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Is It True Your Allergies Change Every 7 Years?

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After I blew out the candle on my 18th birthday cake without experiencing the allergies that plagued the rest of my family, I figured I’d be home free — sailing into adulthood with clear eyes, clear skin and open sinuses (can’t lose). However, my late 20s and early 30s had other plans for me. Summer pollen wasn’t just the scourge of my freshly washed car; it gave me the machine-gun sneezes and a decidedly less sexy version of Kathleen Turner’s celebrated rasp. And autumn went from pumpkin-spice latte season to ragweed central.

According to the Asthma and Allergy Foundation of America, I’m hardly alone in this. Adult-onset allergies impact roughly 30 percent of people in the U.S.

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Dr. Clifford Bassett, founder and medical director of Allergy and Asthma Care of New York and an adult and pediatric allergy specialist, tells SheKnows, “there is no singular reason for what causes adult-onset allergies, but it is likely… a combination of several factors, including gender, genetics, climate change and other environmental factors.”

Though old wives tales insist that the nature of our allergies changes every seven years or so, those old gals are talking out of turn. There is no grand cyclical change. Allergies are more impacted by environmental factors, he explains.

Women may experience hormonal fluxes, particularly during pregnancy and menopause, that make them vulnerable to allergies. Pollen counts are on the rise and pollen seasons are lasting longer thanks to a swell of greenhouse gasses, which can cause certain plants to produce more allergens, like the dreaded ragweed. Research also suggests that allergies tend to flare more severely in city-dwellers since we’re not only contending with the increased pollen count, we’re also coming into daily contact with air pollutants as well.

Bassett says that one of the most common questions he hears from his patients is about how to distinguish allergies from the common cold. “Some symptoms of a cold and allergies are similar: sneezing and a stuffy or runny nose. But if your symptoms are also accompanied with a fever, sore throat, colored nasal discharge and achiness, then you probably have a cold or infection.”

More: Are Your Cold Symptoms Actually Allergies?

The summer cold has ruined many a beach weekend, but it may still be preferable to allergies — which can last all year round. So what should those of us in that unlucky 30 percent who get to add allergies to the other burdens of adulthood do to breathe easier?

The best way to start is by using an over-the-counter nasal steroid spray to combat congestion. Basset recommends Flonase Sensimist regularly and consistently, starting at least two weeks before pollen season starts. Since stress can negatively impact our immune systems, and thus exacerbate our allergies, keeping our chill can keep us from letting out an “ah-choo!”

Bassett suggests that living a healthier, more balanced life all-around will help us with allergies — he’s especially keen on getting proper vitamin D, sleep and exercise. Since pollen is the root of all evil — or at least, the root of my sneezes — Bassett recommends reducing our exposure to the green stuff by “monitoring pollen counts, exercising indoors on high pollen days, showering nightly to rinse pollens from your skin and hair and keeping windows closed and setting air-conditioners on ‘re-circulate.’”

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Allergies definitely aren’t the best part of becoming an adult (that would be the ability to eat Captain Crunch for dinner without any consequences), but they don’t have to completely ruin our seasons. Taking Bassett’s advice and seek out a local allergist if need be — it can ensure that summertime means that the breathin’ is easy.


How to Survive Having 2 Kids Under 2

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Two kids under 2: double the trouble or twice the fun? In all honesty, probably equal parts of both. If you’re stressing about bringing a new baby home while you’re still dealing with one kid in diapers, take a breath and get some great tips from moms who’ve been there.

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Make quick decisions

“With two kids under 2, you quickly learn to prioritize and think on your feet,” says Deborah, whose son was 18 months old when her daughter was born. “Usually, it was my eldest who got my attention first, purely from a safety or sanitation point of view! If he had a dirty diaper disaster, I could pop his sister in her bassinet while I cleaned him up. Even if she was crying, I knew she was safe and warm. It’s OK to let babies cry!”

To make those moments when you feel like you’re being pulled in two directions a little easier, stock up on duplicates of all your most-used baby products and place one of each item in the rooms you spend the most time in. If you always have diapers, baby wipes, toddler snacks and juice bottles at hand, you won’t have to worry about leaving a child unattended (or dragging them around the house with you) while you search for things.

Accept jealous behavior

It can be tough to acknowledge your child's negative reaction to their new little brother or sister, but it's perfectly natural. "My 20-month-old daughter was extremely jealous of her little sister," says Jennifer. "At first, I tried to insist that she be nice to her, but it only made things worse. It wasn't until I gave my firstborn permission to have those feelings that we made progress. I told her that I understood how hard it was for her to share her mom with another kid, and I made sure I still had lots of one-to-one time with her, just the two of us."

A great way to encourage a positive bond between your under-2s is to let the older child "help" with caring for the newborn (such as picking out toys or clothes for the baby), then praise them for being a great big brother or sister.

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Ask for help

When a new baby arrives, family routines can take a bit of a hit, but it's important to try to keep your toddler's routine in place to help them adjust to the new arrival. This is where family and friends can really help out, by taking your toddler to their regular activity or mommy and me group. And when people come to visit the new baby, make sure your toddler gets plenty of attention too.

Go hands-free

One of the most useful items for a mom of two under 2 is a sling. It keeps your newborn safe and close to you and keeps both hands free for your older child. Another product that will make life a lot easier is a double stroller, where both children can sit or lie down if they need to.

Make time for you

It's difficult to make time for yourself when you have two kids under 2, but it's not impossible. Make sure you fit regular showers into your daily routine, either when your partner is home or you have someone else there who can watch the kids for 10 minutes. You might still be exhausted, but you'll feel better for showering, moisturizing and putting on clean clothes.

If both children nap at the same time, take that opportunity to nap yourself or just relax with a cup of tea and a magazine. Don't knock yourself out trying to tidy up before the kids wake up. "I learned the hard way that my health was more important than clean kitchen counters," says Jessica. "I was making myself ill trying keep on top of chores with a 16-month-old and a newborn. So I decided I was going to have a messy house most of the time! My husband and I worked out a system where we both spent a couple hours on chores at the weekend while the other took the kids to the park."

Remember the positives

"It was tiring when my kids were both under 2, but now that they're older I'm so glad they are close in age," says Carrie, whose daughters are 8 and 9. "They have lots in common, and have an incredibly close bond. And from a practical point of view, they go to the same school and clubs, making for easier planning — and less driving!"

Jennifer agrees that the positives of having two kids very close in age outweigh the difficulties. "I was done with my diaper stage in three years," she says.

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This post was sponsored by Baby Jogger.

The 5 Best DIY Face Masks to Fix Oily Skin Fast

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Ready for some real talk? Too bad — it’s here. No matter how many heavy-duty mattifying lotions or oil-sucking cleansers you buy, you won’t find a miracle remedy for your oily skin. Sorry, but your shiny T-zone and oily complexion are most likely routed in issues that can’t necessarily be solved by beauty products, like in hormones, seasonal changes (lookin’ at you, summer) and everyone’s favorite, your good ol’ DNA. But since we hate being the bearer of bad news, we’re here to offer you a surprisingly positive upshot. We’ve discovered some seriously good DIY face masks that not only (temporarily) mitigate your excess oil, but are also mad fun and easy to make.

