kitchen trends 4

Photo credit: House & Garden UK/Instagram

Pastel shades

Soft green, peach and lemon are great shades for a softer kitchen colour palette — without being too feminine.

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Kitchen trends 11

Walnut and grey

It's country cabin gone futuristic. Warm, welcoming brown and cool, calming grey is a surprisingly effective kitchen colour combination.

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Kitchen trends 12

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Give your decor a boost by incorporating these spring colour trends

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Deep rich blues and aquas. Berry, rose and peony pinks. Fresh summer meadow yellow. All shades of grey. With colours like these to play with, revamping your home this season is going to be your best decor project to date.

Grey is the hottest neutral for 2015

Combine soft grey walls with aqua and lemon yellow accents for a super fresh look.

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Spring/Summer colour palettes 1

Image: homepolish/Instagram

More: Modern ways to incorporate floral prints into your home

Monochrome is surprisingly versatile

Monochrome is huge this season. Add black and white accessories to your grey, blue and yellow colour scheme to add interest and give your room another dimension.

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Spring/Summer colour palettes 2

Image: homepolish/Instagram

Fast forward to a sunny summer's day

Sunflower yellow and aqua blue combined create a wonderful summer holiday vibe. Combined with white, this is the perfect colour palette for a bathroom or a teenager's bedroom.

Yellow/Blue

Yellow/Blue

Image: Jonathan Adler/Instagram

Yellow and grey always works

Mustard yellow and charcoal is a seriously classy combination. For a modern style update, make the focal point in the room yellow and keep everything else muted.

Yellow/Grey

Yellow/Grey

Image: homepolish/Instagram

Think pink and purple — the deeper the better

Deep pinks are romantic and feminine. Combine this versatile colour with sumptuous fabrics like velvet and faux fur for a touch of luxury — perfect for creating a welcoming sanctuary in a bedroom or snug.

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Pinks 1

Image: designlovefest/Instagram

Pink is in for spring 2015

Image: Sainsbury's

Take the plunge with paint box colour

You might not think to use blue, pink and yellow together but do it right and the results can be head-turning.

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Pinks 2

Image: grahamandbrown/Instagram

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Floral prints are making a comeback for spring and they're better than ever

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Think big, bold prints, bright colours and contemporary designs to keep your floral-themed decor fresh for spring 2015.

Don't worry about your colours clashing — in fact, embrace it

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Floral prints 5

Image: bri emery/Instagram

Floral prints are the perfect way to bring several colours into your space without it feeling overwhelming. The whimsical nature of the floral print will make the multitude of colours seem cohesive.

Mix in other modern or graphic patterns

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Floral prints 6

Photo credit: Home Beautiful/Instagram

Anything goes for modern florals. Mix floral prints with bedding and soft furnishings in abstract prints if you prefer the contemporary look. Remember to keep the rest of your decor, like paint colours or furnishings, understated if your floral pattern is extremely bold or detailed.

More: Spring home decor that doesn’t look like an Easter basket

Use metallics and heavily textured neutrals for an edgy style partnership

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Floral prints 8

Photo credit: Osborne & Little/Instagram

Rough textures can help add a little masculinity to balance the floral print, while metallics can be used to add a touch of sophistication.

Play with floral accessories

Floral prints for home decor 2015

Image: Sainsbury's, floral print photo frame, £8; teacup and saucer, £4; rose-print cushion, £15

If you want to play it safe keep a neutral base and introduce floral accessories. Scatter cushions and wall art are perfect for injecting a touch of spring into your home and they can be easily replaced from season to season. Florals look great on china but don't go for a matching set: collect tea cups and saucers in different patterns for a more eclectic, modern effect.

Use contemporary furniture and accessories for a modern finish

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Floral prints 4

Image: Graham and Brown/Instagram

The trick with floral prints is always to establish a balance in the room. To avoid making your space look outdated, opt for sleek and modern furnishings and other accessories that will provide a nice contrast to the more traditional floral prints.

Remember, florals don't have to be feminine

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Floral prints 1

Image: Graham and Brown/Instagram

Instead of pastels or brights, why not go for something darker? Floral prints can work in every room of your house if you choose wisely.

Pixelate your prints

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Floral prints 7

Image: Osborne & Little/Instagram

A really modern way to update the floral print trend is to go for a pixelated effect. It's a contemporary twist on the traditional floral and, if you stick to something in a fairly subtle shade palette, you can introduce pops of colour with accessories and textiles.

