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13 Feminist books for the women's history buff

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1. An Overview of the battle for freedom and equality

When Everything Changed
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When Everything Changed: The Amazing Journey of American Women from 1960 to the Present by Gail Collins. The author, a columnist for The New York Times, provides an overview of how things got this way with her usual witty, yet fully informed, self when describing decades of women’s rights activism. Consider this book that you should have been assigned before you graduated from college, if not high school. (Hachette Book Group, $28)

2. Freedom in marriage

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The Feminine Mystique by Betty Friedan. Betty Friedan remains controversial beyond the grave, in part, because this book reflects the status of women married to men who make a good income — not employed women, not women of color and certainly not lesbians. Nevertheless, it remains essential reading as it touched off a storm that is still being waged over the work-life balance and the ideal family life. Arguably one of the most important books of the 20th century. ($15, Amazon)

3. Equality in maternal caregiving

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The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding by La Leche League International. This book is the real deal produced by the La Leche League, which grew from a 1956 group of lactating Chicago mothers, who decided to come together to share and eventually write down what they wished they had known. Dedicated to supporting nursing and expectant mothers, the internationally respected La Leche League has set the standard for educating and supporting mothers in this natural art for generations. The league says the updated version has been retooled, refocused and updated for today’s mothers and lifestyles. Good, because employers are now required by law to provide time for women to pump. Next up: Paid parental leave so women can stay at home for a while and skip pumping for weeks or even several months. ($20, La Leche League)

4. Freedom in our daily lives

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The Sisterhood is Powerful by Robin Morgan. The first comprehensive collection of writings from the women's liberation movement with more than 50 contributors, all women, about how the status of women and girls is used and abused by the major institutions of U.S. society — marriage, the family, church, courts, the media, welfare, the schools, the professions, business and industry. Often credited as popularizing the women’s rights movement in the United States, this still serves as a basic book about what we are complaining about. (Amazon, $35)re

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5. Equality in our health care

Our bodies, ourselves
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Our Bodies, Ourselves by Boston Women’s Health Book Collective. First published way back when and regularly updated, this is a most fundamental book about, well, our bodies. It was birthed when a group of highly educated Boston women began to believe their doctors might not actually know what was best for them or actually any of us. The classic and comprehensive guide is regularly updated and includes all aspects of women's health and sexuality, including menopause, birth control, childbirth, sexual health, sexual orientation, gender identity, mental health and general well-being. ($28, Indie Bound)

6. Freedom to be in public spaces

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Against Our Will: Men, Women and Rape by Susan Brownmiller. This book is so powerful that I remember where I was when I happened to begin reading a review. Against Our Will is crucial to understanding the current campus movements to end impunity for sexual assaults and the international initiatives to end rape as a weapon of war. (Amazon, $14)

7. Freedom from violence in our homes

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Battered Wives by Del Martin. This is the book that broke the silence surrounding violence against U. S. women. It remains the best general introduction to partner violence and includes excellent critical summaries of the legal and political status of battered wives and the extent to which their immediate predicament must be understood in broad political terms. A long-time activist for lesbian rights, Martin married Phyllis Ann Lyon, in San Francisco on June 16, 2008, in the first same-sex wedding to take place in San Francisco after the state’s highest court same-sex marriage. Two months later, Martin died from complications of an arm bone fracture in San Francisco. ($35, Amazon)

8. Equality in the nation’s narrative

But some of us are brave
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But Some of Us Are Brave from The Feminist Press. Originally published in 1982, this is a guide for anyone who wishes to include women of African descent in the history of American women and in the history of the descendants of Africans in the United States. It features essays by Alice Walker, the Combahee River Collective and Barbara Smith. This book is vital in this post-Ferguson discussion of race, gender and impunity in America. (The Feminist Press, $20)

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9. Freedom from biased public policy

Backlash
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Backlash: The Undeclared War Against American Women by Susan Faludi. Faludi called it in 1991: American women were in for a massive push back on every major front — media, politics, fashion, psychology, work and reproductive health care. Sigh. She was so right, and we are still being pushed around. (Google Books, $4)

10. Equality in political power

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The Republican War Against Women: An Insider’s Report from Behind the Lines by Tanya Melich. Melich was the first to fully document the moment in the history of the Republican Party’s decision to include an unprecedented anti-abortion plank in the 1980 convention’s platform — the same convention that nominated Ronald Reagan for president. Given the number of republicans serving on the U.S. Supreme Court about the hear a crucial case on access to abortion services, it is well-worth understanding the political calculation that continues to be central to the republican election strategies. (Google Books, $14)