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No, really; even if you’ve tried every damn oil-eliminating product on the market and have somehow been left with an oilier, irritated or dehydrated face (which is totally common in crappy oil-reducing products), you can rest assured that these DIYs are so calming, gentle and effective that they’re suitable for any oily skin type. ‘Cause with hella-absorbent ingredients like egg whites and honey (which you most definitely have lying around your kitchen), these simple masks will offer your sweaty, summer skin some much-needed relief. Ahead, our five favorite oily skin face masks, along with easy tutorial breakdowns that even your grandma could follow (no offense, Grandma).

Best DIY Face Masks to Fix Oily Skin Fast: Pretty Glowing Skin | SheKnows.com
Image: ImaxTree

Honey + brown sugar

One of the most common mistakes in reducing excess oil is using a bunch of alcohol-laden products that dry out your skin, which, in turn, causes your face to overproduce more oil to compensate. That’s where antibacterial and antiseptic honey comes in — it gently absorbs oil while its humectant properties keep your skin moisturized. And when combined with gently exfoliating brown sugar, you’ve got a freakishly good mask that’s guaranteed to keep oil at bay.

Honey + Brown Sugar mask

Honey + Brown Sugar mask

Orange + yogurt + honey

Vitamin C-loaded oranges not only increase collagen production (peace out, fine lines and wrinkles), but actively fight free radicals while controlling oil. And don’t freak — the acidic levels of the citrus are balanced by the hefty dose of skin-soothing yogurt.

Orange + Yogurt + Honey Mask

Orange + Yogurt + Honey Mask

Banana + honey

Bananas are a serious godsend for oily skin since their gentle exfoliating properties actually remove gunk and oil from the skin’s surface without compromising your skin barrier. And when mashed with honey, this two-ingredient face mask leaves skin looking noticeably glowing.

Banana + Honey Mask

Banana + Honey Mask

Aloe vera + honey

Lest you think that aloe vera is just for bad sunburns, know that its anti-inflammatory properties also work wonders on irritated skin and zits, while its natural astringent properties make for an oil-absorbing all-star. While you probably don’t have an aloe vera leaf chilling in your pantry at the moment, this DIY is so soothing and cleansing that it’s worth heading to the grocery store for.

Aloe Vera + Honey Mask

Aloe Vera + Honey Mask

Egg white + cucumber + mint

Sounds weird, but the vitamins and proteins found in egg whites also make it a super-effective (albeit temporary) oil-eliminating ingredient. And when you combine it with vitamin C and antioxidant-rich cucumber and mint, you’ll be left with noticeably smoother skin too. Win-win, right?

Egg White + Cucumber + Mint Mask

Egg White + Cucumber + Mint Mask

Best DIY Face Masks to Fix Oily Skin Fast: Soft Pretty Skin | SheKnows.com
Image: ImaxTree

Originally posted on StyleCaster.

124 Super-Unique Baby Names We Promise You Won't Hear on the Playground

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Look, we get it. You're exhausted by the Emmas and the Graces and the Caden/Jaden/Braden trifecta. You yawn (discreetly, of course) at the mention of the latest crop of Liams and Olivias. Surely there must be something else out there to name your child — something no other parent has scooped up yet?

Well, your baby-on-the-way might be a good candidate for one of these seriously unique names.

Researchers at Nameberry (oh, yes, this is a thing — baby name research, y'all) have compiled a list of names that were not even used once for newborns in 2016. They scoured this list of overlooked names (there were 5,000 to start) and whittled it down to 124 verrrrrrrry unusual top picks.

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Be warned: These names are not for the faint of heart, and there's no guarantee they'll stand the test of time. But, hey, there's no guarantee your homemade craft beer will stand the test of time either. And you know what? Some of these are downright cool. We say, "Live boldly! Name that hipster baby with abandon."

Here's the list (with a few editorial comments from us to help guide you through the minefield).

For the girls:

  1. Acantha (Flower? Poisonous snake? We don't know, but we bet she'd rock Warby Parker frames at an early age too.)
  2. Araminta (Future soprano in a traveling opera troupe?)
  3. Artemesia (Why not just Artemis? Because the "-esia" lends that je ne sais quoi and slight nod to the wonders of modern anesthesia, clearly.)
  4. Bee (Not Bea. Bee. As in Bumble. But skip the Bumble.)
  5. Bluebell (An unfortunate choice this would be for a child who hates scampering in meadows.)
  6. Branwen (Like Bronwen, except with more fiber in her diet.)
  7. Calico (No comment. Not even a meow.)
  8. Capucine (A delicious frothy drink or a frothing rabid monkey: You be the judge.)
  9. Ceil (One of our editorial staff had an Aunt Ceil who sent her $2 bills wrapped in Christmas foil. So we are totally rooting for a slew of future Aunt Ceils.)
  10. Chandra (Is it SH-andra? CH-andra? KH-andra? This is a child who will swing from chandeliers or candelabras if given the chance.)
  11. Christmas (Welp. Maybe not the best choice if you're Jewish or Buddhist.)
  12. Cia (The spunky younger sister of angsty Sia.)
  13. Circe (Dudes, pretty sure this is a witch. But, hey, maybe a hipster witch, so go for it.)
  14. Coralia (Ooh, we like Coralia. Not as depressing as Coraline the movie. Coralia would selflessly scrub the invalid neighbor's laundry on one of those 1930s corrugated tin laundry things.)
  15. Daffodil (If you can deal with "Daffy" being your kid's go-to nickname, have at it.)
  16. Dancer (One of Santa's reindeer and a real bear of a name for any uncoordinated little girl. Tread with caution.)
  17. Diablo (You guys. You know that means "devil," right? How cocky do you have to be to tempt fate like that?)
  18. Eluned (EL-ew-ned? E-looned? No, seriously, we're baffled too.)
  19. Endellion (Pretty sure that is not really a thing, just a collection of vaguely French mouth noises.)
  20. Eulalie (Have no idea how to pronounce it, but there's something kind of quaint there. Thumbs up.)
  21. Fifer (Play that funky fife, Fifer.)
  22. Finola (Ooooh, this is the first name of a British soap star who started in the '80s. Yeah, we're that old.)
  23. Franny (Meh. Not terrible, not great.)
  24. Freesia (A bush! Great for landscapers' offspring.)
  25. Frostine (Oh, now. Elsa and Anna's forgotten sibling? A low-carb frozen dessert treat?)
  26. Grania (Midwest elite with access to wheat fields for photo shoots? This one's for you.)
  27. Hester (Likey. Old-fashioned as all get out, but solid and unflappable too. Hester gets the job DONE.)
  28. Ianthe (If she does not grow up to be willowy and 5'10" and an avid reader of Greek mythology, things could bode poorly for this child.)
  29. Jericho (For a girl? Really? M'kay.)
  30. Jessamy (This one, with that soft Jessa start? Yeah, this one might have legs.)
  31. Jocasta (Vague feeling this was someone very, very naughty in some myth somewhere. Again, tread with caution and do your research.)
  32. Kalindi (Cultural misappropriation or random syllables pulled out of a Scrabble bag? We cannot say for sure.)
  33. Kerensa (Almost rhymes with the very popular item of '70s furniture, a credenza. For this reason, hard pass.)
  34. Leocadia (Strong! Fierce! Lion-themed nursery is a must.)
  35. Letitia (Stiff upper lip, this one. Will insist on cress and cream cheese sandwiches by age 5.)
  36. Louisiana (Crawfish is a difficult nursery theme to execute.)
  37. Lucasta (It's not her fault she sounds like the Roman god of card games.)
  38. Ludovica (Do not attempt this without a serious Slavic bloodline.)
  39. Madrigal (Singer thing, right? Start the singing lessons fund immediately.)
  40. Malou (Skip to Malou. Or you know. Don't.)
  41. Marcellina (If Ross's monkey had been a girl.)
  42. Mazarine (Mazzy is a pretty cute nickname, no lie.)
  43. Melisande (Gorgeous, really. Not gonna hate on Melisande.)
  44. Minette (Not too out there. Not too French. Not too fancy. Just right.)
  45. Morwenna (Angry Celtic goddess making potions under a full moon on the moors?)
  46. Nephele (You can't fool us. This is clearly a body organ, something that dangles off the kidneys.)
  47. North (Disqualified: North West and her mom Kim Kardashian West locked this down.)
  48. Oberon (Oberon was a dude, peeps. Shakespeare lovers might want to consider for a boy.)
  49. Ottoline (Well, no one will grab her monogrammed backpack by mistake.)
  50. Perdita (Doesn't this mean "hopelessly and existentially lost in this lifetime"? No? Okeydoke.)
  51. Petronilla (Great to pair with Citronella, should twins run in the family.)
  52. Puck (Shakespeare kept his audiences guessing with Puck in A Midsummer Night's Dream — the cheeky, lovable elf was never referred to by gendered pronouns.)
  53. Remember (No. NO. We do not want to remember.)
  54. Rhonwen (For that ancestrally confused family who's probably German but really wants to be Irish.)
  55. Romola (A wan Romanian orphan is what comes to mind, but in a darling, darling way.)
  56. Samoa (Girl Scout cookie or Pacific island? If you like cookies and the ocean, possibly perfect.)
  57. Sanne (San? San-NAY? You tell us.)
  58. Season (Nice if noun. Weird if verb.)
  59. Scheherazade (This child will be a great storyteller.)
  60. Signy (Unfortunately close to "pygmy" in terms of rhyme scheme, but why not?)
  61. Tally (Acceptable.)
  62. Thaddea (Oof. So heavy for a teeny baby girl. The weight of it might crush her.)
  63. Undine (A clever, saucy minx who will wind up in graphic design.)
  64. Venetia (Italians, you are welcome to this one.)
  65. West (See: Kardashian offspring. "East" and "South" are also off the table for you mere mortals.)
  66. Whimsy (No. Just... no. You know we speak the truth.)
  67. Winsome (See: Whimsy)
  68. Zephyrine (When you can't decide between "Zephyr" and "Something-rine.")

