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Grubhub Launches Map Full of Woman-Led Restaurants

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If you've ever wished for a filter on your food-ordering app to specifically order from woman-run restaurants, Grubhub is here to save the day.

Grubhub launched a website called RestaurantHER this week. It features a crowdsourced map of 20,000 woman-led restaurants around the country. According to the RestaurantHER website, the restaurants included on the map are restaurants owned or co-owned by a woman or a kitchen led by a woman head or executive chef, including franchisee owners.

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RestaurantHER Grubhub map

"It's been a dramatic year for gender issues," Grubhub CEO Matt Maloney told BuzzFeed News. "There's not a lot we can do to modify the national conversation, but we do have a lot of scale in restaurants, and restaurant delivery specifically. When we recognized similar patterns of inequality in the segment of restaurants we work in, we thought, ‘what can we do to help these women out and try to promote more women coming out of the industry?' The map is about giving them additional exposure."

With women representing only 19 percent of chefs and 7 percent of head chefs across the culinary world — and women chefs earning 28 percent less in base pay than their male counterparts — it's definitely due time.

Do note, though, that this map is not integrated into Grubhub's apps, which includes Seamless, Eat24, Allmenus and MenuPages. So restaurantgoers will need to visit the RestaurantHER website to find a restaurant near them. Plus, the restaurants may or may not link to Grubhub to order. It's not quite perfect, but it's still a great step forward.

In addition to highlighting woman-led restaurants, Grubhub will also donate $1 (up to $1 million) for every pledge to dine in or order from the restaurants. The first $100,000 will go to the Women Chefs & Restaurateurs organization, which aims to advance women in the culinary industry. The pledging is open through March, which just happens to be Women's History Month. Perfect timing, right?

"From Grubhub to WCR and beyond, every RestaurantHER partner agrees that women in the culinary industry deserve equal opportunities and equal pay," the website states. "Across the business world, diverse workforces lead to better business outcomes. And promoting equality for women is simply the right thing to do."

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You can pledge your support to help make the restaurant industry a more equal place for women right here.


7 Things to Know About Greta Gerwig

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It's a good time to be Greta Gerwig. Actress, writer and now director, she is only the fifth woman to be nominated for Best Director by the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences. That alone is quite a distinction, but in this time of #MeToo and #TimesUp, Gerwig is also nominated for Best Screenplay, making her a double nominee for her coming-of-age film Lady Bird.

But the nominations don't stop there. Lady Bird is nominated for Best Picture and its lead actress, Saoirse Ronan, is nominated for Best Actress. That's all a very big deal, but where did Gerwig come from? How did she break out in such a big way? Here are seven things you should know about her and her work.

1. Lady Bird is autobiographical

Lady Bird

Though Gerwig's sophistication suggests she's a born and bred New Yorker, that isn't so. Gerwig grew up in Sacramento, California, and attended Catholic school, just like her heroine Lady Bird in the film. In real life, Gerwig yearned to go to New York and explore an artistic life. After she studied playwriting at Barnard, she soon she began working with filmmaker Joe Swanberg (Drinking Buddies), who wisely put her in front of the camera. She's been working steadily, making indie films ever since.

 2. Known as the "Meryl Streep of Mumblecore"

“Mumblecore” is a film genre known for subtle emotions, improvised dialogue and acting that’s so low key, mumbling is acceptable. After she started working with Swanberg, Gerwig became known as the “Meryl Streep of mumblecore” because, despite the mumbling, she had a strong inner life and the ability to play diverse characters.

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3. Her boyfriend, Noah Bombach, was married to Jennifer Jason Leigh when they met

Greta Gerwig in Greenberg

Writer/director Noah Baumbach cast Gerwig in his 2010 film Greenberg, a movie he co-wrote with his then-wife, Jennifer Jason Leigh. Baumbach and Gerwig's chemistry was so overwhelming, Baumbach ended up leaving Leigh for Gerwig, despite having an infant son with Leigh. Gerwig and Baumbach now live together in New York, and it seems to have had a positive effect on Gerwig's creative output.

4. Gerwig co-wrote two films with Baumbach

Perhaps she was Baumbach's muse. They collaborated on Frances Ha and Mistress America, with Gerwig starring in both. Gerwig told SheKnows that she's learned a lot from Baumbach about writing screenplays, especially when it comes down to reining in her many ideas. “I'm much messier and disorganized," she admits.

5. Muse no longer

Greta Gerwig

Coming off a win for Best Woman Director at the Alliance of Women Film Journalists Awards and a Golden Globe nomination for Best Screenplay for Lady Bird, Gerwig's proven that she's a woman to be reckoned with in Hollywood and can likely (perhaps literally) write her own ticket when it comes to her next project. Could she direct the next female superhero movie? We think so.

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6. She uses what she learned an actress when she's writing

Gerwig has spent a great amount of time creating characters as an actress. This means doing a lot more work than just giving a character a history or a bio. Great actors create ways to inhabit characters physically. They may give them a vocal quality that's different from their own, and they give them secrets and flaws. It's only after these "people" are fleshed out that Gerwig will create an outline for her screenplay.

"I don't start with structure. For me, that comes later," Gerwig said. "I start with moments and people. I find that the story comes from the characters. Structure is very important to me — the way a plot is woven and moves — but it's not something I can figure out ahead of time. I outline, but later. After I have it, then an outline becomes useful. Then I know what the skeleton is."

7. She knows how to let go and allow the actors to make their parts their own

Lady Bird

Gerwig understands that actors need to create their own secret world away from the writer or director. Adding their personal creative alchemy is what makes good characters great.

“Part of being an actor is really having to own the character, and if someone is always telling you, 'No, no, no, it's like this, it's like that,' you never really feel like the part is yours. My job was to create a perimeter so they could take it over from me, because it wasn't mine anymore," Gerwig said.

More: 18 Movies You Need to See Before Awards Season

Gerwig can next be heard in the animated film Isle of Dogs, and she will share the screen with Mia Wasikowska and John Turturro in the film Bergman Island. Lady Bird is currently playing in theaters.

This Season of The Bachelor Won't End the Way You Expect It To

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The current season of The Bachelor has been a little bit of a snoozefest, and ratings have been weaker than any other season that's ever aired. Viewers just aren't connected to Arie, who they hadn't seen on a franchise show in six years before this stint as the leading man, and he hasn't really done anything to capture our attention either.

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For a show that constantly promises "The most dramatic (fill-in-the-blank) in Bachelor history," this season has been distinctly lacking in any interesting drama ever since villain Krystal Nielson was sent home during Week 5 after an awkward two-on-one date with Kendall. But is that all about to change on the final episode? It sounds like it's a possibility.

A source close to the show's production has told Us Weekly that Arie isn't going to end up with the woman who nabs the final rose and the Neil Lane engagement ring.

"Arie had a change of heart," a show insider told the site. "He began to think he’d picked the safer option."

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Apparently, about two months after the final episode, after staying in Peru to spend time with his new fiancée and then meeting up several times back in the U.S., Arie started to see the error in his ways.

"He had second thoughts," the source explained. "He realized who he really wanted to be with and really loved. He just couldn’t stop thinking about the other woman."