11. Freedom to decide what is news

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The Girls in the Balcony by Nan Robertson. If you ever wondered why a nation’s most influential news media ignore or mishandle stories, events and trends concerning women’s lives, this is the place to start boning up on the history of women in journalism. (Amazon, $18)

12. Equality in the workplace

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Strange Justice: The Selling of Clarence Thomas by Jill Abramson and Jane Mayer. The team’s full account of the 1991 Congressional hearings into Anita Hill’s accusation that Thomas had sexually harassed her when he was her boss at the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. Strange Justice documents not only the Congress’ motives for trashing Anita Hill on national television, but also the political paybacks behind Thomas’s nomination and appointment to the U.S. Supreme Court. The conduct of the members of Congress during the hearings sparked what became the “year of the women,” when record numbers of women were elected to the House and the Senate and the creation of multiple organizations to boost women’s representation in elected public office. (Amazon, $5)

13. Equality and freedom under the law

Ida
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Ida: A Sword Among Lions by Paula Giddings. The definitive biography of Ida Barnett Wells, a newspaper publisher and journalist who stood up against the lynching and segregation in post-Reconstruction era and who also fought for women’s rights during some of the most tumultuous periods in American history. Embattled all of her activist life, Wells found herself fighting not only conservative adversaries, but also icons of the civil rights and women’s suffrage organizations, who sought to limit her place and the place of all women of African descent in the campaigns to gain access to the ballot box. ($7, Barnes & Noble)


20 Things your toddler really wants for Christmas

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The three-and-under crowd is usually more excited about the wrapping paper than the gift itself. Before you start practicing for your West Wide Story-style snap battle with another parent over the last must-have little kid toy of the season, check out this list of things that toddlers really want for Christmas.

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1. Ten minutes alone with a roll of toilet paper.

2. Your cellphone (not that plastic toy imposter, because they're on to your tricks!).

3. One of those bone-shaped cookies they think must be your favorite because you freak out whenever they sneak one from the box next to the dog food bag.

4. A shirt with a cartoon character they recognize on the front. Not that one. Not that one. THAT one.

5. Something huggable.

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6. A toy that takes six batteries, has no off button and is super easy for a parent to trip over and activate in the middle of the night.

7. That mushy, half-eaten banana you threw out the other day because you thought they were finished but they weren't.

8. Whatever toy their older sibling is holding at this exact moment.

9. "Up."

More: Should you really take that pacifier away from your child? (INFOGRAPHIC)

10. An empty box, size L.

11. Grandma.

12. The wedding vase you keep on the highest shelf and refer to as your "last nice thing."

13. Shoes that light up.

14. Bubble wrap.

15. For the cat to stay still long enough for a hug.

16. A chance to climb the Christmas tree.

17. Fifty-two binkies in a variety of colors.

18. Juice, but only in a red cup.

19. All-access pass to the big bed.

20. To zipper their coat/buckle the car seat/close the door/turn off the light by themselves.

15 Batman gifts for the caped crusaders on your list

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Do you have a Batman fan in your life? Trying to decide what perfect gift to get him or her this holiday season? Don't fret! I've complied a list of great Batman items that are both practical and affordable. The great thing about this list is that it includes things for men and women.

Jingle Bells, Batman smells Robin laid an egg. The Batmobile lost a wheel and the Joker got away (Hey!)

1. iPhone case

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Batman (Wayne) iPhone 6 case (Society6, $35)

2. Vinyl Figures

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Arkham Knight POP! Vinyl figures (ThinkGeek, $10)

3. Water Bottle

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Batman logo water bottle (Amazon, $10)

4. Towel

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Batman logo towel (Target, $10)

5. Panties

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Batman panties (3-pack) (ThinkGeek, $25)

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6. Bedding

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Batman bedding, full (Amazon, $85)

7. Headphones

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Batman logo headphones (Amazon, $21)

8. Pants

Tights
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Batman leggings (Amazon, $14)

9. Robe

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Men's bathrobe (Target, $30)

10. Onesie

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Batman onesies (Target, $25)

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11. Projections

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Batman wireless project lights (Amazon, $7)