More home decor trends for spring

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Ditch the pastels, monochrome home decor is in for spring

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Monochrome is made for a home office

Monochrome is perfect for making a style statement in any room of your home. Create a gallery of black and white pictures on your wall, framed in sleek black. Or paint an old desk or cabinet black for an instant contemporary revamp.

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Monochrome 2

Photo credit: Ryan Korban/Instagram

Monochrome can be soft and subtle

Monochrome doesn't have to be geometric or bold and in your face. This dining room setting shows how black, white and grey can be used to achieve a muted, calming effect. The key is to avoid large blocks of any one colour and keep patterns fluid. Plenty of soft shades of grey will soften the effect of the black/white contrast.

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Monochrome 4

Photo credit: Kelly Wearstler/Instagram

Add grey and black accessories to a white backdrop

Add a lick of white paint and a few grey and black accessories and you can achieve the monochrome look without too much time, fuss or money.

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Monochrome 3

Photo credit: decordotsblog/Instagram

Mix monochrome with other colours, like blue, to tone it down a bit

If you're worried that a monochrome design might be too cold for your taste or might seem too modern, you can tone it down by bringing in another colour. Blue is the perfect backdrop for the bold and graphic nature of black and white.

Monochrome home decor for Spring 2015

Image: Sainsbury's, nibble bowl, £3; mug, £4; serving platter, £10; black woven and terry tea towels ,£8; monochrome woven baskets, £10; minimalist black velvet cushion, £6; graphic monochrome bath towels, from £6.

More: Country casual decor for the modern girl

Don't rule out those pastels just yet

We've said spring decor doesn't have to mean pastels but pastel shades actually work really well alongside monochrome and it softens the overall effect. Pale peach, soft olive green and lemon yellow can be fresh and inviting mixed in with black, white and grey. It's also a really versatile decor trick, as you can change your accessories with each new season, depending which colours you want to dominate, or to switch up the style. For example, you could replace this green velvet footstool with a sleek black coffee table and switch the cushions and lampshades for dark grey or black alternatives to create a more contemporary look.

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Monochrome 5

Photo credit: melodramablog/Instagram

Go for bold with monochrome wallpaper

If you're ready to fully embrace monochrome style, why not go all out and pick a patterned wallpaper? It will instantly transform your home. As a general rule, keep kitchen walls more white than black for a light, airy feel. Other rooms, such as your bedroom or living room, can be transformed into elegant spaces with darker wall coverings. Textured monochrome wallpaper adds a further touch of luxury.

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Monochrome 1

Photo credit: Ryan Korban/Instagram

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Country casual decor for the modern girl

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Mix your patterns

Don't be scared to mix up your patterns. Cushions are a great way to do this — go for different shapes and sizes for a casual look. Just stick to different tones of two or three colours to give it a contemporary twist.

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Country Casual Decor

Image: dominomag/instagram

Go yellow

Yellow is hot for spring/summer 2015 and the perfect colour to add to your home for a modern country feel.

Country casual decor for the modern girl

Image: Sainsbury's; wild flowers embroidered cushion, £15; yellow and grey check throw, £12; crisp bed linen, from £14; white crochet cushion, £12; lemon print platter, £12.

More: What are the trendy colour palettes for spring home decor?

Mix the old with the new

If you like a minimal look but still want to give your home a cosy, country feel, start with large areas of neutral colour (walls and flooring) and add carefully chosen but eye-catching accessories. For an up-to-date take on the country casual style, mix traditional, delicate floral prints in wooden frames with a retro piece in a brighter colour, such as this standout lamp.

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Country Casual Decor 2

Image: melodramablog/Instagram

Make it personal

Personalise items in your home for a look that's modern and 100 percent you. Any old piece of furniture can be upcycled to fit in with your overall theme. Give plain dressers and cabinets a distressed finish with chalk paint or decorate shelves and cupboards with patterned paper (découpage). Replace old knobs and handles to match your colour scheme and you have a whole new country style statement piece in your home — without spending a fortune.

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Country Casual Decor 3

Image: melodramablog/Instagram

What does country mean to you?

Remember country decor can mean different things to different people. You might take your inspiration from a friendly farmhouse, a rustic cabin or a quaint cottage. These open shelves with wrought iron fixings give this otherwise modern kitchen a fabulous country edge.

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Country Casual Decor 4

Image: betterwithage1/Instagram

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Triplets get married the same day in nearly identical dresses (PHOTOS)

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Well, at least the tops of their dresses were different (somewhat). Rafaela, Rochele and Tagiane Bini have always had similar styles and tastes (even in men), so when it came for them to tie the knot, doing it together made perfect sense.