And so, the insider said, Arie met up with his fiancée again — to break things off. Of course, he did this with ABC's cameras in tow and then, still being filmed, went to the runner-up's home and begged for a second chance. It sounds like the breakup could provide the drama we've been yearning for this season.

"Arie didn’t handle the situation well," the source dished. "He wasn’t sympathetic or even very nice."

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The insider isn't sharing whether the scorned fiancée is Becca or Lauren, so you'll have to tune in on Monday to find that out. Will it be the most dramatic conclusion in Bachelor history? We're about to see.

Meghan Markle Weighs In on the #MeToo Movement Ahead of Her Royal Wedding

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Meghan Markle has always been a proud advocate for the empowerment of women. And now that she's about to have her voice elevated to one of the most public and trusted stages in the world, that of the British royal family, she's ramping up her efforts to use her voice and her platform to advocate for women all over the world.

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Markle sat in on a forum alongside her fiancé, Prince Harry, and her future sister-in-law, Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, formerly known as Kate Middleton, to talk about the future of the Royal Foundation and how she plans to contribute to the family's philanthropic efforts once she officially becomes a royal this coming May.

Meghan Markle talks about the royal foundation

Meghan Markle talks about the royal foundation

"I hear a lot of people saying when speaking about girls empowerment, finding and knowing their worth and women's empowerment as well — you'll hear often people say, 'Well, you're helping women find their voices,'" Markle said. "I fundamentally disagree with that because women don't need to find a voice — they have a voice. They need to feel empowered to use it and people need to be encouraged to listen."

Preach, Meghan!

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She continued, "I think right now in the climate we're seeing with so many campaigns, with Me Too and Time's Up, there's no better time than [now] to really continue to shine a light on women feeling empowered and people really helping to support them — men included in that. It makes such a tremendous difference."

Markle is clearly looking forward to getting to work changing the world, because she ended her speech by saying, "I guess we wait a couple months and then we can hit the ground running."

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We could not possibly be more excited for this woman to join the royal family, and May cannot come soon enough.

How to Start a College Savings Fund for Your Kids

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Are you hoping to send your child to college someday? Well, we hate to break it to you: That plan ain't cheap. Tuition is on the rise, and prices will likely continue to escalate as your kids get older. But don't throw up your hands in despair and decide to take out every loan under the sun just yet.

Instead, start by understanding approximately how much you need to save. The World's Simplest College Cost Calculator at Savingforcollege.com is a good place to start. Then, review your college savings account options so you can find the best fit for your family (and your finances). With a little guidance, it can actually be easy. Yes, we're shocked too.

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529 college savings plans

A 529 plan is an education savings plan operated by a state or educational institution and intended to help families set aside funds for future college costs. The name comes from Section 529 of the Internal Revenue Code, which established these types of savings plans in 1996. The value of your fund fluctuates based on the market value of the investment.

The State of College Savings survey, published in August 2012, showed that 30 percent of the 800 parents surveyed are investing in a 529 college savings plan. Tax-free benefits and the cost of college were cited as key motivations. According to the College Savings Foundation, the organization that conducted the survey, parents owning 529 plans are dramatically more successful at saving than those without.

There are three types of 529 plans:

529 savings plan

These function like a 401(k) or Roth IRA, investing your contributions into mutual funds or other investment options. Find a link to state 529 savings plans at FinAid.

529 prepaid tuition plan

These allow you to prepay the cost of in-state college tuition. The value can be transferred to private universities or out-of-state schools, but in some states, the full value cannot be transferred. Find a link to prepaid tuition plans at FinAid.

Private 529 plan

This plan allows you to prepay for future tuition at participating private colleges and universities at today's prices. Learn more and see a list of participating educational institutions at Private College 529 Plan.

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Coverdell education savings accounts

A Coverdell ESA lets parents contribute up to $2,000 per year into an account for future education expenses. Contributions are not deductible, but the account can grow tax-free until funds are withdrawn. If the funds are used for college expenses, the distributions will not be taxed. More information on this type of savings account is available at the IRS website.

College savings with insurance

There are some college savings plans that combine savings with life insurance in a single plan. You simply save a set amount of money each month for a set amount of time, and during that time frame, the parent receives life insurance coverage. The child can then use the funds from the plan to pay for college or pursue other dreams. This is a good option for individuals who don't like the risk of 529 plans that could lose value if the stock market goes down.

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Custodial accounts

In simple terms, custodial accounts are trusts for minors. The donor designates a trustee and the name and Social Security number of the minor. The minor takes possession of the investment upon turning 18 or 21, depending on the type of custodial account and the state where it is held. The value of a custodial account can have an impact on a student's ability to qualify for financial aid, so make sure you understand your options if investing in a custodial account. Learn more about custodial accounts at FinAid.

How do I know where to start?

With so many different choices, it’s easy to get overwhelmed. But taking a close look at the pros and cons of each type of savings plan will ensure that hard-earned cash doesn’t go to penalties — and college-bound kiddos can use their accounts for exactly what they need, whether it’s room and board or that semester abroad. Of course, getting serious and enlisting the help of a pro is never a bad idea. A financial planner can discuss the finer points of each and every savings plan and help parents reach their goals without getting lost in a tangle of IRS laws, Sallie Mae jargon and trust fund rules and regulations.

Please note: Articles and other information included on this website are intended for the general interest of our readers and are not intended to provide and do not constitute legal, financial, health or other advice.

How to start a college savings fund for kids


Ashton Kutcher & Mila Kunis Prove They're Still So in Love

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Is there any celebrity couple with a sweeter love story than that of Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis? They played love interests on-screen in That '70s Show, were friends for literal decades, were in each of their own failed relationships and then fell in love. Like, they should be a movie.

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This week, they showed us with some PDA how ridiculously cute and meant-to-be they are, and honestly, I cannot get enough of it. They were on an adorable date night to the Los Angeles Kings' home hockey game against the Vegas Golden Knights at the Staples Center Monday, Feb. 26 when they got caught on everyone's favorite sports-themed romantic comedy plot device, the kiss cam.

Of course they went in. But not before hamming it up a little for the crowd. Kunis initially looked surprised, while Kutcher prepped for their big moment by overexcitedly licking his lips. Obvi, the crowd loved it, because everyone loves it, because these two are perfection. Be still, my heart.

More: Mila Kunis Promises She & Ashton Kutcher Won't "Raise Assholes"

Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis caught on a kiss cam

Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis caught on a kiss cam

Ugh, can you even handle them? They are too good. Too good and too pure for this world.

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Kunis and Kutcher have been married since 2015, and they mostly keep their relationship private and under wraps; they didn't even attend a red carpet event together as a couple until last year. They have two adorable kids and one adorable relationship, and please, just more of this out of them forever. That would be just fine.

Salma Hayek Posts Rare Twinning Pic With Daughter Valentina

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If you've been thinking A Wrinkle in Time is the perfect movie to see with your son or daughter, congrats! Because you have something in common with Salma Hayek. The Oscar nominee and her 10-year-old daughter, Valentina, attended the premiere of Ava DuVernay's highly anticipated film on Monday night — and they struck an adorable pose with Rowan Blanchard.

Hayek rarely shares photos of Valentina, but she posted this one to Instagram, and the sweet pic shows the striking resemblance between the two. "With @rowanblanchard making a Valentina sandwich at the 'A Wrinkle in Time' premiere// haciendo un sándwich de Valentina con Rowan en la premiere de #awrinkleintime #girlpower," Hayek captioned the post.