12. PlayStation Decal

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PlayStation 4 light decal (2-pack) (Amazon, $5)

13. Tie

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Batman silk tie (ThinkGeek, $50)

14. Batman/Joker Print

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Batman Joker print (Society6, $37)

15. Boxers

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Batman caped boxers (Target, $9)

12 Gifts for the small business owner on your list

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Here's our favorite gift ideas to help them be their Best Kept Self so their business can thrive:

1. Wearable tech

Ringly
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Ringly is a wearable that connects to your smartphone. No longer do you need your phone on the lunch table when taking that important meeting. Customized vibration and subtle light notifcations on the side of the ring notify you of important calls, emails and texts so you can stay phone-free and focused on the task at hand. (Ringly, $260)

2. Anker PowerCore phone charger

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Image: Amazon

A business owner is constantly on their phone and always on-the-go. This portable and small charger allows them to stay juiced up through their entire day. (Amazon, $10)

3. Moleskine Evernote smart notebook

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Every solopreneur has a go-to notebook, but now it's easy to turn those hand-written notes into a digital saved file in Evernote. Using the Evernote Page Camera feature, you can capture the pages of your notebook with your smartphone. Plus, the notebook comes with a three-month Evernote Premium subscription. (Amazon, $21)

4. UEL ZING Cold Brew coffee

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A solopreneur often thrives on coffee. Get this great tasting UEL ZING cold brew coffee in a pack of four sleek 12-ounce bottles. They have a shelf life of four weeks and come in reusable/recycleable and BPA-free bottles. (SquareUp, $12)

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5. QuietComfort acoustic noise-cancelling headphones

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Whether it be on a plane or working in a coffee shop, getting and staying in the zone is key for a solopreneur. These noise-cancelling comfort fit headphones from Bose are a perfect addition to their toolbox. (Bose, $300)

6. Fuzzy Lund house slides

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Coming home and slipping into something comfortable is at the top of every solorpreneur's list. There's nothing better to slip into than fuzzy heaven against your tired soles. Check out this fuzzy and uber comfortable house slides from Lund. (Pole and Swede, $48)

7. Henri Bendel leather compact mirror

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Touch-up on the go with this beautiful Henri Bendel leather compact mirror — perfect to slide into a small clutch and a tote. (Henri4 Bendel, $48)

8. Charging cable and stylish key chain

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POWER Link Tassel is fashion that's functional. This genuine leather tassled key chain also doubles as tools to recharge your mobile devices.(Native Union, $60)

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9. "Behind Every Successful Woman Is Herself" art print

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Get this print in a variety of sizes for the most motivated and inspiring solopreneur that you know. (Zazzle, $10)

10. "I'm Outta Here" passport holder

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For the solopreneur who travels, this stylish passport holder will keep their most important documents safe. (ASOS, $36)

11. Virtual keyboard

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Type on any flat surface with this virtual keyboard, which syncs via bluetooth to smartphones, laptops and tablets. Perfect for airplanes or unplanned emails that need to be sent via iphone. (Brookstone, $119)

12. 2016 17-month agenda

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Plan the new year right with this Kate Spade 2016 agenda. Stylish and organized — just the way a solopreneur likes to live their life. (Kate Spade, $36)

Have more gift ideas? I'd love to hear them. Send me a tweet (@MsShaunaMack) with your picks and head on over to Best Kept Self to get more ideas on how to pamper the solopreneur in your life.

11 Gifts to make life easier for any new mom of twins

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1. Food

Munchery
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I put a call out to the San Francisco Parents of Multiples Club and asked them what their favorite gift was when they were a new mom. The answer was a landslide! The way to a new twin mom's heart is through her stomach. Nobody has time to cook when you are dealing with double trouble. Munchery is a delicious healthy food option here in the Bay Area. If you don't have access to Munchery, gift cards or a home-cooked meal always make great gifts. (Munchery, $50)

2. Night nanny fund

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Now that mommy's belly is full, she needs her beauty sleep. If you can't come over and take over the night shift, help her out by contributing to a night nanny fund. Care.com has excellent options for trained professionals. Let them pull an all-nigher so you don't have too. Be sure to make sure the night nanny has twins experience when you start your search. (Care.com, $25-$50 an hour depending on where you live)