For the boys:

  1. Auberon (Trying to get in on that Shakespeare thing, but not really committing.)
  2. Averill (We feel nothing.)
  3. Bard (Oh, God. The pressure. What is with the Shakespeare nods?)
  4. Bas (An unfinished name. Bast? Bass? Bassoon?)
  5. Basie (Now that has potential cool written all over it.)
  6. Beach (Nope. Nope-ity nope, nope, and you know better.)
  7. Cassio (A digital keyboard our grandma bought us in 1983, but with an extra 's.')
  8. Cathal (Hmm. A little sterile for our liking, but OK.)
  9. Corentin (A blood-thinning medication or a cool kid who started drumming at age 3.)
  10. Drummer (But you might as well go with this one if you want a drummer.)
  11. Eleazer (Charles Dickens is giving you a thumbs-up from the grave.)
  12. Falconer (Please tell us your family can identify a falcon in a bird lineup.)
  13. Fenno (A household product of ill repute.)
  14. Florent (Scratching our heads.)
  15. Gower (Hobbit vibe. Not bad if you like Hobbits.)
  16. Gulliver (Traveling folk, take heed.)
  17. Hiawatha (We see all kinds of problems with this. But if you like to live dangerously...)
  18. Humphrey (Yes. Why didn't we think of Humphrey? This one deserves a rebirth.)
  19. Kassian (Character on One Life to Live? Greek tycoon? Choose your own adventure.)
  20. Kermit (Don't let your son live life upstaged by a frog puppet. Just don't.)
  21. Land ("Land ho!" jokes might get old.)
  22. Ludovic (Again, you'd better be crazy Slavic.)
  23. Merce (Brief and to the point. Succinct. Not bad.)
  24. Mingus (Pretty sure Norman Reedus has a son with this name. Jazz lovers only.)
  25. Moe (One of us at the office has a 17-pound, dumb-as-rocks cat with this name. You've been warned.)
  26. Nat (The guy who makes bad metal sculpture and sleeps with his motorcycle by his bed. Not that we have slept with this guy or anything.)
  27. Nicholson (If "REDRUM" means nothing to you, sure, snap this one up.)
  28. Night (Deeply confusing all around.)
  29. Osgood (Better than Osbad.)
  30. Pagan (Oh, you are just dying to be different, aren't you?)
  31. Per (Ooh, Scandinavian Ikea glassware flair! Likey!)
  32. Pim (Better for a lass, maybe?)
  33. Piran (No idea. Who are you, Piran? What moves you?)
  34. Placido (Opera star or family cow. Only you know.)
  35. Puck (Because Puck could be a boy or a girl. Either way, is it clever enough to deal with the unfortunate rhymes?)
  36. Rancher (Caveat: You cannot live in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, and expect this to fly.)
  37. Raoul (We have no prob with Raoul.)
  38. Roald (Nice literary nod there.)
  39. Romilly (Again, maybe this works better on the girl list?)
  40. Roone (Sweet! Simple, no-fuss, different. Underdog worthy of a second look.)
  41. Rudyard (We like Kipling better, frankly.)
  42. Runyon (I think we need a dictionary.)
  43. Salmon (YOU CAN'T. PLEASE, LORD, NO. The kid will get "swimming upstream" jokes and cultivate an inferiority complex.)
  44. Scorpio (Another for the "only if your life is an '80s soap opera" files.)
  45. Septimus (Sure, but have six other children first.)
  46. Sim (Trim Sim. Kinda approve.)
  47. Spike (You'd better have tattoos and earplugs, parents.)
  48. Story (Future English professor with besotted students.)
  49. Taddeo (Tad, inevitably.)
  50. Thibault (TEE-BOW. Which might make some think of Tim Tebow. But that's on you.)
  51. Thoreau (If you can't name three things Thoreau wrote, opt out.)
  52. Tibor (Slavs rule!)
  53. Traveler (So painfully on the nose. May we suggest "Trav"?)
  54. Trout (What is with the fish?)
  55. Umberto (Like strapping a boulder to your child's back, but we won't judge.)
  56. Whistler (Only you know Whistler's mother and what she'd think. Because, you know...that's YOU.)

So there you have it, folks. There might be a gem in here for your newborn... or maybe Liam and Olivia will do the job just fine.

10 Dads From ‘80s Movies I Wanted to Be My Dad

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With just two sentences, I fell in love. I was watching Sixteen Candles. I didn't fall in love with Jake Ryan, though. Nope, with two lines uttered by Jim Baker, Samantha's dad (played by Paul Dooley), I fell in love with the ideal father for my teenage angst. "That's why they call them crushes," he said. "If they were easy, they'd call them something else."