However, it was actually the brides' parents who came up with the tri-wedding idea. Rafaela was the first to find her husband-to-be, followed closely by Rochele, who met her fiancé the following year. When Tagiane got engaged and the other two had yet to wed, their parents thought it would be a wonderful way to bring their family together. But how in the world did their father walk them all down the aisle?

He told the Daily Mail, "We decided that we would all walk down the aisle until half way down the church. From there, I would take one at a time." Well, that makes sense. That way each bride can have her moment, at least for 10 paces or so.

On the fateful day, the grooms admitted they were nervous about accidentally confusing their brides. The girls gave them and their guests a little help by carrying different-colored bouquets, and in the end, the grooms pulled through without any mix-ups.

Eduardo, who married Tagiane, said he had no problem recognizing his beloved. "Oh yes, I knew which one was mine, for sure. I knew as soon as she entered the church. She was the most beautiful." And I'm officially passing out from the cuteness.

The brides had a total of 18 bridesmaids following them down the aisle, each wearing a color that corresponded with the bouquet of the bride they were representing. After the ceremony, I imagine them all playing a huge game of capture the flag — at least, that's what would happen if it were my triplet wedding.

Ironically, when the girls went to get their hair and makeup done, they wanted to come out looking different from one another. However, like with most things in their lives, they all ended up going with exactly the same thing. "We tried a number of styles, but we all liked the same one. It's not even worth trying. It always ends up like that," said Rochele to the Daily Mail.

Now if these triplets end up having triplets and they all want to get married on the same day, Brazil is going to need to build a much bigger church.

Images: Diovane Moraes/Fotografia

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Pets and domestic violence: Why the new federal bill is crucial

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What it does: The bill prohibits threats or acts of violence against a pet and includes federal grants for securing safe shelter for victimized animals.

Why it matters: The bill is much-needed. Abusers often harm pets to punish their victims for leaving or to force them to return. In fact, the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence estimates that 71 percent of pet owners entering domestic violence shelters report that their batterer threatened, injured or killed their family pets.

Sadly, victims are more likely to postpone seeking safe shelter for themselves out of concern for their pets' safety. Nearly 40 percent of domestic violence victims are unable or unwilling to escape their abusers because they are too worried about leaving their pets behind. Pets provide added leverage for abusers to control victims and create fear.

Pets and domestic violence

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"Injury or death to pets during domestic violence situations is common and sad," says Dr. Steve Albrecht, a former domestic violence investigator for the San Diego Police Department and co-author of Ticking Bombs. "Animals can be kidnapped, injured, killed or turned over to shelters as a way of retaliation," he adds. "It's a complex mess."

How abuse affects animals

Monique Prince, a domestic abuse survivor from New Hampshire, suffered terrible abuse from her husband. "He hurt us a lot," says Prince. Unfortunately Micah, the family's pet cat, was a victim too.

"She started losing large patches of fur," recalls Prince. "I thought it was mange or some skin disease, but the vet said she had mental issues." The veterinarian explained that pet injuries that are "symmetrical" are typically caused by mental stress. Incredibly, Micah's fur immediately grew back after Prince's husband was out of the picture and the abuse stopped.

Laura Hildreth's pet was not so lucky. "My dog survived watching abuse and suffered when it was turned on him," says Hildreth. "Now, six years later, it's evident that he still suffers."

Pets are impacted by domestic violence even when they are not the subject of the abuse. People who are physically abusive toward humans are also physically abusive toward their pets, according to dog trainer Lauren Novack of Lauren's Leash in New York City. Pets living in such an unpredictable and hostile environment react in one of two ways.

"One common reaction is called learned helplessness," explains Novack. "Nothing the animal does causes the abuse to stop, so the animal shuts down — it will not want to play, go for walks or interact in any way. In humans, learned helplessness is called depression."

But the animal may react in a completely opposite way instead, exhibiting aggressive behaviors. "This pet is going on the offensive, telling its attacker to stay away," says Novack. "In both scenarios, the pet is stressed, scared and coping in whatever way it's able to, based on genetic predisposition and learning history."

Currently, many women's shelters are unable to accept pets. "This is just one of the many reasons that victims of domestic abuse do not leave their unhealthy situation," says Novack.