Salma Hayek Daughter Valentina Wrinkle in Time Premiere

Salma Hayek Daughter Valentina Wrinkle in Time Premiere

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Although she posts pics sparingly, Hayek frequently shares loving anecdotes about Valentina in interviews. Last year, she told People Valentina's a budding entrepreneur who specializes in making slime.

“She got into learning how to make slime," Hayek told the outlet. "She has a lot of it in the house. She has developed like 40 different recipes for slime and she became very popular in school because it’s not easy to make. Now she’s experimenting with different things and the kids all want to learn and she teaches them, and then they want to buy it from her, she started selling the slime!”

Sounds pretty savvy to me — if Valentina succeeds in the slime industry (it's a thing, OK?), perhaps she has a future at Nickelodeon.

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Although photos of Valentina are few and far between, Hayek also shared a pic of herself and her mini-me celebrating Valentine's Day last year.

Salma Hayek Daughter Valentine's Day

Salma Hayek Daughter Valentine's Day

If the whole slime-making business doesn't work out, Valentina just might have the acting chops to follow in her mom's footsteps. Hayek told Hola! magazine her daughter is a natural in front of the camera. Or maybe she'll find a way to balance being a professional slime-preneur and an actor. The possibilities are really endless.

Can Yoga Help With Fertility Issues?

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When it comes to yoga, there are often two camps of people: those who love it and those who ask, “Why bother?” I can definitely see both sides. After all, yoga won’t cure you of your student debt or buy your car a new set of tires.

Everyone knows yoga will help increase your flexibility and build up muscle strength, both of which alone are good reasons to do it — not to mention there are legitimate health benefits of regularly doing yoga. From helping ease back pain to rekindling a sense of focus, yoga is beneficial to the lives of many. It may seem unlikely at first glance, but one of the lesser-known reasons to practice yoga is to help with the fertility of people who wish to conceive.

So what exactly is fertility yoga? Hethir Rodriguez, a certified herbalist, massage therapist and doula who specializes in fertility, says fertility yoga is a specific form of yoga that helps one “nurture, support and strengthen the endocrine and reproductive system.” 

The endocrine system, aptly nicknamed the "hormone system," is made up of a series of glands such as the pituitary, thyroid, ovaries and testes along with the hormones the various glands produce. Therefore, doing yoga poses that help promote a healthy endocrine function strengthens one’s reproductive system, potentially increasing the chances of conceiving.

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Attempting to conceive, especially the longer it takes to do so, can be a very stressful time for people. A study published in the journal Fertility and Sterility shows that the more added psychosocial stress a person puts on their body, the harder it is for them to conceive. If the stress is bad enough before and during a pregnancy, it could even potentially cause infertility in future children, leaving a lasting genetic legacy.

Dr. Rahul Sachdev, a reproductive endocrinology and infertility specialist at Robert Wood Johnson Medical School, said people who have been dealing with infertility issues long-term “are extremely stressed out.” He noted that “the health-enhancing benefits of yoga” mixed with “innovative medical intervention” helps relieve infertility-related stress. That stress relief then vastly improves someone’s chances of conceiving.

I talked with a cis lesbian couple who attempted to conceive using a friend’s sperm about how hard it was for them to conceive and eventually have a baby. The partner that carried the baby said, “We went through a miscarriage and a whole lot of pain before we were finally able to have our baby.”

Her partner agreed and added, “I can only imagine how hard it would have been to have a baby if we weren’t lucky enough to know someone that wanted to help us.” When asked if they thought the extra financial stress of having to do fertility treatments would have made it harder for them to have a child, they responded, “Oh yes, it definitely would have. We were already at our wit’s end.”

As a couple, they began attending fertility yoga classes, and within six months found out they were pregnant. Their first child was born at the end of 2017.

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It seems physically getting pregnant isn’t the only benefit of fertility yoga for those who practice it regularly. A joint study conducted by the Fertility Centers of Illinois and the Rush University Medical Center found that people who did just 45 minutes of yoga a week saw their anxiety reduce by an average of 20 percent in just six weeks. Chronic anxiety and stress can impact ovulation by interrupting signals to the hypothalamus and actually make a person ovulate less. It can also affect sperm count, making conception harder.

Attending classes for fertility yoga also has its advantages. According to Dr. Alice Domar, the executive director of Domar Centers for Mind/Body Health and director of integrative care at Boston IVF, fertility yoga classes allow someone the chance to interact with people similarly experiencing fertility problems, offering a social support system. A feeling of acceptance can be vital for the mental health and stress levels of someone having a hard time having a baby.

Yasaman Dehkordi, a 31-year-old from Maryland, had three miscarriages before discovering fertility yoga. She said everyone “who attended [was] experiencing the same feelings and going through different steps of the journey, which in ways helps you on your journey. The best part — we felt like we weren’t alone.”

Domar also stated that doing yoga for fertility allowed people to relax their bodies and “establish a more loving connection with a body they may feel angry at for failing them.” She also recommends doing fertility yoga with a spouse or partner, which allows physical intimacy in nonsexual manner, citing that sex often “becomes emotionally charged and linked with failure,” especially after failure to conceive. Yoga benefits the general health of a person, improving sleep, increasing body image and improving nutrition, all of which increase the chances of conceiving.

More: Infertility Myths That Need to Go Away Right Now

As a practice, fertility yoga may be able to help decrease your anxiety if nothing else. I asked the lesbian couple who recently had a baby how they thought yoga helped them conceive, and the partner who gave birth said, “It just made me feel like myself again, who I was before trying to get pregnant took over our lives. It helped me get through my grief [of the miscarriage]. Over time, I could feel myself growing. It was mental and physical. Then one day, I noticed I hadn’t gotten my period for a while, took a test and found out I was pregnant. It was the best day of my life.”

By Kelley O'Brien


PSA to New Moms: Kylie Jenner's First Postpartum Month Is Not Normal

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ICYMI, Kylie Jenner welcomed her first child on Feb. 1 — and baby Stormi Webster is already destined for stardom. Less than 24 hours after Jenner shared the first photo of Stormi, it had already become the most-liked post on Instagram. (The pic is now up to 17.5 million likes, but who's counting?)

The new mom, who gets by with a little help from her friends — and family and nannies — is already back to work as she prepares to launch her latest collection for Kylie Cosmetics. Jenner just posted photos of herself wearing the new eye shadow and lipstick designs — and shared that the new line is called The Weather Collection because... it was inspired by Stormi. All together now: Awww.

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Kylie Jenner Weather Collection 1

Kylie Jenner Weather Collection 1

According to People, these photos were taken shortly after Stormi's birth. The Weather Collection launches today on the Kylie Cosmetics website, so it seems this has been quite a busy month for Jenner.

Kylie Jenner Weather Collection 3

Kylie Jenner Weather Collection 3

Last week, Jenner shared that she worked on the collection throughout her pregnancy. "Before I open my newest collection I just wanted to tell you guys a little bit of the background,” she told fans in an Instagram story. “I worked on this pretty much my entire pregnancy. And right after we chose Stormi’s name, her name really inspired me.”

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The Stormi-inspired collection features two eye palettes, three matte lipsticks, four glitter eye shadows, an eyeliner and a highlighter. Quite a haul for a 3-week-old baby!