Paul Dooley played Jim Baker in Sixteen Candles
Image: Universal Pictures

What teen doesn't want to hear such sage advice from her dad?

It’s not that I didn’t hear advice from my own dad. A burly, loveable man with a Magnum P.I. mustache, my dad was the kind of dad who carried a briefcase and drove a Chevy Impala to work every day. He counseled my two sisters and me with adages like, "Walk it off," and "Close only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades." And I loved him for it.

In honor of Father’s Day and all things '80s, I’m celebrating not only Jim Baker, but also nine other dads from '80s movies whose heartfelt or silly qualities I wanted in a dad.

Dr. Jake Houseman, Dirty Dancing (1987)

Jerry Orbach played Jake Houseman in Dirty Dancing
Image: Vestron Pictures


OK, OK. So Dr. Houseman (played by Jerry Orbach) put Baby in a corner. However, he helped Baby when she needed it, clearly loved his girls and admitted he was wrong about Johnny.

Clark Griswold, National Lampoon's Vacation (1983)

Chevy Chase played Clark Griswold in National Lampoon's Vacation
Image: Warner Bros.


This well-intentioned goofball (played by Chevy Chase) wanted to give his family a Wally World vacation. And five thousand mishaps aside, he did. What perseverance!

Thornton Melon, Back to School (1986)

Rodney Dangerfield played Thornton Melon in Back to School
Image: Orion Pictures


With this millionaire for a dad (played by Rodney Dangerfield), I would have had a sweet dorm room. His joie de vivre would rub off on me too.

David Miller, Can't Buy Me Love (1987)

Dennis Dugan played David Miller in Can't Buy Me Love
Image: Buena Vista Pictures


David Miller (played by Dennis Dugan) offered Donald/Ronald the old tic-tac-tile station wagon for his big date. That’s considerate.

Steve Richman, Valley Girl (1983)

Frederick Forest played Steve Richman in Valley Girl
Image: Atlantic Releasing Corporation


Mr. Richman (played by Frederic Forrest) made his daughter Julie work in the family’s health food store. This encouraged a good work ethic. Plus, he did not enforce a curfew. Like, totally.

Chet Ripley, The Great Outdoors (1988)

John Candy played Chet Ripley in The Great Outdoors
Image: Universal Pictures


First, it’s John Candy. Second, it’s John Candy as Chet Ripley, a dad who fought a bear, ate a 96-ounce steak to earn a free dinner, treated his family to a north woods vacation and rescued children from an abandoned mine. Those are impressive paternal skills.

Arthur Willis, The Flamingo Kid (1984)

Hector Elizondo played Arthur Willis in The Flamingo Kid
Image: Twentieth Century Fox Film Corporation


When his son Jeffrey shirked an office job to work as a cabana boy at the El Flamingo Club, Arthur Miller (played by Héctor Elizondo) was disappointed. He stayed true to his honest, hardworking ways, though, and Jeffrey learned to appreciate him.

Harold Howard, Teen Wolf (1985)

James Hampton played Harold Howard in Teen Wolf
Image: Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer Studios Inc.


When you grow hair everywhere during puberty, you would want this dad — who lived through and embraced his hairiness — to guide you.

Tom Bueller, Ferris Bueller's Day Off (1986)

Lyman Ward played Tom Bueller in Ferris Bueller's Day Off
Image: Paramount Pictures


I wanted Ferris’ dad (played by Lyman Ward) as my father just for the health tips alone:

Ferris: Dad, all this talking has made me kinda light-headed, I think I oughta lie down.

Tom Bueller: Take a bath. Then wrap a hot towel around your head.

Ferris: Wrap a hot towel around my head?

Tom Bueller: And then make yourself some soup, get a nap.

Honorable mentions for dads from '80s movies that I wanted to be my dad include all the guys from Three Men and a Baby and Neil from Planes, Trains & Automobiles.

Now it’s your turn. Which dad from an '80s movie had qualities you wanted in a dad?

Just Because Miranda Kerr Gets Leech Facials, It Doesn't Mean You Should Too

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When I first read the headline announcing Miranda Kerr’s use of leeches in facials, this seemed like something that would have Gwyneth Paltrow’s Goop-y fingerprints all over it. Turns out I was right: She made the remarks on a panel at this weekend’s In Goop Health summit in California.

“It’s adventurous,” Kerr said at the event. “Health is wealth. They’ve been doing leech therapy for thousands of years.”

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Right, but that was before we had access to the wonders of modern medicine and didn’t have to visit our local barber-surgeon for our annual haircut and blood-letting.

Even Paltrow, who has made a second career of peddling ineffective and sometimes harmful “wellness” practices and products wasn’t on board, saying, “Wow! I thought I was bat-shit crazy!”

But if, like Kerr, intentionally covering your face in bloodsucking leeches sounds appealing, there are a few things you should know.

1. Not all leeches are created equal

It may be convenient, but you absolutely should not go down to the creek in your parents’ backyard or your local park, pluck a few out of the water and then stick them on your forehead. They may all look like gross gelatinous water slugs, but there are specific medicinal leeches, and those are typically found in Europe — specifically, Hungary and Sweden.

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2. Not all ancient therapies are good ones

Kerr is correct in saying that leeches have been used for therapeutic purposes for a very long time, but let this serve as a gentle reminder that not all long-held medical beliefs or treatments are valid (see: female hysteria, the four humors, bloodletting as a cure for basically everything).

3. Kerr isn’t the only celebrity fan

The New York Times reported that Demi Moore has traveled to Austria for a “leech detox” and Heather Dubrow from The Real Housewives of Orange County even got a leech facial on air, saying, “Supposedly, the leech therapy brightens your skin, tightens your skin and gives you a youthful glow.”

4. Chemicals from leech saliva are in some modern medications

Some of the chemical compounds found in leech saliva — the part that’s left behind when they suck blood — have been used in pharmaceutical drugs to treat hypertension, varicose veins, hemorrhoids, arthritis and some skin problems. But again, this is different from just sticking a live leech on your face.

5. They may be helpful in plastic surgery recovery

Leeches are sometimes used to preserve soft tissue and promote healing following facial plastic surgery, assisting with blood clotting and a potentially faster recovery.

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6. There are potential safety issues & complications

Infection occurs in between 2 and 36 percent of patients using leech therapy, which is 1) a pretty wide range and testament to the need for more clinical trials to take place if this is going to become a thing and 2) kind of on the high side. To prevent the spread of infections from patient-to-patient, leeches are discarded after only one use. This didn’t sit well with Kerr, who took the leeches home and put them in her koi pond.

There have also been reports of patients having negative reactions to the leeches, including itching, blisters and local tissue damage — another example of how just because something is “natural” it doesn’t mean you should put it on your skin (see: poison ivy).

Bottom line: There are so many options for facials out there, getting your blood sucked out by a leech really isn't necessary.

3 Perfect Cocktails for the 4th of July: One Red, One White & One Blue

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Ready for a hot weekend full of cool drinks? With America’s birthday right around the corner, it’s crunch time in terms of party planning. Even if you’re not the Independence Day party type, let me and the gang at Disco Kitchen inspire you to at least whip up some seriously festive cocktails.