3. Table for Two

Table for two
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Wondering how in the heck she is going to feed two babies at the same time? Well, every woman has her secrets and twin moms have more than a few tricks up their sleeves. Table for Two is a lifesaver for all parents of twins! This secure, sturdy twin feeder saves you time, energy and sanity, and makes mealtime more comfortable for you and your twins. Whether putting breast milk into bottles or giving formula, Table for Two cuts the work in half! (Buy Table for Two, $269)

4. San Diego Bébé Twins Eco-Nursing Pillow

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Seriously, how does she do it? Breastfeeding two at once is no easy feat. San Diego Bébé makes it easier for her to nurse two at once and still be discreet. This lifesaver is designed by San Diego-native Sandy Clark, who is also a twin mom. (Double Blessings, $70)

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5. Baby Shusher

Baby Shusher
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Silence is a virtue most new babies don't have. When twins start screaming in sync, Mom starts losing her mind. There's no need for Mom to worry about nonstop shushing anymore. The Baby Shusher does the work for her. This revolutionary new tool for parents uses an ancient, but doctor-tested and doctor-approved, technique to help soothe fussy babies and help them get some much-needed sleep. (Amazon, $32)

6. Magnificent Baby clothing

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Most new twin moms break out in a cold sweat when it's time to pull the onesie over the head of a wiggle-worm newborn. Sleepless nights will lead to visions of nonstop snaps dancing in mom's head. I have to thank my mother-in-law for bringing the miracle of magnets into my life. Magnificent Baby uses magnetic fasteners to get babies dressed! No more dreaded night changings — simply open the footie, insert baby and the outfit practically dresses itself. (Magnificent Baby, $30)

7. Diaper Duty: Amazon Mom

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When in doubt, get her diapers — or better yet, get her a diaper subscription. Twin mamas are on diaper duty 24-7. Look, poop happens and when it does you want to make sure mama is covered. If handing over a duffel bag of diapers doesn't seem thoughtful enough, how about getting her an Amazon Prime subscription? That way she can sign up for Amazon Mom, save 20 percent and have diapers automatically delivered directly to her door. (Amazon, $99/year)

8. Motorola MBP36S-2 Wireless two-way digital video monitor with 3.5-inch screen and second camera

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Every breath you take and every move you make, mom will be watching both of you. The Motorola Wireless two-way digital video monitor enables her to always keep an eye on both babies. It comes with a second camera and two-way audio, so she can chat with her little ones. (Buy Buy Baby, $280)

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9. Skip Hop Duo Double diaper bag

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Twin mommyhood can leave many new moms feeling more like a bag lady than a Bradshaw — Carrie Bradshaw that is. The Skip Hop Duo Double hold-it-all diaper bag is roomy enough for two babies and looks pretty stylish too. This diaper bag attaches to the handlebars of any double stroller. With a roomy main compartment, two insulated pockets and a cushioned changing pad, the bag has enough capacity to carry supplies for two or more children. It can be worn as a messenger bag or tote. (Amazon, $80)

10. Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Twins

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Give the gift of a good night's sleep — believe me, she's going to need it. Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Twins was written by Dr. Marc Weissbluth, one of the nation’s most-trusted sleep experts. This book offers up a guide for sleep training twins, so that everybody (including Mom and Dad) will be rested and happy! (Amazon, $11)

11. Double Time: Twins Schedule Book

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Twin moms are often operating on autopilot. Remembering who ate what and when is harder than you think. Double Time: Twins Schedule Book keeps track of feedings, diapering, medications, naps and other important information with easy-to-use, daily schedules designed just for twins. (Just Multiples, $13)

Slow Cooker Sunday: Effortless homemade Italian wedding soup

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Slow cookers are good for so many dishes and really do take the stress out of preparing a healthy (and easy) meal. I love making homemade soup, but I don’t always have the time to stand around while it’s cooking.

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This super-easy homemade Italian wedding soup is made effortlessly by using the slow cooker. I made my own chicken meatballs, but you can certainly use frozen if you like. The chicken will cook completely by the time the soup is finished, making this a delicious and hassle-free meal.