Between racking up Instagram likes and being the muse for a makeup collection, it looks like Stormi is on track to become a key player in the Kardashian-Jenner family brand. And we'd expect nothing less.

Hiring Managers Tell Us About the Most Common Résumé Mistakes

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You've been scanning sites like Indeed and Craigslist for weeks (months, even) in hot pursuit of potential employment. Then one morning, you find it — the listing for your dream job! You spruce up your résumé and send it over, willing it to be a match. Only unbeknownst to you, it contains the kind of red flags that make hiring managers consider you a nonstarter.

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So what should you do to ensure your résumé doesn't end up in the recycling bin? Well, we've got something even better than a to-do list for you: a to-don't list. We tapped hiring managers to find out what mistakes and faux pas will tank your chances of getting the job. Here's what they had to say.

1. Don't ghost the employer

"The most 'annoying' mistake on a résumé is not seeing a phone number. You would be surprised the amount I have seen without a phone number to call back — or sometimes even a name! The candidate could have the perfect qualifications, and we would have no way of contacting them for the position. We'd just have to pray for a callback." — Susan L., medical field

"If you are applying for a job, answer your emails and your phone! Don’t expect me to text you." — Katie D., food and beverage industry

"It never looks good when you call the applicant and their voicemail isn’t set up, is full or has a ridiculous song to listen to." — Andrea L., social work field

2. Don't forsake grammar rules

"Bad grammar is an instant red flag for me. If the applicant is not capable of submitting an adequate application, then I question their ability in all areas." — Sabrina O., medical field

"Grammar is a given for me. If you can’t take the time to use spellcheck or properly capitalize appropriate words... pass." —  Misti G.

"Grammar, punctuation, sentence structure and the like are important. And those pesky run-on sentences drive me nuts." — Anne M., home and design industry

3. Don't play hide-and-seek with your references

"I prefer an attached reference list so that I don’t have to ask for it later." — Angel W., medical field

"Personally, I prefer references and their contact information to be included on the résumé. I don't want to have to contact you for 'references upon request.'" — Emily M., veterinary field

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4. Don't underestimate the importance of skimmability

"Several things come to mind: poor grammar, wordy descriptions instead of bullet points, fancy fonts that are hard to read. It needs to be easy to read and neat." — Angel W., medical field

"When lines are not properly indented. Résumés should be easy to read quickly. You don’t want to stand out because you have 43 different indentions on one page. Nice, neat, simple and sweet!" — Misti G, medical field

5. Don't forget to create a professional email account

"I really don't like unprofessional email addresses like 'kittycat69' or 'iluvjesus.' I've seen these! It's not hard to set up a professional email." — Brooke N., media industry

"Unprofessional email addresses make me crazy. Just use your name! I can't take you seriously otherwise." — Emily M., veterinary field

"When you get to the point of sending out a professional email, maybe don’t have an unprofessional email address as your contact on your résumé — like hotmommalookenforagdtime [...], for example (really)." — Andrea L., social work field

"True story: I threw away peanutbutterbutt (insert random numbers because there is more than one peanut butter butt@email address). I cannot stand unprofessional email addresses." — Lindsey S., marketing field

6. Don't pad your résumé with too much filler

"Empty words. Everyone is a 'motivated leader' or an 'exceptional so-and-so' these days. Use numbers. Use stats. Give me some concrete facts to go on about how you’ve moved the needle and contributed at your other jobs". — Katie D., food and beverage industry

"Mainly, I dislike the generic goal statements full of empty buzzwords. They tell me nothing about a candidate other than that they can download a résumé template online. I appreciate honesty and a little personality, so including something that makes the person behind the paper stand out makes all the difference. Don't get too personal, but be real." — Emily M., veterinary field

7. Don't pad your résumé too much period

"Don’t have a three-page résumé when you’ve been working for five years — you haven’t earned that much text yet!" — Lindsey S., marketing field

"Two pages. No." — Katie P., health and fitness field

8. Don't leave inconsistent experience unexplained

"Job timelines that are extremely short — even though the candidate is well over 25 and should have established at least one stable job — make me question not only their commitment but whether or not they were fired early on. We would throw these out as soon as we got them when I was supervisor." — Emma R., social work field

"Above grammar, jumping around of jobs. Big red flag!" — Erin P., home and design industry

"I look at length of employment with previous jobs and for gaps in employment. I don't want to hire someone that is going to leave a few months after we invest in training them. If a gap in employment is related to raising family or some kind of event like that, that is fine. Some people just leave a gap when they don't want to document multiple short-term positions or someone they left in bad graces." — Crystal G., medical field

More: 5 Easy, Brilliant Ways to Refresh Your Résumé

9. Don't use the wrong verb tense

"A really major one is verb tense — if you no longer work at a company, your job description should not be in the present tense!" — Dionne G., interior design industry

"I highly dislike improper use of tense." —  Jennifer M., marketing field

10. Don't be too casual

"I used to be the first in line to review résumés before they went to the director. The applicants were required to be certified teachers, and I could not believe the spelling and grammar mistakes! Also, I often came across résumés that used things like 'lol' and ' :).' Those résumés never made it to the director's desk." — Melissa V., photography field

"Someone put 'I wear many hats' as a skill once, and we all laughed so hard we couldn't take the rest seriously. Knew what she meant, just couldn't stop picturing her trying on hats." — Kelli W., media industry

11. Don't submit something sloppy

"I cringe when I am handed dirty, folded résumés or if I print out a résumé and the formatting is unbelievably off." — Dionne G., interior design industry

"We had someone lay their résumé on the bed (which was not even made), take pictures and send them in for review. Next." — Katelyn J., home and design industry

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12. Don't neglect to give it a thorough read-through

"I saw a typo once that read, 'I always give 10 percent for everything I do.' Really? Wow. What a go-getter. That extra 0 would have made a world of difference." — Kelli W., media industry

Katy Perry Is Dating Her Ex Again — Can You Guess Which One?

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Well, well, well. What do we have here? It looks like Katy Perry has up and decided to get cozy with one of her ex-boyfriends recently, and it's happening not that long after she split up with him. That's right: Perry is reportedly hooking up with Orlando Bloom these days, but the two are gun-shy about making any sort of public declaration of their renewed love. Sneaky, sneaky!

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According to Us Weekly, rumors about Perry and Bloom's reconciliation have been going strong for a couple of weeks now, with the pair seemingly together and keeping it very low-key. A key example being used in Us Weekly's report is that shortly after the reconciliation rumors began, Perry attended her brother's wedding in Santa Barbara alone.

Interestingly, while at the wedding, Perry made a reference to Bloom in her wedding toast to her brother. According to a source, Perry quipped about Bloom, "We’re on good terms — but not good enough for him to come as my date to the wedding." She also made a little bit of a scene when she caught the bouquet during the traditional wedding bouquet toss and proceeded to literally run away from the reception venue with what could be read as a mixture of happiness and faux-horror (meant to be part of the joke) because, as we all know, catching the bouquet means you're the next one to get married.

Katy Perry Wedding Toss Insta

Katy Perry Wedding Toss Insta

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For now, they may not be going public, but all the whispers from inside sources point to the fact that they're very much back together. Right now, the biggest obstacle is actually finding the time to get cozy because they both have crazy schedules (welcome to the world of singledom, you two!). "They’re hooking up when they can," a source noted to Us Weekly, adding, "It’s very exciting."