Here are three of my favorites that taste just as good as freedom feels.

Perfect Cocktails for the Fourth of July: The Red State | Summer Eats
Image: Leslie Kirchhoff

The red state recipe

Ingredients:

  • Malibu Rum
  • Grenadine
  • Seltzer

Directions: 

  1. Pour 2 parts rum into a shaker.
  2. Add 1 part grenadine.
  3. Shake.
  4. Add 1 ice cube into a rocks glass and pour the mixture in.
  5. For a little something extra, add 2 parts seltzer water.

Perfect Cocktails for the Fourth of July: The Bald Eagle | Summer Eats
Image: Leslie Kirchhoff

The bald eagle recipe

Ingredients:

  • Coconut cream
  • Tequila
  • Lime juice
  • Cointreau
  • Salt for rim of glass
  • Lime wheel

Directions: 

  1. Start out by pouring 1 part coconut cream in the shaker.
  2. Add 2 parts tequila to the mix.
  3. Mix in 2 parts lime juice.
  4. Add 1 part Cointreau.
  5. Shake.
  6. Finish off by rimming the glass with salt, garnishing with the lime wheel and pouring in your drink.
Perfect Cocktails for the Fourth of July: The Betsy Ross | Summer Eats
Image: Leslie Kirchhoff

The Betsy Ross recipe

Ingredients:

  • Gin
  • Lillet Blanc
  • Blue Curaçao
  • Lime juice
  • Absinthe

Directions:

  1. Start out by mixing 1 part gin and 1 part Lillet Blanc into the shaker.
  2. For the truly patriotic feel, add in 1 part Blue Curaçao.
  3. Finish off with 1 part lime juice and 1 dash of Absinthe and add a cube of ice.
Perfect Cocktails for the Fourth of July| Summer Eats
Image: Leslie Kirchhoff

Originally posted on StyleCaster.

Chrissy Teigen & John Legend Take Luna to the Zoo in Chicago

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Chrissy Teigen and John Legend have a knack for making the most ordinary family outings look, well, pretty extraordinary.

Currently, the couple is hopping all over the globe with their daughter, Luna (who hit the fun-parent jackpot). The reason? Legend's on his Darkness & Light Tour, and he didn't want to leave his favorite ladies behind.

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We admit we are a little addicted to the family's Instagram feeds. Because oh, the cuteness!

During a recent Chicago trip, the family hit the Lincoln Park Zoo. Legend's photo of the family on the zoo tram is the stuff of, well, legends. He captioned the sweet shot #LunasFirstTour.

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luna zoo

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They also managed to squeeze in a pizza date at Lou Malnati's. (That sound? Our tummies rumbling.) Check out the video posted by Teigen.

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chrissy pizza

Can we come along next time, you guys? If not the zoo, at least let us tag along for the Chicago-style pizza. Please?

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Homework-Burning Parties: Yay or Nay?

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Oh, parenthood. There's never a shortage of things to overthink to death. The latest on that list? Homework-burning parties.

Haven't attended one? No problem; we've got the scoop. As one mom, Katherine Stahl, explained it, "Apparently, it's when a group of kids and parents get together, make a big fire, throw in all of their old homework from the year and watch it burn, Lord of the Flies-style (minus the cannibalism, of course)."

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Stahl is not a fan of homework burning. Her take? We're teaching kids to devalue the hard work they've completed all year. Fair enough.

But plenty of moms on social media have posted about their homework-burning parties with hashtags like #BestIdea and #SoRelieving.

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hw burning

I would add the hashtags #MomJoy and #HellYeah.

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While I respect Stahl's take on homework-burning — and her decision that it's not the right way to celebrate summer's launch, for her family — I personally keep coming back to the same reaction: Weeeee!!!! Light it all! Torch everything! Make it go awaaaaaaaay! Bye-bye, pre-calc and geometry and constitutional history!

My kids are older — teens, to be exact. So I have endured many, many more years of school's-out homework dumped unceremoniously on the dining room table. And have transferred the dumpage into the recycling for far too many years. Which was satisfying, but not a fun family excuse for celebration — or s'mores.

For my kids, that homework ceased to exist the minute they tossed it onto the table. In fact, for them, it ceased to exist the minute they handed it in. This homework is dead to them, people, so why should I try to make it something it's not? They made it through the year — I'm not signing up to be the buzzkill mom to give an after-the-fact lecture on the merits of reviewing (and saying reverent eulogies) to the Macbeth project everyone in the household is frankly delighted to bid adieu.

Nope, I feel no compunction to revisit it with them. I'm just not interested in precious-izing their year's work (or mine). Anyway, I'm more sick of homework than they are. (I'm the mom ready to move to Finland and ditch homework altogether. Yeah, that mom.)

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And I don't think there's a terrible message in firing up the year's homework. In fact, I rather like the idea of releasing all that knowledge back into the universe with the kids. Ashes to ashes, dust to dust, Langston Hughes paper to... roaring marshmallow-toasting flames. It's poetic and tasty.

If you ask me, life is too short to overthink your way out of a bonfire and s'mores with the kids, no matter what the kindling may be.

Or in teenspeak? This mom thinks homework-burning parties are lit. Carry on, homework burners! I'll bring the matches.

Prince William Felt a Lot of Feelings While Fulfilling Royal Grandson Duties

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Some things are just understood by all humans, even those as vastly different as members of the royal family and the rest of humanity. One of those things we can all relate to: acknowledging that wearing a giant fluff-ball of a hat in the hot sun and riding a horse all day kind of sucks.

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OK, maybe not all of us can relate to that situation specifically. But we can sure as hell relate to poor Prince William's facial expressions when he had to do it during rehearsals for the queen's birthday celebrations. The queen's birthday is actually in April, but ceremony dictates it be celebrated during the summer, a time of year that must making wearing one of those damned hats unbearably hot. Will's face says it all.

Here he is trying to adjust his chin strap without touching his face:

Prince William at Queen Elizabeth's birthday rehearsal
Image: Max Mumby/Indigo/Getty Images

Here he is trying to sneakily push his hat back up with a salute after it fell over his eyes:

Prince William at Queen Elizabeth's birthday rehearsal
Image: Max Mumby/Indigo/Getty Images

Here he is continuing to ride his horse completely blind because his hat won't stay put on his head:

Prince William at Queen Elizabeth's birthday rehearsal
Image: Max Mumby/Indigo/Getty Images

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Here he is throwing mad shade because this whole situation is so stuffy and uncomfortable:

Prince William at Queen Elizabeth's birthday rehearsal
Image: Max Mumby/Indigo/Getty Images

And here he is wondering how much more of this he has to endure before he can go home and (probably) finish the new season of Orange Is the New Black:

Prince William at Queen Elizabeth's birthday rehearsal

Image: Max Mumby/Indigo/Getty Images

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The moral of the story? Even the royals themselves get fed up with all the pomp and ceremony in their lives sometimes. It's just one more reason to love them to pieces.

How to Open a Bottle of Wine — Even If You Don't Have a Corkscrew

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You'd think after consuming, oh, about 1.2 million glasses of wine, we'd have opening a bottle down to a science — but unfortunately, things sometimes still go awry. And it's no exaggeration to say that breaking a cork while it's still in the bottle neck is one of life's greatest tragedies. The only situation we would consider worse is when you get a bottle of wine home only to realize you don't even have an opener.