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Slow cooker Italian wedding soup recipe

Serves 6

Prep time: 20 minutes | Cook time: 4 hours | Total time: 4 hours 20 minutes

Ingredients:

For the chicken meatballs

  • 1 pound ground chicken
  • 1/4 cup Italian-style breadcrumbs
  • 1/4 cup grated Parmesan cheese
  • 1 tablespoon dried Italian seasonings
  • 1 teaspoon garlic powder
  • 1 whole egg
  • Salt and pepper, to taste

For the soup

  • 6 cups chicken stock
  • 1 cup uncooked small-shape pasta
  • 1-1/2 cups diced carrots
  • 1 small sweet onion, minced
  • 2 cups fresh baby spinach
  • Fresh parsley, for garnish

Directions:

  1. In a mixing bowl, combine the ingredients for the meatballs, and mix well. Using a small spoon, form the meatballs, and transfer them to a plate.
  2. To the bowl of the slow cooker, add all the ingredients for the soup, but reserve the spinach.
  3. Carefully add the meatballs to the slow cooker, and cover with the lid.
  4. Set the slow cooker to cook on high for 3 to 4 hours, cooking until the chicken meatballs are no longer pink inside.
  5. Right before serving the soup, add the fresh spinach to the slow cooker to allow the spinach to wilt.
  6. Spoon the soup into bowls, and garnish with fresh chopped parsley and fresh Italian bread for dipping, if desired.

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Banish dandruff for good with all-natural home treatments

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Dandruff is basically a buildup of skin cells that have matured and dried too fast, which can cause itching and leave unsightly flakes on the hairline.

The best products for treating dandruff are those that get rid of the skin buildup or that act as a fungicide.

1. Apple cider vinegar

Apple cider vinegar has many surprising benefits, and one of them is as a treatment for dandruff and a dry, itchy scalp. Simply wash your hair with your regular shampoo, and rinse well. Mix 1 part apple cider vinegar with 3 parts water, pour it over your hair, and leave it to sit for 15 minutes before rinsing with water.

Apple cider vinegar for dandruff

Apple cider vinegar for dandruff

2. Baking soda

Baking soda is a natural, mild exfoliator and also acts as a fungicide, making it a powerful treatment for dandruff. Everyday Roots recommends mixing 1 tablespoon of baking soda to 1 cup of warm water and pouring it into an old (clean) shampoo bottle. Shake the mixture well, then apply it generously to your hair. Use in place of shampoo, preferably once a day, until you notice a difference in your dandruff. Don’t worry if your hair feels dry initially — its natural oils will soon do their job. To give the mixture a pleasant fragrance, add a few drops of rosemary oil.

More: 10 Apple cider vinegar beauty benefits you're missing out on

3. Fenugreek

The plant fenugreek, commonly used as a spice in Indian cooking, is known for having medicinal properties. The seeds of the plant are high in protein and amino acids, which are believed to boost hair health and help eliminate dandruff.

Mix 3 tablespoons of finely powdered fenugreek seeds with as much plain yogourt as you need to make a thick paste. Mix well, and leave it to soak overnight. Apply the paste once per week, leaving it on the scalp for up to 10 minutes. Rinse well, and wash as normal.

Fenugreek for dandruff

Fenugreek for dandruff

4. Tea tree oil

While it might seem strange to use oil to treat dandruff when excess oil can be the root cause of the problem, certain oils can help keep it at bay, and one of the most popular is tea tree oil. The oil extracted from the leaves of the tea tree plant have fungicidal properties and also help soothe itchy, irritated skin.

Pour 1 tablespoon of tea tree oil into 1 cup of warm water, and mix together in a clean spray bottle. Shampoo your hair as normal, then spray the tea tree mixture all over your scalp. Massage it gently into the scalp, then leave it to sit for a few minutes. Remove excess moisture by patting, but don’t wash it out.

5. Salt

A natural home remedy for dandruff everybody has in the kitchen is salt, and it couldn't be simpler. According to Reader's Digest, shaking some salt onto your dry scalp before you shampoo is great for removing dandruff flakes. Work the salt through your hair with your fingers, massaging it into your scalp, then shampoo as normal.

Do you have a great home remedy for dandruff? Let us know in the comments below.

More: Shampooing with oil isn't as crazy as it sounds

How to decide if your kid is old enough for a cell phone

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If you think your kids' technological savvy is greater than their ability to use it wisely, pay attention to the gap. You may need to say, "No, not yet." But if you think they might be ready, their ages aren't as important as their maturity level, ability to follow your (and their schools') rules, and their sense of responsibility.