How to find help

While we wait for the PAWS Act to become law, domestic abuse victims with pets can seek help from programs that currently exist:

  • The Humane Society's directory of Safe Havens for Animals programs includes a state-by-state listing of pet-friendly shelters.
  • Animal Safety Net is a program offered by spcaLA. While domestic abuse victims seek the help and housing they so desperately need, ASN will care for their pets at no charge.
  • The Pets and Women to Safety program at the Animal Welfare Society provides free, confidential foster homes for pets belonging to victims of domestic violence who are in transition.
  • Additional help is just a phone call away: American Humane Association (303-792-9900) and National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE).

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10 Things to look for in a babysitter

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I know that for me, I have a special preference for one babysitter who kind of looks like me. Call me weird, call me narcissistic, but never call me late for an appointment. Our young babysitter's slight resemblance to my bubbly, responsible teenage self puts my mind at ease when we ditch our kids with her to go out in public once a month.

Just like falling in love, there is no rhyme or reason to choosing the perfect babysitter — beyond a clean criminal record and experience with kids. Trust me when I say that you won't find these top qualities on a babysitter's resume.

1. Anal-retentive

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What might be considered mildly annoying translates into the perfect babysitting trait when all she wants to do is tidy up instead of watch TV.

2. Cat-like reflexes

Cat

Image: Giphy

Can she catch a sippy cup of juice in midair? Can she grab the back of a shirt before a toddler tumbles down a flight of stairs? Congratulations, you're hired.

3. Convincing fake laugh

Britney Spears

Image: Giphy

All I want is a cheerful babysitter to fake laugh at my lame parenting jokes as I cut her a check at the end of the night. Is that too much to ask?

4. DVR proficient

Technology

Image: Giphy

Can she work a newfangled DVR and entertainment system without texting for help and passwords all night long? She's a keeper.

5. Fast texting thumbs

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When I text periodically to ask how the kids are doing, I want a speedy response, so get those texting thumbs ready. Please add several cute emojis to distract me from my separation anxiety.

6. Nice smelling hair

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A babysitter with nice smelling hair that you can sniff as you tearfully hug her goodbye when leaving your children for the first time is worth its weight in gold.

7. No boyfriend

Single ladies

Image: Giphy

No boyfriend means no chance I'll come home to find the babysitter boning on the couch. I like those odds.

8. No social life

Nerd

Image: Giphy

There's something to be said for a nerdy teen babysitter who will always, always be available when you call.

9. Strong forearms

Brad Pitt

Image: Giphy

Lifting toddlers in and out of cribs, stacking heavy toys, wrestling a baby to put on a diaper — does she have what it takes to get the job done?

10. Squeaky-clean Facebook rep

Katy Perry

Image: Giphy

We all have a right to a personal life, but nothing makes me feel better about my choice in babysitter than when she tags herself at church on Sunday or at the library on the weekend.

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If daylight saving time messed you up, imagine being autistic

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But some of us still managed to still wake up feeling drowsy, unprepared and late despite all the warnings. There are over 9,000 hashtags on Instagram dedicated to daylight saving time alone. Various images that display everything from red-eyed, bed-haired models stuck to a pillow with clothes that resemble comforters or super-sized coffee cups, and simple memes with the message, "I want my hour back."

Now, imagine feeling this way daily. At any given moment your clock sprung forward and despite notice, reminders and preparation for just such an event your entire way of being is disrupted because you function on having a routine. The system you've been working, practicing and attempting to master for perhaps the past 364 days, or longer, has just switched.

"You'll have to learn to adjust, life won't adjust to you." "It's not that big of a deal." "All I did was... " "What's wrong with you anyway, you look normal." That last comment is one I hear most often and it causes me a lot of concern as a parent of a 7-year old son with ASD, and as a responsible member of society.

These are some of the things people with autism hear consistently when their behavior doesn't match their look, and that behavior has been triggered by a routine change. As if autism has a look, or normal for that matter. The truth is when you or someone you love is living with autism, so are you. Perhaps even more so in the earlier years when you are their sole advocate and they appear to be unaware of how the world views them as different. Routine matters, consistency counts and when it's disrupted the return to the new normal can take unprecedented amounts of time. Change in the tiniest way is a big deal.

You will hear a lot about April 2 being Autism Awareness Day, see a lot of royal blue shirts and light displays and read more about autism than you normally would. But every day there's an opportunity to be aware of autism. One easy way is to think back to how you felt the first day of daylight saving time, and remember that you always have a 364-day notice. People with autism don't.