Luckily, there are tricks to opening a bottle of wine when the cork isn't cooperating or when you don't have a traditional opener to do the job for you.

1. Use an Ah-so wine opener instead of a typical corkscrew

If a regular corkscrew always seems to give you trouble, give an Ah-so a try. Also known as a "Waiter's Friend," this two-pronged corkscrew is wedged around the cork and pulls it out of the bottle, unlike a regular corkscrew that penetrates the cork itself. If you don't have to twist so much, it's a lot easier to keep things under control.

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2. Put a hole in it

If your cork looks too crumbly to withstand the corkscrew or your don't have a corkscrew on hand, try poking a small hole in the center of the cork with a sharp, thin nail or very slender drill bit and then pouring the wine through. If you use this method, make sure to pour the wine through a filter to catch any errant bits of cork.

3. Use a shoe

This method takes a little patience but works like a charm. Place your bottle of wine in the heel of a hard-soled shoe, then bang the shoe (while still holding the neck of the bottle) against a hard surface. You want to whack it firmly but not so hard that you blow a hole through the wall. Once enough of the cork has emerged from the neck of the bottle, use your hand to pull it out.

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4. Use two corkscrews at the same time

Alleviate some of the pressure caused by a single corkscrew, and try using two at the same time. Point the corkscrews at an angle moving toward each other, and screw them in until their points meet. Then gently pull both screws to try to dislodge the cork.

5. Knot and thread

Don't have an opener at all? at the end of a piece of strong string or slender rope. Use a tool, like a small screwdriver, to work the knot down around the cork (between the cork and the glass) and into the bottle. Once the knot is below the cork, simply pull firmly on the rope, and the knot will lift the cork out of the bottle.

Melania & Donald Trump Hold Hands as She Moves Into the White House

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School's out for summer, and that means big news in the political world. First lady Melania Trump and Barron, her 11-year-old son with President Donald Trump, have moved into the White House.

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In video posted by NBC, the first lady and Barron were all smiles as they exited Marine One on the White House lawn.

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lMelania Trump arrives to live at the White House w son

Melania and Donald Trump held hands as they walked away after stepping off the helicopter — and they were definitely holding hands this time, unlike in certain other viral moments of theirs.

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Confirming the move with a tweet from the official FLOTUS account, the first lady wrote, "Looking forward to the memories we'll make in our new home! #Movingday," alongside a photo of a view of the Washington Monument through one of the White House windows.

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Melania Trump arrives to live at the White House w son2

She announced early in Trump's presidency that she planned to stay in New York with Barron until he finished his school year at the Upper West Side's Columbia Grammar and Preparatory School uninterrupted. Next year, it's reported that Barron will attend St. Andrew’s Episcopal School in Potomac, Maryland, Vanity Fair reports.

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Just before the election, Melania Trump announced her plan to start a campaign against cyberbullying. Her spokesperson told Vanity Fair that she "continues to work on building her agenda in a thoughtful way... She likes things to be done right, and doing things right takes time." Now that she's in D.C., we'll see if the first lady finally launches that initiative.

Physicians: A Woman’s Choice to Be Child-Free Is Not Up for Debate

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A good doctor is hard to find. And by “good,” I mean a doctor who will not simply treat your symptoms and provide preventative care, but also listen and believe you when you tell them what is true for you. We know that women are treated differently than men when it comes to how their pain is perceived, and it turns out that the gap between what women say and what doctors believe runs even deeper than that.

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As a woman who doesn’t want to have kids (I prefer the term “child-free”), it’s been suggested to me over and over that someday, I will change my mind. I’ve heard everything from “You’d be such a good mom,” (OK, but I don’t want to be a mom, so…) to “Don’t you want to have a family?” (because family can only be created by giving birth to children?) to “But what will you do with your life?” (This is just the saddest question I’ve ever heard.)

Child-free women are forever having to defend their choice and their certainty, not just to family and friends, but to those we’ve designated to help us maintain our health. It should go without saying that whether or not we intend to have children, we deserve a health care experience in which we’re heard and respected, but that’s not always the case.

Although we’ve likely dealt with health care providers around our birth control needs, many child-free women all across the reproductive spectrum report frustrating encounters with doctors. Especially when physicians cast doubt on decisions that have to do with long-term birth control, such as an IUD or in some cases tubal ligation.

For instance, A, who’s 33, asked her provider for a more permanent method of birth control. Her doctor (a woman) responded by laughing and telling her that she could “wait for menopause or have a couple of kids, and then we could talk about it.” Ultimately, A changed doctors and her husband ended up getting a vasectomy.

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It might seem insane to imagine that doctors aren’t well aware that women who don’t want children exist, but A’s experience is hardly atypical. When Annie, who’s 34, was diagnosed with HPV, she was told that it was a good thing it was caught when it was because otherwise, her fertility would have been in jeopardy.

“I shrugged when the doctor told me,” she said. “He said, ‘Doesn’t that bother you?’ I told him it didn’t. He looked horrified and couldn’t leave the room fast enough. It was another doctor who performed my cryotherapy, but I will never see a male doctor ever again.”

While it’s not hard to understand why women would seek more empathetic health care after experiences like these, there are plenty of women who opt to stay with their providers. Stephanie, who’s 44, has been seeing the same gynecologist for seven years in spite of the fact that every time she sees her (once a year), she’s told she should consider getting on prenatal vitamins if she wants to have a baby.

“My doctor says, ‘I just want to make sure you’re in the best health possible if you change your mind.’ The conversation has changed since I turned 40. Now it’s about how if I do want to have kids, there are different considerations given my age, but it’s still not an issue. I don’t want children. I’ve known that since I was 12,” Stephanie explains.

Dr. Amy Blackstone, a sociology professor at the University of Maine, created the blog We’re {Not} Having a Baby with her husband. Through her work there, she’s had the opportunity to speak to many women about their experiences seeking permanent birth control. In one instance, a woman shared that she was forced to watch a video of a tubal ligation to make sure she knew what she was getting into. In another instance, parents of a woman getting her tubes tied were asked if the surgery was “OK with them,” and of course, the question of whether or not husbands were aware of what women were doing.

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We’re still not in a place where women are taken seriously when it comes to knowing what they want to do with their own bodies, and that’s not only depressing, but proves particularly daunting when looking for a gynecologist and/or a primary care physician.

How can child-free women increase the likelihood of finding a provider who will really listen to women like us? Blackstone suggests two tactics: using your networks (another reason why sites like Blackstone’s, which connect child-free folks with each other, are so important) and looking for health care providers who explicitly identify themselves as feminist. Ideally, this would describe every doctor, but until we’re living in that world, it’s a key part of finding the care we need, child-free or not.

By Chanel Dubofsky

Originally published on HelloFlo.

How to Grill Fall-Off-the-Bone Ribs, & What Not to Do

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Cooking up some ribs is a tough deal. Do it right, and you've got flavorful, tender meat that is pretty much what dreams are made of — but one false move and you'll be stuck gnawing rubbery, tough flesh off a bone like a caveman.