Here are some questions to consider:

  • Do your kids show a sense of responsibility, such as letting you know when they leave the house? Do they show up when they say they will?
  • Do your kids tend to lose things, such as backpacks or homework folders? If so, expect they might lose an (expensive!) phone too.
  • Do your kids need to be in touch for safety reasons?
  • Would having easy access to friends benefit them for social reasons?
  • Do you think they'll use cell phones responsibly — for example, not texting during class or disturbing others with their phone conversations?
  • Can they adhere to limits you set for minutes talked and apps downloaded?
  • Will they use text, photo and video functions responsibly and not to embarrass or harass others?

15 Practical gifts every food blogger can use

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1. Vinyl photography backgrounds

Vinyl backdrop
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Surprise! Most rustic looking photography backgrounds are actually vinyl prints. Bloggers love them because they’re easy to clean, take up limited space and provide lots of variety for blog posts. The 2-by-2-foot size is perfect for food photography. (Etsy/SwankyPrints, $10)

2. iPhone camera accessories

Lens Accessory
Image: Amazon

Lens accessories are perfect for food bloggers who love to Instagram. Clip them onto your phone and start snapping pics. The macro lens attachment allows for crisp close-up shots, and the wide-angle lens is perfect for large table spreads. (Amazon, $25)

3. Mixed silver-plated flatware

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Image: Food.com

Beautiful flatware can make the difference between an ordinary photo and an extraordinary one, but unique utensils can be hard to find. This mixed set of vintage utensils is everything your blogger friends are looking for. (Food52, $40 for a set of four)

4. Tickets to BlogHer Food 2016

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One of the best food blogger conferences in the U.S. is headed to quirky Austin, Texas on October 7-8, 2016. Early-bird discounts are available through December 31, making it the perfect holiday gift. (BlogHer, $198)

5. Marble slab

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Image: Sur La table

Marble is so hot right now. If your food blogger friend doesn’t have a marble pastry slab yet, it makes the perfect mid-priced gift. (Sur La Table, $40)

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6. Tabletop lighting kit

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Image: B&H

Great lighting is essential for food photography, but natural light is unpredictable and tough to schedule around. This tabletop fluorescent light makes it easy to take great photos at any time of day. (B&H, $106)

7. Unique dishes

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Image: Food52

Smaller plates and dishes work best for food photography. They help keep the focus on the food and fit better on small tables and backgrounds. While classic white is always great, ceramic is a hot new trend food bloggers are sure to love. (Food52, $100 for a set of four)

8. Tasty food photography e-book

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Image: Pinch of Yum

Perfect for bloggers looking to brush up on their photography skills. This relatively inexpensive gift is priceless and always well received. (Pinch of Yum, $29) 

9. Fashionable cleaning cloths

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Image: Food52

Cooking can get messy. Help your blogger friends clean up in style with this fashionable pack of reusable cleaning cloths. (Food52, $70)

10. Entry-level digital SLR camera

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Image: Amazon

Help a budding food photographer take their images to the next level with an entry-level digital SLR camera. Many food bloggers swear by the Canon Rebel — it’s relatively inexpensive, as far as cameras go, but takes amazingly high-quality photos. Added perk: It also films video! (Amazon, $399)

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11. Trendy aprons

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Image: Anthropologie

Hey, just because bloggers are in the kitchen all day doesn’t mean they don’t want to look cute! Trendy aprons are a great way to bring some fashion into the kitchen. (Anthropologie, $42)

12. Set of prep bowls

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Recipe development requires patience and organization. Help your food blogger friends organize their ingredients in these adorable clear glass bowls in a variety of sizes. (Crate & Barrel, $30 for a set of 10)

13. Classic white backdrop

There’s something about a simple white backdrop that makes food pop. This is a great gift for beginner bloggers who are trying to make their photos look more professional. (Ikea, $9)

14. Adobe Creative Cloud subscription

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Image: Adobe

Give a gift that lasts all year with an annual subscription to Adobe Creative Cloud. Perfect for editing photos in Lightroom and making Pinterest posts in Photoshop. (Adobe, $120 annual prepaid subscription)

15. Engraved cutting board

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Image: Etsy

A large wooden cutting board serves double duty: It’s an excellent kitchen tool and attractive photo prop. Have it custom engraved with your friend's blog name for subtle branding in photos. (Etsy, $58)

How to tell if your child is ready for a sleepover

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Many young children love the idea of attending a sleepover party. Pinkalicious had one, the Strawberry Shortcake gang waxed poetic about how much fun there is to be had when you spent the night with friends, and visions of purple sleeping bags, giggling all night and digging into big plates of blueberry pancakes with their buddies in the morning often dance in their heads. But that doesn't mean they're always sold on the idea when it becomes a reality — some may completely balk at the notion when they realize you won't be sleeping in the room down the hallway from theirs.