Katy Perry OMG

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It's been a year (almost to the day) since reports broke in March 2017 that Perry and Bloom had split after 10 months together. The pair, who seemed very happy and very close during their courtship, may be looking to rekindle that fun, sexy flame that seemed to keep their relationship alight. It will no doubt be interesting to see if these two will officially get together, but for now, you can't blame 'em for wanting to just have a little fun.

These Are the Kinds of Baby Gifts Oprah Winfrey Gives

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If you're an A-list celebrity, you're probably a little bit hard to shop for. Anything you don't already have, you're more than capable of getting for yourself. And as we've already seen from Mindy Kaling's Instagram stories of the gifts she and her baby girl, Katherine, have received since the little babe's birth was announced, companies and other celebs are eager to shower you with everything you could possibly need to rear a child.

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So, what do you give that A-lister to celebrate the birth of their baby? Something heartfelt, of course. And who is guaranteed to give the best heartfelt gifts in the whole, entire world? Oprah Winfrey, duh.

In a new interview with USA Today, Kaling spilled the beans on what she received from Winfrey, her A Wrinkle in Time costar, after Katherine was born. And whoa, this is the best baby gift we've ever heard of in our lives.

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"I got a call from my assistant. She said, 'Oprah's assistant contacted me, she'd like to drop off a present.' I'm thinking, that's so nice, like, [it's] probably flowers. I had a kid, I'm a single mom. That's really nice Oprah remembered," Kaling said.

Nope. Not flowers.

"They arrived with a hand-carved bookcase, prettier than any professional dollhouse you had ever seen, that contained a hundred of the classic essential books in children's literature," Kaling continued. "Each book has 'Katherine's Book Club' on it."

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Welp. That's it. Winfrey wins. You'll never top that. But just so you know, when you're not an A-list star and one of the richest people on the planet, flowers are probably just fine.

Christina El Moussa Could Remarry This Year

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Is another trip down the aisle in store for HGTV darling Christina El Moussa? She's only been with her new boyfriend, British TV host Ant Anstead, for a couple months now but reports have emerged indicating that she might be ready to take the plunge into marital bliss once again.

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According to Life & Style, sources close to El Moussa and Anstead say that this newly-formed couple is already feeling the love in a very serious, very committed "Let's get married and soon" kind of way. "They would love to get married, and they’re discussing it already," one source to the magazine. "Christina knows Ant is 'the one,' and the feeling is mutual."

Christina El Moussa Valentine Insta

Christina El Moussa Valentine Insta

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Moving on and finding happiness is definitely a reason to celebrate (who wouldn't want that?), but there's just one hiccup to El Moussa and Anstead's plans that could delay things slightly: Anstead is still married. Don't worry: these lovebirds aren't brazenly showing off an affair on social media while Anstead is still married or anything dramatic like that. Anstead's married status is a technicality, Life & Style also notes, as he separated from his wife back in the summer of 2017. While the two share custody of their children, it's clear that they've both decided to move on with their lives while they sort the legal bits out. A source close to Anstead told Life & Style: "Ant and Louise were childhood sweethearts, and they remain on good terms. It's unlikely that their divorce will be long and messy."

Christina El Moussa Valentine Insta 2

Christina El Moussa Valentine Insta 2

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Interestingly, Anstead isn't the only one who's gotten the thumbs up from his former spouse when it comes to moving on; El Moussa apparently has also gotten Tarek El Moussa's thumbs up about her choice of partner, too. "Tarek has given them his seal of approval. He's pleased she's found happiness with an age-appropriate, decent guy," an insider told Life & Style.

It's good to see that everyone is moving on and sorting out the little things in order for a happy ending to be had by all. Now, all we need is to see if and when El Moussa and Anstead get engaged; start crossing those fingers.

Wendy Davis on Her Epic Filibuster & Whether She'll Run for President

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When Wendy Davis first burst onto the national political scene, she was a state senator from Texas who completed an 11-hour filibuster in opposition of legislation that threatened to severely limit access to reproductive health care in the state. Now, nearly five years later, she’s still standing up for the rights of women and marginalized populations. SheKnows recently had a chance to speak with Davis about her thoughts on running for office, her current projects and that historic filibuster.

Fili-busting onto the national stage

At 11:11 a.m. on June 25, 2013, Davis stood up in the senate chamber of the Texas Capitol wearing her now-iconic pink sneakers. Her goal was to stay there and talk until midnight, at which point time would have run out on a special legislative session called because of a bill that would have restricted abortion rights in the second-largest state (by both population and land area) in the country.

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Senate Bill 5 had already passed once in the Senate, with every Democrat except one voting against it, Davis says. At that point, it went over to the House, which added a ban on abortions after 20 weeks. Because of that change, the legislators knew that it had to go back over to the senate on the very last day of the session.

“The way the rules work in Texas, unlike in the U.S. Senate, is that we can’t choose to filibuster at any time — just when we have the opportunity to run the clock out on a session,” Davis explains. “We only have this opportunity if a bill of tremendous importance is coming in for passage before the session ends — it’s very rare.”

Typically, she says, the party in power understands that if there’s a controversial bill that they want to pass, they need to do it early in session so there’s no threat of this filibuster situation happening. Davis says that it was a “strategic misstep on behalf of Republican members of the House” to try to pass this abortion bill on the last day of a special session.

Luckily, Davis and the Democrats had a few days to determine whether they wanted to go through with a filibuster, who would stand and filibuster the bill, and their strategy for filling 13 hours on the Senate floor with material related to the bill. Another way that Texas filibuster rules deviate from those in the U.S. Senate is that all of the talking involved has to be on the topic of the bill in question — so no getting off topic or reading the phone book is allowed.

Ultimately, the Texas Democrats in the Senate decided to filibuster and that Davis was the person best fit for the job, and at 11:11 a.m. on the last day of the special session, she took the floor.

Initially, Davis says, she purposefully avoided looking at the clock for as long as she could, feeling a little stressed about the mental and physical stamina required to get through the full 13 hours.

“The first time I remember looking at the clock, it was between three and four in the afternoon, and that was about the time that the Republican Senators started calling points of order on me, and it was at that point that I realized they were going to be playing dirty pool,” Davis says.

“Points of order” — a tactic used in legislative bodies that calls out apparent violations of the chamber’s rules, frequently as a stalling tactic — had never been called before in Texas history, she added.

On top of that, there are even more strict rules for filibusters in Texas that she had to contend with, including not being able to drink anything, lean on the podium or take breaks to go to the restroom. They also have to be conducted single-handedly, so her colleagues were not able to step in to give her some relief.

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Davis says that in Texas, filibusters are likely so rare because they're a test of physical endurance.

Fortunately, she came prepared with a catheter and a bag strapped to her leg to eliminate the need for bathroom trips. But there was no way around the ban on water, which concerned Davis.

“I really worried going into it that I was going to get really thirsty and have one of those Marco Rubio moments of dry mouth,” she adds.

While that didn’t happen, Davis did start getting angry after being called out by Republicans for breaking filibuster rules: first for allegedly straying “off topic” by discussing Planned Parenthood’s budget, and second, for attempting to put on a back brace.