Now that it's summer and grilling season is officially on, mastering the art of perfect ribs is totally important. And everything — from the quality of meat you choose to the temperature of the grill to the flavor of the barbecue sauce — makes a difference. Follow this step-by-step guide to grill up some ribs your backyard barbecue guests will be talking about forever.

1. Make a rub

The first thing in preparing tender ribs is creating a rub that's sure to delight your taste buds and add to the ribs' already delicious flavor. We like to keep things simple with a rub consisting of just three ingredients — salt, pepper and cayenne pepper. After applying a generous amount of the rub to the ribs, let them sit and marinate for a good 30 minutes.

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2. Precook the ribs

Most people place their ribs directly on the grill after they marinate. Though this will produce delicious ribs, we recommend precooking them in the oven first. Wrap the ribs in foil, and place them in the oven at 300 degrees F for 45 minutes. Precooking them helps intensify the flavor and naturally brings out the juices, ensuring your ribs will be anything but dry.

3. Grill the ribs

This is the easy part! Place the ribs over indirect, medium heat on your grill. The temperature should be about 325 degrees F. Cover the grill, and cook the ribs for approximately two hours. Do not check on the ribs for the first 30 minutes — this is crucial! If you open the grill too many times, you put the ribs at risk of drying out. After the two hours are up, use a fork to make sure the ribs pull off the bone easily. If so, they are done. If you're using barbecue sauce, now is the time to slather the ribs in it.

What is indirect heat? The cooking does not take place directly over the heat. If you're using a gas grill, turn on half the burners, and place the ribs on the unheated side. This allows them to cook more slowly and evenly and makes it less likely for them to burn. You can learn how to create an indirect heat zone on your grill, with tips from celebrity chef Michael Symon.

4. Cool the ribs

After the ribs are fully cooked, take them off the grill, and let them rest for 10 to 15 minutes. Allowing the meat to rest lets the moisture build up again and prevents the juices from running out of the ribs as you cut them. If you cut the meat right away, you lose a ton of vital juices pertinent to the overall flavor. We know you're hungry and your mouth is watering, but it's worth waiting an extra 10 minutes.

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Common grilling mistakes

The most common mistakes people tend to make when grilling ribs — or grilling meat in general — include:

  • Grilling over direct heat. Any meat that is 2 inches thick or more should be grilled indirectly.
  • Putting on the barbecue sauce too soon. Save this for the end. You don't want the sauce to burn.
  • Peeking too often. If the recipe calls for a closed grill, do your best to not peek. Once per hour is fine, but any more than that, and you run the risk of losing too much moisture.
  • Getting tipsy. We know it's more fun to grill with a drink in hand, but try to limit yourself to just one until the food is served.
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Originally published May 2013. Updated June 2017.

That Fifty Shades Freed Trailer That Was Removed From the Internet Is Back

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Remember back in the beginning of May when a new Fifty Shades trailer leaked, clearly before it was supposed to because it was scrubbed from the internet almost immediately?

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Well now, almost six whole weeks later and still a solid eight months before Fifty Shades Freed is set to hit theaters, that trailer is back — legitimately this time.

New Fifty Shades Freed trailer dropped June 12 on fb

New Fifty Shades Freed trailer dropped June 12 on fb

In this trailer, we learn (again) that Ana and Christian are getting married and jetting off on their ridiculously extravagant European honeymoon on Christian's their private jet. We get to see Ana looking classy AF in her bridal veil and hear Christian's vows, including a very ominous "'til death do us part." No foreshadowing there, no, none at all.

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There are also a bunch of shots of them being happy and married and Christian saying one of the, like, three sweet, non-S&M things he says about all of his money being meaningless before Ana came along. Cue the collective "Aww."

What's missing from this trailer is what we know is coming, because we've all read the books (duh). Ana's deranged boss and Christian's deranged ex are going to team up to try to ruin everything, because if the movie were nothing but Christian and Ana's marital bliss, it would be pretty boring TBH. Though Jamie Dornan's abs could probably keep us entertained for a solid hour, so they have that going for them.

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Fifty Shades Freed drops on Valentine's Day 2018, so there's still plenty of time for two or even three more trailers to drop. Here's hoping, because if we're going to maintain this level of hype for the next eight months, we will need hype fuel.


This Is the Only Industry Where Women Earn More Than Men

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By Liv McConnell

Knowing that the gender pay gap is alive and all too well, it comes as no surprise that recent headlines positioning women as actually earning more than men in “this one industry” caught my eye.

“Whatever could this industry be?” I wondered excitedly in the 0.3 seconds it took the article to load. “Has there been a sudden reversal in the fortunes of women in tech? Perhaps female engineers have experienced a recent breakthrough, or maybe there’s been an inexplicable rise in the demand for female prosthodontists?”

Imagine, then, how flat my face fell when I learned the artfully teased pro-woman industry at hand was… Instagram influencing.

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At least, that’s the case in the U.K. A study conducted by marketing agency Influencer found that Insta-famous women are out-earning their male peers in the U.K. by more than 35 percent thanks to better-paid sponsored content and brand collaborations. According to the agency’s data, a female influencer with at least 100,000 followers can earn up to £41,600 (or about $53,300) for just two sponsored posts a week. Male influencers, on the other hand, earn on average only £31,200 (about $40,000) for the same efforts. Of course, there’s no limit to the amount of sponsored content one can post weekly (look to the Kardashian Klan for proof of that), so it’s reasonable to say these earning estimates err on the demure side.

Honestly, my take on the situation is a bit torn. On the one hand, it’s sad to think that the only “industry” where women are financially valued more than men is one largely centered on superficiality, particularly when it comes to women’s looks (hello, #Fitspiration and #TransformationTuesday). More often than not, women who’ve reached Insta-fame reflect traditionally held and restrictive beauty norms (with the help of plenty of apps), and several studies have shown that women are more and more turning to social media as their body image benchmark (as opposed to TV, magazines and billboards). It’s sad that a platform in many ways tied to women’s reported rates of low self-esteem is the same platform that’s financially rewarding us the most.

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On the other hand, financial empowerment is still empowerment. According to this study’s data, women influencers with a following of 100,000 and two sponsored posts a week are earning 50 percent more than the average salary of full-time employees in the U.K. When the country’s gender pay gap isn’t estimated to close until 2041, can you really fault women for grabbing at prosperity where they can find it? Nope. Not really. (And of course, there are also plenty of radprogressive and diverse women doing cool things on Instagram — and getting paid for it! — too.)

Originally published on Fairygodboss.

Lindsay Lohan's Making Her Return to TV Alongside Ron Weasley Rupert Grint

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Welp. Lindsay Lohan has returned to acting (with her newly acquired accent? Only time will tell). And none of us in the U.S. of A can watch her new show because everything is terrible and unfair in this world.

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It's been three years since Lohan appeared on a any size screen — her last acting credit was a guest appearance on an episode of 2 Broke Girls. Before that, she was in the movie The Canyons, but that was released almost four years ago now. Suffice it to say, we are overdue for some LiLo on our screens.

Lohan announced her involvement in the British show Sick Note with a photo taken on set and posted to Instagram. In the pic, she's posing alongside her co-stars Rupert Grint and Nick Frost.

Lindsay Lohan announces new British show we cant watch

Lindsay Lohan announces new British show we cant watch

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And can we just point out how fab her hair looks? That asymmetrical bob is lit.