While some children are born ready to climb out their bedroom windows and explore the world, others need a little encouragement and lots of patience on our parts so that they can ease into the idea of separating from their comfort zones.

"Sleepovers are a big part of childhood — it is a great chance to develop stronger friendships, socialize and gain independence, in addition to experiencing how other people live," says Dr. Stephanie Mihalas, a licensed psychologist who works with children, adolescents and families in Los Angeles. "It is also a learning experience for parents, as they must deal with their child leaving the nest. Though sleepovers can be beneficial to your child's social development, it is important to know when they are ready and how to prepare."

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Mihalas says there isn't one specific age at which a child is suddenly ready to pack up her teddy bear and go — some may be ready as young as 5, while others need a few more years to get used to the concept. But if we're in tune with our child, we can more easily assess whether or not they're ready for this big step.

"They should be able to care for their own night rituals, such as brushing their teeth or going to the bathroom alone, and have no trouble sleeping through the night," Mihalas says. "However, the most important aspect of sleepover readiness is if the child wants to have one. A child ready for sleepover fun will be excited and may want to host their own sleepover party."

The easiest way to find out their feelings about it is by simply asking them, says New York City-based clinical psychologist Dr. Jephtha Tausig-Edwards. It's important to then take their word as law and not force them to do something just because you fear they'll miss out on a good experience.

"Children will let you know if you ask them open-ended questions about what they would like to do," Tausig-Edwards says. "It’s rarely a good idea for parents to push their children to either attend or host a sleepover. This is a social activity, and one that some children may need some coaching on in terms of how to be a good guest or host, but it’s not something which should feel compulsory or required."

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If your child or teen is mulling over a sleepover invitation, but is still on the fence about it, Mihalas offers four tips to keep in mind:

Give your child tools for the sleepover — "Let them know they can talk to an adult about any issue, and it is always okay to call home," Mihalas says. "Sleepovers can be scary, and knowing they can call home may give an extra sense of comfort."

Host a sleepover at your own house instead — To help your child to get a sense of what a sleepover party is all about, allow her to host a party at your home first so that she can test the waters in a comfortable space.

Make sure you're comfortable with the situation — Yep, sleepovers can cause anxiety in parents, too. Mihalas recommends using your judgment when assessing the situation and getting as much information as possible, such as how many kids will be there, who will be supervising, if your child is comfortable with the friend group, and if they feel comfortable speaking with the supervising adult if needed. "If you feel uncomfortable with any answers, such as if you find out the friend's older brother is also having some friends over, or if a parent you don't trust is supervising the party, have them sit this one out," she says.

Stress that it's okay to decline an invitation — Just because your child chooses not to attend this sleepover party doesn't mean she'll be banned from future fun. "If you feel your child is still not ready, maybe skip over one of the sleepovers," Mihalas says. "Your child deserves a good first impression of sleepovers, and an embarrassing event may deter them from trying again."

I tried to make Larry David my new best friend– and failed

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I walk in and the first person I see is Iman. She’s walking by (rather, “gliding”... Iman glides) in a red flowing gown. We catch eyes, I compliment her on her dress. She says, “Thank you!” and I think to myself, “This is totally normal….”

My husband Will and I find our table. We are surrounded by celebrities. It’s a grand affair, and the room is literally vibrating with fame. Bette Midler gets on stage to sing Happy Birthday, and after that Robin Williams gives a toast that is a masterclass on how to make people snarf up their cocktails with laughter.

So, I'm sitting there admiring the birthday boy’s group of friends thinking, “I'm cool, I belong here,” when I notice my famous friend’s group of famous friends includes Larry David.

This is not good for my cool. Let me just tell you, I love Larry David. Not the I-want-to-marry-you kind of love, more of a please-be-my-best-friend kind of love. Or, in this case, the now-I'm-going-to-be-a-spazz kind of love. I feel that the fact that Larry is there and I am here is because clearly the universe has brought us together. This is going to be the greatest night of my life. Ever.

You see, I love funny. If you can make me laugh (no one makes me laugh harder than my husband), I love you. Funny people, clever people, are my thing. My thang. Yes, I said thang. I don’t care if you’re rich, smart or freakishly athletic. If you are funny, all bets are off. I want to hang.