“I started getting angry and I’m really happy that I did,” Davis says. “And the anger and the doubling down of what I was doing […] kind of put me into this super-focused area. I would liken it to taking a really long exam — whether it was a law school entrance exam or the SAT — you get to so focused in that moment that time starts flying, and you’re really centered around the specific test ahead of you, and your brain is really in this focused overdrive. That’s where I went. I wasn’t really noticing what was happening around me on the gallery and on the floor.”

Ultimately, around 10 p.m. that night, Senate Republicans gave Davis her third strike (for discussing a 2011 fetal sonogram law they deemed to be off-topic from Senate Bill 5). Breaking with tradition — in which the Senate voted on whether to end the filibuster — the final point of order was sustained, and after around 11 hours, Davis’s time on the floor came to an end. The bill did go to a vote, but not until after midnight, so it did not pass.

"Deeds, not words"

Davis ran for governor of Texas in 2014 and once her bid was over, she moved on to her next project: Deeds Not Words — an organization that helps people actually take action for causes they believe in instead of just talking about it.

Following the filibuster, she was invited to speak across the country and kept getting asked the same question: What do we do?

“It was very clear to me that we didn’t have an apathy issue on our hands — we had a problem with understanding how to connect passion to action,” Davis explains. “And so Deeds Not Words was really founded to try and do that.” 

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The name of the organization comes from the suffragette movement, which used the phrase in the context of being tired of talking about getting the right to vote and wanting to see actual progress.

“It really was timely, I felt like, because we’ve kind of gotten into this place where, through the power of social media, we do a lot of talking to each other about issues,” Davis says. “And that’s a good thing — there’s a lot of information that’s shared and increasing awareness. But then there’s the 'What do I do now that I’m fired up?’ question.”

In addition to doing advocacy training in Texas, Deeds Not Words sends daily and weekly communications to those who sign up to inform, educate and motivate their readers as well as to give them specific suggestions of how they can take action in their own communities.

But will Davis take action by running for office again? For now, she says not to expect to see her name on the 2020 ballot.

“I likely will not make the leap to running for president in the next go-around,” she says, adding that the Democrats have a lot of solid female candidates, including Sen. Amy Klobuchar, Sen. Elizabeth Warren, Sen. Kamala Harris and Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand.

As far as Cecile Richards — the former president of Planned Parenthood — Davis didn’t reveal whether her fellow Texan had political aspirations, but did mention that she has a new book (Make Trouble) coming out in April that is equally about her personal journey and a call-to-action. Davis did say that she’s looking forward to what Richards will be doing next and that she thinks “she has some tricks up her sleeve.” 

Overall, Davis doesn’t think there will be a shortage of women “lining up and putting themselves forward to be the Democratic nominee” and that we’re likely to see women run as Republicans as well.

“I’m just excited that more and more women are seizing their rightful place in policy and political conversations,” Davis says.

Sen. Wendy Davis is participating in an event called The Brain During a Filibuster at the Rubin Museum in New York City on Friday, March 3, 2018, at 7 p.m. ET.

13 Biggest Oscars Controversies Over the Years

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Each year the Academy Awards brings its own set of drama — from nominations to what happens out there on the stage. There’s no telling what this year’s show will bring, but you can bet that host Jimmy Kimmel will be prepared for anything after last year’s envelope snafu for Best Picture.

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In 2018, the #MeToo and #TimesUp movements have been a part of every award show so far. The Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences hasn’t addressed how they will tackle the issue, but it’s sure to be on every potential winner's mind. Will they address it during their acceptance speeches?

While we don’t have the answer to that question yet, there are plenty of controversies from past Oscars ceremonies to take a look at. Here are some of the biggest ones over the years.

1. 1970: George C. Scott says no to his Oscar

George C.Scott

George C.Scott

George C. Scott was nominated for the film Patton, but the actor had no time for award shows.

"The ceremonies are a two-hour meat parade, a public display with contrived suspense for economic reasons," Scott said to the media in 1970.

Scott didn’t attend the ceremony and instead chose to stay in New York and watch a hockey game at home. He did change his mind about award shows after he campaigned for a director nomination in 1972 for Rage, and he was seen at the show in 1982.

2. 1973: Sacheen Littlefeather turns down Marlon Brando’s Oscar for him

Marlon Brando Oscars

Marlon Brando Oscars

Marlon Brando won for The Godfather in 1973, but he didn’t show up to the ceremony. He sent actor and Native American activist Sacheen Littlefeather in his place.

"He very regretfully cannot accept this very generous award," said Littlefeather in her speech. "And the reasons for this being are the treatment of American Indians today by the film industry."

Native Americans are still fighting for representation in the entertainment industry and the Academy no longer allows a proxy to accept the Oscar; presenters now accept the award on a winner’s behalf.

3. 1974: Nudity at the Oscars

Streaker at Oscars

Streaker at Oscars

The 1970s were filled with interesting moments, but this one is probably best remembered for presenter David Niven’s witty quip after a streaker hit the stage.

Photographer Robert Opel cut through a backstage curtain to make his nude entry while flashing a peace sign.

Niven then joked, ”Isn't it fascinating to think that probably the only laugh that man will ever get in his life is by stripping off and showing his shortcomings?”

There are still conspiracy theories to this day that it was a planned stunt by Oscars producer Jack Haley Jr., but no one has ever confirmed this story.

4. 1986: Cher protests through fashion

Cher Oscars

Cher Oscars

Cher wasn’t very happy that her strong performance in the film Mask was not recognized by the Academy. She decided to protest in a very Cher way — through fashion.

Bob Mackie created an incredible headdress and skimpy black-beaded two-piece outfit for her Best Supporting Actor presenting duties. Onstage, she said, “As you can see, I did receive my Academy booklet on how to dress like a serious actress.”

5. 1989: Rob Lowe sings with Snow White

Rob Lowe Snow White

This opening number at the Oscars is a year the Academy would rather forget. Not only did the producers fail to realize Rob Lowe couldn’t sing, the 15-minute extravaganza was an embarrassment to the entire entertainment industry.

The video is forever locked in a vault, never to see the light of day. Disney is making sure of that because the company sued the Academy for unauthorized use of one of its beloved characters.

Eileen Bowman, who played Snow White during the doomed opener, described the experience to The Hollywood Reporter in 2013, “The show itself looked like a gay bar mitzvah.”

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6. 1993: Politics at the Oscars

Susan Sarandon, Tim Robbins Oscars

Susan Sarandon, Tim Robbins Oscars

It seems funny now since politics and award shows go hand-in-hand, but in 1993, it was a big Oscars no-no. Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins used their presenter platform to speak out about the poor treatment of HIV-positive Haitians. Richard Gere criticized China’s invasion of Tibet.

All three were banned for life from future ceremonies. That ban clearly wasn’t enforced, because Sarandon won an Oscar in 1996 for Dead Man Walking and Robbins won for Mystic River in 2004.

7. 1999: McCarthy-era director Elia Kazan receives an honorary Oscar

Elia Kazan Oscars

Elia Kazan Oscars

Moviegoers have loved Elia Kazan’s films like A Streetcar Named Desire and On the Waterfront for decades, but the director had a lot of enemies in Hollywood. He gave the names of suspected Communists in the entertainment industry to the House Committee on Un-American Activities.