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Couple sues after N-word was printed on their wedding photos

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A couple from Texas who wish to remain anonymous got the shock of their lives when, one day after they were married in 2012, they reportedly discovered a horrible, racist phrase had been printed at the bottom of their photo booth pictures, and they suspect the photography company they hired was behind it.

The couple says every guest who had his or her photo taken in the photo booth, which was provided by Premiere Photos, had the heart-warming experience of getting a snapshot in return — with the words "Poor N***** Party" printed at the bottom.

racial slur on wedding photobooth photos

Image: ABC 13

Can you even imagine their faces? Luckily for the couple, they invited some mighty lovely and thoughtful people to their reception, because no one approached them to tell them about the slur, which would have obviously ruined their night. In fact, the couple didn't learn about this until months later, when the bride's sister finally broke the news to her, most likely because she felt her sister and brother-in-law deserved, at the very least, an explanation and apology — and that no other couple should have to go through this.

Sadly, they weren't shown the slightest bit of common courtesy or respect. The groom says he called James Evans, the owner of Premiere Photos, and was told they couldn't prove his company had anything to do with the slur, given the fact that there were more than 100 guests at their wedding. He also reportedly said they didn't seem emotionally distressed about the incident. Um, I believe the right answer would have been, "Holy cow, I'm really sorry that happened to you. That's outrageous and unacceptable. Let me look into this incident and get back to you as soon as possible."

The groom was instead given a two-word response: "Sue me."

Well, don't mind them if they do.

I'm not saying the company had anything to do with these horrible photos, as I obviously have no way of knowing. But the couple's attorney, Cathy Hale, claims the only thing they wanted was an apology and for someone to take their complaint seriously and find out if anyone on their team had anything to do with it. They paid this company money and deserve that much in return.

The couple is suing under the Texas Deceptive Trade Practices Act because they say the company practiced "negligence and breach of contract." Evans' attorney didn't want to comment to the press but has maintained his innocence and says there is no way to prove one of the couple's guests wasn't behind this.

Because, I suppose, couples often invite people who feel hostility toward them on the biggest day of their lives. Who wouldn't want to pay $100 a plate for a total jerk who secretly hates their guts, right?

With that said, who knows what really happened? All parties involved are scheduled to sit for a mediation, but if they can't agree at that point, the case will go to trial in July.

Racial slur on wedding photos

Racial slur on wedding photos

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Woman sentenced to 20 years in prison for miscarriage

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The conviction won't just send 33-year-old Purvi Patel to prison for decades — women's rights activists say it means anti-abortion laws can now to used to punish pregnant women.

Anti-abortion activists have long sought to have a fetus legally declared a person, making an unborn child a citizen carrying the same rights as a person who could live outside their mother's body. By having a fetus protected with the same rights as a person in the eyes of the law, abortion would be a crime equivalent to murder. And now, based on this conviction, any woman who suffers a miscarriage could now be charged with criminal neglect and murder.

Patel sought medical treatment in Indiana after miscarrying a pregnancy and disposing of the fetus in a garbage can. She panicked, according to her lawyers, because she is from a very conservative Hindu upbringing, in which a child born out of wedlock would have been shameful. But after miscarrying, she continued to bleed and sought medical treatment. Prosecutors charged her with giving birth to a live, viable fetus and leaving it to die.

Patel was sentenced by Indiana to a 30-year sentence for feticide. She'll serve about 20 years, according to reports.

"Purvi Patel's conviction amounts to punishment for having a miscarriage and then seeking medical care, something that no woman should worry would lead to jail time," Deepa Iyer, Activist-in-Residence at the University of Maryland's Asian American Studies Program and former director of South Asian Americans Leading Together, told NBC news about the feticide conviction.

Pregnant women already face a whole set of stigmas and judgments based on the idea that their body, once a child is conceived in her uterus, is no longer her own but simply a incubator. And with arguments like this and convictions for "feticide" holding up in court, will every woman who suffers a miscarriage have to prove they didn't do anything to cause it or face decades in prison?

Don't pregnant women and women of child-bearing age already have scrutiny on their womb? Are you having babies? Why are you having so many babies? Should you eat that? No deli meat. Are you really going for a fun in your condition? Where's your husband? You're going back to work?

Now you had better have an alibi in case you happen to miscarry. For those of you keeping score in the "War on Women," the chicks are losing.

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Teen with body of 100-year-old dies at 17, but inspires us all

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Hayley's mom made the sad announcement on her Facebook page last night: "My baby girl has gone somewhere better. She took her last breath in my arms at 9.39pm x."