The show, which airs on Sky 1 and is therefore unavailable to Americans (boo!) follows Daniel Glass (Grint), a compulsive liar stuck in a dead-end job whose relationship is falling apart. He also has to deal with his overbearing boss (Don Johnson). Lohan is joining in the show's second season as Johnson's daughter. The first season of the show airs beginning this fall, while the second season is currently filming.

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In the first season, Grint's character is diagnosed with a terminal illness that turns out to be nothing, but his doctor encourages him to lie to friends, family and colleagues about his disease and the lie (obviously) spirals hilariously out of control — 10/10 would watch. It's just not fair that the U.S. can't watch this. Netflix, where you at?

Katy Perry's Doing a Lot of Apologizing, Even to Taylor Swift

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It appears that Katy Perry has changed her tune (see what I did there?) about, well, a lot of things. In an interesting twist, the pop singer just walked away from her long-standing feud with fellow music sensation, Taylor Swift — and that isn't the only peacemaking Perry is doing.

As for the rift with Swift, it supposedly all stemmed from the ladies' mutual ex, John Mayer. As you may well remember, Swift penned the hit breakup ballad "Dear John" following her brief-lived fling with Mayer. When Perry later took up with him, the new duo reportedly made Swift public enemy numero uno.

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Now, many, many, many moons and various incarnations of the same argument later, Perry has decided to drop it once and for all.

In an interview with The Thrive Global Podcast, she revealed, "I am ready to let it go. I forgive her and I'm sorry for anything I ever did, and I hope the same from her. I think it's actually like, I think it's time. There are bigger fish to fry, and there are real problems in the world. You know what I'm saying?"

Perry went on to say, "I love her, and I want the best for her." And, calling Swift a fantastic songwriter, she confessed that she hoped mending fences with Tay might inspire other girls and women to do the same.

"I think that if we, both her and I, can be representatives of strong women that come together despite their differences, I think the whole world is going to go like, 'Yeah, well we can do this,'" she said. "I don't know. Maybe I don't agree with everything she does and she doesn't agree with everything I do, but I just really, truly want to come together in a place of love and forgiveness and understanding and compassion."

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Perry wrapped it up by literally singing the Frozen theme song, "Let it Go," and offering a good ol' fashioned Southern-style God-blessing. "There's a lot of other things out there in the world that people need to be focused on," she said. "God bless her on her journey. God bless her. Honestly."

Honestly, even.

But Perry's goodwill tour didn't stop there. In addition to smoothing things over with Swift, the pop star spoke on Black Lives Matter activist Deray McKesson's podcast, Pod Save the People — among the topics of conversation, Perry's history of cultural appropriation came into play.

"I won't ever understand some of those things because of who I am," she said, alluding to her inherent white privilege. "I will never understand, but I can educate myself, and that's what I'm trying to do along the way... I didn't know that I did it wrong until I heard people saying I did it wrong. And, sometimes that's what it takes. It takes someone to say, out of compassion and out of love, 'Hey, this is what the origin is.'"

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Y'know, we like this new Perry — the one who owns up to her mistakes and tries to learn from them. We can't wait to see who she visits next as part of this apparent world apology tour. Good for you, girl!

Who Needs Bachelor in Paradise When You Can Swoon Over the New Bachelor Canada?

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Praise be to The Bachelor gods, because fans now officially have something to distract them from this whole Bachelor in Paradise debacle. What could this divine intervention be, you ask? Why, a dreamy new Bachelor Canada: Chris Leroux.

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If you're not big into sports — specifically baseball — you may be wondering who Leroux is. If you do happen to be a sports fanatic, though, you might recognize the 33-year-old as a pitcher who has taken the mound for top-notch teams like the Florida Marlins and New York Yankees.

Recently retired, Leroux is no longer seeking strike-outs. In fact, we'll go ahead and run with the cliche and say he's hoping to hit a home run as the latest suitor to look for love on the Bachelor Canada franchise.

So what do we know about this athletic lothario? Here are a few fun facts about Canada's most eligible bachelor.

1. His last name is pronounced "le-ROO"

Not le-ROW and definitely not le-ROWX, but le-ROO — you know, as in the name of the cute little kangaroo from Winnie and the Pooh stories. Also not to be confused with Chris LeDoux, the late great country music singer and rodeo hall-of-famer.

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2. He played ball in college

Although Leroux was born in Montreal (on April 14, 1984, to be exact) and spent his early school years in Ontario, he came to the States for college. Here, he attended Winthrop University in South Carolina, where he played on the college ball team, the Winthrop Eagles.

3. He's a tall drink of water

At 6'6, Leroux will very likely tower over most of the women vying for his affection on his season of The Bachelor Canada. Although, hey, it would be nice to see a few more tall ladies (holla if you don't need heels to add height!) earn a spot on Leroux's roster.

4. You can't stalk follow him on social media... yet

As of press time, it doesn't appear Leroux has any social profiles — or they are hidden from public view. Since this seems likely to change once his gig as Bachelor Canada officially kicks off in the fall, it looks like we'll all have to be patient if we want to low-key creep his profiles.

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5. He may not realize what The Bachelor is all about

According to Hello! magazine, Leroux is not a fan of drama. Or break-ups. Or dramatic break-ups. During an interview with ET Canada, the strappin' athlete revealed he isn't good with "handling drama" and is "really bad at breaking up." Oopsie, guess no one clued Leroux into the very premise of the show!

A New BIP Photo May Ruin Bachelorette Season 13 for Everyone

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In the wake of the allegations of sexual misconduct on the set of Bachelor in Paradise, we know that the cast was immediately flown back to U.S. shores. As the news about the incident unfolded, however, we may have neglected to pay attention to particular BIP cast members who were posting about their journey on social media. If we had been paying more attention, we might have seen that there were some potentially major Bachelorette Season 13 spoilers in our midst.

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As Entertainment Tonight notes, there were some BIP cast members posting pictures to their Instagram that actually revealed Bachelorette Season 13 cast members that have yet to be eliminated, per the episodes that have aired already. These photos were captured from the Instagram timelines of various BIP cast members, so while they've disappeared from Instagram, you can check them out on Entertainment Tonight's coverage of the story.

BiP Cast Photo Airport Instagram

BiP Cast Photo Airport Instagram

The most damning instance of this spoiler-ific event is the case of still current (on the show, that is) contestants Diggy Moreland and Iggy Rodriguez. Both men posed for a photo with Bachelorette Season 12 contestant Derek Peth while all three were still in the airport on their way home. The men all appear to be tagged in the photo, and while there's always room for the men to deny it, it's pretty tough not to see that those are Moreland, Rodriguez and Peth.

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This could have big repercussions for Bachelorette Season 13. Aside from the obvious fact that the fun of watching is lessened a bit for some fans because they know who gets eliminated (adios, Moreland and Rodriguez!), there's also the question of whether or not these men may have breached their contracts. For their part, as ET reports, the two men appeared in an Instagram Live video together on Monday night and maintained they knew nothing about the incident.

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As this story continues to evolve, it's just a shame that the Bachelorette Season 13, which is no stranger to controversy, keeps getting thrown under the bus. Let's hope that Rachel Lindsay, the current Bachelorette, emerges victorious after this.

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