Even though his work stands the test of time, his honorary Oscar was met with mixed reactions at the 1999 Academy Awards. Warren Beatty and Meryl Streep stood up to applaud him while Nick Nolte and Ed Harris gave him the silent treatment. It’s a pretty interesting reaction from Hollywood’s elite.

8. 2000: Angelina Jolie loves her brother a little too much

Angelina Jolie Oscars

Angelina Jolie Oscars

Controversy always seems to follow Angelina Jolie, and the 2000 Oscars were no different. She won for Best Supporting Actress for Girl, Interrupted, but it was her comments about her brother, James Haven, that got everyone all creeped out.

"I'm in shock and I'm so in love with my brother right now,” she said in her acceptance speech. “He just held me and said he loved me and I know he's so happy for me.”

On their own, Jolie’s words may seem pretty innocuous. However, the controversy stems from the fact that Jolie's thanks for her brother's support came after the siblings had very publicly kissed on the lips on the Oscars red carpet, a thing which still had an air of taboo around it (as compared to our more open-minded approach these days) and what kissing a family member might seem to imply. While there's never, ever been a reason to suspect anything about Jolie and her brother, the timing of this very public show of affection (which came after a string of public, wild-child behavior) wasn't too redemptive for Jolie's public image.

9. 2006: Crash is a controversial winner

Crash Oscars

Crash Oscars

Crash is considered the worst Best Picture winner of the last few decades. Brokeback Mountain was predicted to win, but it was the ensemble film that took home the big prize. Watch presenter Jack Nicholson mouth, “Whoa,” after he announced the winner.

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10. 2014: John Travolta's infamous "Adele Dazeem" moment

Adele Dazeem Oscars

Adele Dazeem Oscars

John Travolta was supposed to introduce Idina Menzel before she sang "Let It Go" from the movie Frozen. Instead, he said, "Please welcome the wickedly talented, one and only Adele Dazeem."

From that moment on, only one meme mattered on social media.

11. 2016: Chris Rock shades #OscarsSoWhite with Stacey Dash

Stacey Dash Oscars

Stacey Dash Oscars

With a mostly-white nominated talent pool, #OscarsSoWhite took hold of the internet. Host Chris Rock thought it would be a great idea to mock Hollywood's great failure by bringing Fox News commentator Stacey Dash to the stage.

Dash was publicly ridiculed for saying the BET channel and Black History Month were completely unnecessary, so her presence at the Oscars was even more perplexing. Rock introduced her as the Oscars' "new director of our minority outreach program." The audience fell completely silent from total confusion as the joke fell flat.

12. 2017: Casey Affleck's sexual harassment allegations

Casey Affleck Oscars

Casey Affleck Oscars

Brie Larson wanted to present the Best Actor Oscar to anyone but Casey Affleck, but of course, he won. Larson has long been an advocate of sexual assault survivors, and the actor's sexual harassment allegations did not sit well with her.

After a brief hug, Larson didn't applaud and she made it clear post-Oscars that her lack of enthusiasm was intentional.

"I think that whatever it was that I did onstage kind of spoke for itself. I’ve said all that I need to say about that topic," Larson told Vanity Fair.

13. 2017: The infamous Best Picture envelope snafu

Oscar envelopes

Oscar envelopes

The Oscars were just about to wrap up with La La Land for Best Picture when everyone watching the show found out the wrong envelope had been delivered to presenters Faye Dunaway and Warren Beatty. The real winner was Moonlight.

There was a mess of people on the stage; Jimmy Kimmel tried to save the day; and a PricewaterhouseCoopers accountant had to explain why he was tweeting instead of handing out the correct envelope. It's no surprise that accountants for the 2018 Academy Awards will have to check their cell phones at the door.

What will be this year's big controversy? Find out on Sunday, March 4 when the Academy Awards air on ABC beginning at 8 p.m. ET/ 5 p.m. PT.


You Won't Believe How Much It Costs to Produce & Attend the Oscars

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The Oscars are right around the corner, which means one of the biggest nights in Hollywood is coming up. But even though we already knew the Oscars are a massive production, we never would have guessed how much money it actually costs to put on the ceremony.

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Just ahead of the big night, WalletHub analyzed the Academy Awards by the numbers, and some of the figures are downright shocking. For example, the total amount it costs to put on Hollywood's biggest award show — $44 million. That includes $24,700 just for the 16,500-square-foot red carpet all the celebrities and attendees will walk down and $300,000 to mail watermarked screeners of all the nominated films to the judges. Oh, and those gold-plated statuettes everyone is after... any guesses what those are worth? Only $900. Yikes.

The cost of the ceremony itself actually pales in comparison to what celebrities spend to attend it. According to WalletHub, a first-time attendee will spend $266,000 on his or her red carpet look. The average amount spent on clothes, hair and makeup for the night is $1.5 million, while A-list female actors will spend $10 million each. On one look. For one night. And that's just for the look. Everyone wants to score an invite to Vanity Fair's Oscar party, the most exclusive after-party in the biz. The cost for one couple to attend? A cool $75,000. That's a hefty price tag to see and be seen.

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While all that spending on a single event may sound absolutely ludicrous, WalletHub also found the Academy Awards provide a yearly $130 million boost to Los Angeles' economy, so it's not all excess. Still, though, when you think about how many hungry mouths could be fed with the money that's being dropped on one night, it's not so easy to stomach.

What People Are Getting Wrong About the Parkland Shooter & Adoption

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The horrific story of the 19-year-old who confessed to killing 14 students and three adults at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, has shaken us all. Questions abound as to the shooter's background and what might have caused him to commit such a horrendous act of violence. The tragedy in Florida and the innocent lives lost will undoubtedly resonate in our country for years to come. Yet of late, much of the media has focused on the fact that the murderer, Nikolas Cruz, was a foster child and had been adopted at an early age.

The fact that Cruz was adopted and a foster child has no bearing on the killings and certainly did not "cause" him to commit these atrocities. Cruz suffered from a number of behavioral issues and anxieties, many of them perhaps from birth. Some suggest he suffered from fetal alcohol spectrum disorder as well as reactive attachment disorder, and Cruz's attorney says the teen battled mental health issues including depression. Quite simply, the signs were there that Cruz was suffering. Yet while some people recognized that he was troubled, Cruz did not get the consistent help, therapeutic services and professional counseling he needed. The responsibility for this falls upon many shoulders, and hopefully all of us can learn from this tragic event.

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But for those who are now left questioning their decision or hope to adopt or foster a child in need ("How," they may wonder, "will I know I'm not taking in someone like Cruz?"), please remember: His is not the face of adoption or of foster care. This is not the normal experience of families who care for children in need in their homes — or of the children who live in those homes, sometimes temporarily and sometimes permanently. In fact, the norm for adoption and foster care is quite the opposite: a healthy and life-changing experience for both child and adoptive or foster family.

My family has been blessed through the years with the adoption of three children from foster care. These three children have in so many ways brought joy into our lives, and I cannot imagine a life without any of them. In my eyes, there is no difference between my adopted or biological or foster children; they are all my children, regardless of genetics.

I certainly did not set out and plan to adopt these three children from foster care. Over the 15 years I have been a foster parent, I have had over 50 children come through my home, and only three were adopted. Some came to my home at roughly the same age as Nikolas Cruz. Recently, I had two 17-year-old homeless boys living with my family; they both needed a home and support during their final years in high school.