Throughout her life, it was easy to see how Hayley continued to push on with courage and determination: Her devoted parents say they were "besotted" by her when she was born and that she continued to amaze them by walking at 10 months and showing impressive signs of intelligence. But progeria, which has been diagnosed in only 74 people in the world, doesn't affect the mind. Instead, it rapidly ages the body at eight times the normal rate and leaves its sufferers prone to conditions like arthritis, heart conditions and even baldness.

Before she passed away, Hayley was living life with the mind of a 17-year-old girl and the body of a 104-year-old woman.

After months of testing when Hayley was a baby, she was diagnosed with progeria and her devastated parents were given the grim news that she only had 13 years to live. She didn't waste a single second of her time. Both she and her family took part in numerous fundraising efforts to raise money and awareness for progeria. She was also the subject of several documentaries about her life, including World's Oldest Teenager: Extraordinary People. And, when most kids her age were worrying about a school dance, Hayley had her mind on her autobiography titled Old Before My Time.

The teen left school last year and traveled to the United States in order to receive a new drug treatment that everyone hoped would improve her condition. But, in recent weeks, she contracted pneumonia and her health worsened.

She was released from the hospital shortly before her death so that she could leave this world in peace in the comfort of her own home.

This is such a sad story and our hearts go out to Hayley's grieving family. But, at the same time, she was truly an amazing young woman who shared with us her struggle, her pain and her absolutely normal teen life (she totally had a crush on Justin Bieber and even got to meet him). Her wonderful parents made sure they took her around the world before she died and gave her the most fulfilling life a child could possibly have.

And the gifts that she passed on to others — hope and perspective — make us all lucky Hayley shared this universe with us.

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This watch costs $100,000 and is very, very dirty

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This watch is truly unique because when the button is pressed, the man and the woman sculpted from rose gold actually copulate. Really?

See a photo below:

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Now I don't know about you, but if I were going to buy myself a watch that costs as much as a medium-size home in the Midwest, I probably wouldn't want it to be dirty. The Ulysse Nardin original was unveiled at Baselworld at a convention of watch experts.

It's a fancy watch with an alligator band and many other striking features, but the piece that is the hardest to get over is that there are two people having sex on your wrist. Let's face it: Watches are passe. We all carry cell phones and most of us know how to ask for the time if we need it. So what's the point of this watch?

Maybe that's the genius. There is no point. It is a luxury beyond our wildest imaginings that costs as much as three brand new SUVs. Nevermind that there are children starving in this very country. Let's all buy this watch. Let's buy two!

Should I ever meet the man who wears this watch, I would turn and walk the other way. Not because he has people doing the deed on his wrist (although that is bizarre and kinky). No, I would walk away because the man clearly can't spot a gimmick. And who wants a man like that?

Would you ever buy this watch?

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Derick Dillard's latest tweet might be proof that Jill Duggar is in labor

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Jill's due date has come and gone (which is not particularly unusual for a first-time mom), but her husband just took to Twitter to write a cryptic message about the womb.

Derrick Dillard Twitter

Derrick Dillard Twitter

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Since this message, there's been much speculation as to whether that tweet is a way of telling the world baby Dilly has been born or that Jill is in labor. Fans have quickly responded to the message, saying, "omg this has to mean she is in labor!" and "I assume that means @jillmdillard is in labour. Good luck! #babydilly."

It could well be true given the content of the post and the timing (baby Dilly should be arriving any day now), not to mention the Duggars often use Bible quotes, so this could be Dillard's way of informing fans that he is officially a daddy — or at least fans hope so.

But before you get excited, we think it's best to wait for the official announcement since Josh Duggar already made fans skeptical when he teased that Jill had given birth to twins.

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"Congrats to @jillmdillard @derick4Him on the surprise birth — twins!!!" he tweeted as part of an April Fools' Day joke, adding "#19Kids #AprilFools."

Josh Duggar Twitter

Josh Duggar Twitter

UPDATE: It looks as though Derick has just confirmed the news that Jill is in labor, as he took to the family website on Friday to write a touching post about his firstborn son.

"I can't even describe right now the anticipation I am feeling, as I am about to get to meet my firstborn son for the first time face to face," he wrote. "So many people have already testified that nothing can quite describe that moment and that I'll just have to experience it for myself.

"When I look around, I can see new life everywhere. The trees are budding, which means summer is near. My wife, Jill, is beginning to have contractions which means that the birth of our son is near."

There you have it people — baby Dilly is on the way!

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