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The adoption of a child is a joyous and happy occasion in the vast majority of cases. That's not to say the internal process for all involved isn't challenging; it is, especially for your child. For example, they may have a difficult time accepting the fact that they will never return to live with their biological parents or birth family members again. It's necessary for adoptive parents to allow a child time to grieve the loss of connection with their birth family. They may very well need time to experience the stages of grief before fully transferring attachment from their birth family to their new "forever family." Even though they may have lived in their adoptive home for some time, they will likely reexperience feelings of loss during the adoption process. It is essential they have the opportunity to discuss their feelings of grief and loss — and that someone (parent and/or professional) listen attentively to them, validating their feelings and emotions. After all, their birth family gave them a great deal: their DNA and of course their life. That fact will never change.

As part of an adoptive and foster family, my biological and adoptive children have been influenced in such positive ways by those foster children with whom they have lived and played and who they have learned from and have come to love. Our children have been introduced to a diversity of cultural beliefs and ways of thinking and have come to embrace differences. Additionally, my children have learned the joys that are found in adoption and have learned that family comes in different shapes, colors, sizes, etc. My own family, as a foster family, has included children from so many different ethnic identities and cultures. And as a result, my own children have a great deal of insight into and sensitivity toward the countless varying ways humans can look, act, think and be.

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So if you are considering adoption or fostering, do not let tragedy deter you. Do not let this isolated incident taint the norm. Yes, there will be difficult times during the adoption process and afterward too. It may seem at moments that your relationship with your child or children is taking one step forward and three steps backward. Yet with time, love and patience, adoption or foster care is often the greatest gift of love you can offer a child — a gift that will offer you so much as well.

Let there be no mistake: Each child is unique; each child is special; and each child is deserving of love.

The Heathers Reboot Is Pushed Back Out of Respect for Parkland Survivors

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Paramount Network's new reboot of Heathers is getting delayed, and I'm not sure I can get behind the reason for pushing the show back. The dark, satirical comedy will center on a group of "Heathers," who run their school with a mix of fear, intimidation and amazing fashion sense. The show, which is set in the present day, will also tackle some of the trickier subjects that face today's teens, including gun violence. And that's why the decision to delay the show, originally set for a March 7 premiere, was made.

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"Paramount Network’s original series Heathers is a satirical comedy that takes creative risks in dealing with many of society’s most challenging subjects ranging from personal identity to race and socio-economic status to gun violence," Paramount said in a statement. "While we stand firmly behind the show, in light of the recent tragic events in Florida and out of respect for the victims, their families and loved ones, we feel the right thing to do is delay the premiere until later this year." There's no word yet on what "later this year" means, be it later as in a month from now, over the summer or even during the holiday season.

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You know who isn't delaying tackling the tough subject of stopping school shootings? The kids who survived the Parkland shooting and other students all across the country. Seventeen people died in Florida that day, and the kids, the ones who are hugely affected by gun violence despite not even being old enough to vote, are the ones who have stood up and said enough is enough. They organized a lie-in at the White House. They're hard at work putting together national school walkout days. They're traveling to Washington, D.C., to march in an effort to shame adults into actually doing something about this country's epidemic of gun violence.

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While we can understand that Paramount wants to respect those killed and their families and loved ones, one has to wonder if the Heathers reboot will ever see the light of day at all. This delay could simply be another nail in the coffin for a reboot that's been fraught with concerns that the targeting of minorities, the rampant recontextualization of slurs and loaded phrases and the reappropriation of various gender identities and buzzworthy conversations around sexuality is actually more harmful than productive. The fact that this Heathers reboot can't seem to additionally grasp just how loaded the culture of violence in schools is, as implied by this statement about the delay, seems to be a sign that it should probably just go away altogether.

The Internet Is Going Crazy Over an Old Story on Period Pain & Heart Attacks

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Over the past two days, news that period pain can be as bad as a heart attack has been featured in headlines everywhere, from Vogue to Cosmopolitan to local news outlets. While it's encouraging to see menstrual pain getting this much coverage, it's not exactly news.

And I don't mean that it's not news because most people who have experienced period cramps would agree with the statement — it's literally old news that's based a story that was reported in Quartz in February 2016.

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The news-recycling culprit appears to be Elle U.K., which published its take on the remark in the Quartz article on Feb. 27, 2018 — more than two years after the original. And while the original article was mentioned, no link was provided, so readers and other news outlets (understandably) assumed this was news.

Let's take a look at the source. In the original article in QuartzOlivia Goldhill writes: "John Guillebaud, professor of reproductive health at University College London, tells Quartz that patients have described the cramping pain as 'almost as bad as having a heart attack.'”

That's it. It wasn't the conclusion of a peer-reviewed empirical study — it was one comment from one doctor. In fact, one of the main takeaways from Goldhill's excellent feature is the lack of research into the causes and treatments of menstrual pain.

That said, this should in no way diminish the sentiment of the piece, which has struck a chord with so many people, both when it originally ran in 2016 and in this week's resurfacing. If anything, it demonstrates how thirsty we are for people in the medical profession to recognize the severity of period pain and emphasize the need for further research.

Along the same lines, we should be mindful of the "period paradox" — the idea that menstrual pain needs to be taken seriously, but at the same time should not be used to define or disqualify us from full participation in society.

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Of course, any coverage that helps to destigmatize menstruation and legitimize period pain is a good thing. Let's keep moving this conversation forward and hope that next time, the news comes from some new research into this long-overlooked topic.

Kristen Wiig's Wonder Woman Casting Is Getting Positive Hype on the Internet

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Is there anyone out there who isn't looking forward to Wonder Woman 2? I mean, other than the misogynists and the MRAs of the world, but sorry, we don't count them and their garbage opinions. All the rest of us are eagerly awaiting our return to Themyscira come November 2019, when Wonder Woman 2 is set to hit theaters.

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And now there's news out of preproduction that has the internet hyped, even though Wonder Woman 2 is close to two years from its planned release date. According to The Hollywood Reporter, director Patty Jenkins has personally reached out to Kristen Wiig to begin talks about casting her as the villain, Cheetah.

My editor and I may have to agree to disagree on this one, but I am absolutely here for it, and it seems like I'm in the right because the internet is also Team Wiig. When news of her potential casting broke late on Wednesday evening, Twitter folks wasted no time voicing their love for this news. Then again, who wouldn't want to see Wiig go toe-to-toe with Gal Gadot?

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We all know Wiig is super-talented in comedic roles, but she's proven herself in more serious films like Welcome to Me and Mother! And the fact that Jenkins personally reached out to her about this role means she has something in mind none of us probably knows about yet. There's a reason for this unconventional casting decision. I think we'll all be happy once we see it play out.

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Plus, one of the reasons we love Wonder Woman so damn much is because it's a movie by women for women. It's increasing female representation on-screen and in the superhero space, no less, giving girls a hero of their own to look up to. Wiig fits that purpose. She's long been an outspoken feminist set on getting more women on-screen, even in unexpected places (Ghostbusters, anyone?). There are people out there who don't see it yet, but for now, I'm with Twitter — this is a great choice, and I'll be first in line to see this film.

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