So, let’s just say that when I spotted Larry David, I lost my internal cool. In fact, I almost peed my pants. I had to meet him. Had. To. I poked my husband and — reading my mind — he whispered in my ear, “Yes, I see him. Don’t worry, you’ll meet him.” He knows me that well.

I noticed that Larry had gotten up to walk to the bar (OK, so maybe I was stalking him, don’t judge). As luck would have it, the bar was close to our table (again, thank you universe). Will and I got up and sauntered over, like, "yessss, we do want a cocktail right now." What other reason could we be going up to the bar for other than booze? We love booze, right in the middle of dinner.

I’m usually a pretty calm person. Celebrities are cool and all, but I do realize they are just people like us — only they have seriously awesome jobs — so I usually do not get worked up about being around them.

But, tonight? Not so much. I was all sweaty palms, beating heart and my tongue felt heavy and thick. “Pull it together, Vanessa!” I screamed in my head. Which semi-worked. I was able to nonchalantly saddle up next to Larry, but that was about it. My voice wasn’t working. I couldn’t speak.

Thank God my brilliant, calm and funny husband took the lead and chatted with Larry. There they were, talking about NYC, the building where Larry lived with Jerry Seinfeld (Will took acting lessons in that building) and golf. Larry loves golf. Thank God for Will. Midway through their conversation, Will said, “Oh, hey Larry, this is my wife, Vanessa.”

And away we went. Chat chat chat. I was actually having a nice discussion with Larry! Larry was great, and I could tell he really liked me. It was starting to feel like the three of us were old friends. He was chatty, Will and I were chatty, it was all going very well. And just as I was settling into the fact I was actually going to be friends with Larry David for a really long time (obviously), it happened. Out of the blue, a very old woman, with her walker (which was decorated with various shiny items and tennis ball feet) suddenly appeared behind Larry. Here’s the thing; only I could see her. She was trying to get past him, but she couldn't. Larry was blocking her.

She was clearly on her way to the bathroom — or somewhere important, because there was a palpable determination about wherever she was going. But as she moved one way, Larry would move that way. So, she would try and move the other way, and again, Larry would move.

Finally, she kind of pushed into him and muttered something like “excuse me,” but Larry, he would not budge. He didn't even turn around! Gradually, it got worse and worse until Will said “Larry, that’s our host’s mother. She is trying to squeeze past you.” At which point Larry turned around, saw that he had been blocking a very old woman with a walker from getting to wherever she wanted to go and moved. He did this without comment, apology or, as far as I could tell, any shame.

She very slowly (slowly) made her way, squeezing past Larry, practically tripping over his feet — which he didn't make a big effort to move. In fact, I'm sure she ran over them with her tennis balls. And rather than express any reaction, Larry simply observed. In fact, at that moment, he pulled out a small notebook from his jacket pocket and started scribbling notes.

At this point, my mind started working: this is a classic Larry David moment. He is recording it! This is how the great man works! He is going to put it into Curb Your Enthusiasm!!

I had to assume he was writing down what had just ensued. Grandma. The walker. The tennis balls. Running over Larry’s feet. I mean, seriously? It was perfect for a future episode of Curb. So, seeing as I was his new friend, I asked, “Hey Larry, whatcha writing?”

Now, I will tell you that in my mind I was determined to say it cool. But, in truth, maybe I didn't. I’m not sure what happened. Maybe it was my tone. Maybe I had interrupted a thought, but what I do know is that the door to a Larry Friendship closed like a bank vault. Instead of letting me in, Larry looked at me, closed his notebook and walked off.

And I was left thinking, “Oh my God. Is that even possible? Did I just offend Larry David?”

Pretty sure I did. And just like that, I found myself in my very own scene of Curb Your Enthusiasm. I was left, Larry David style, by Larry David, alone, wondering what I had done to clear the room. And then I just started laughing — because at that point, really, what else was a girl to do?

Check out Vanessa's SheKnows Pitch for her organization TIA Girl Club!

Sinéad O'Connor is 'safe and well' after posting suicide note on Facebook

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The post said that she was in a hotel in Ireland, where she had checked in under a pseudonym.

The 450-word entry began, “There is only so much any woman can be expected to bear. What was done to me this week was appalling cruelty.”

It went on to say, "The last two nights finished me off. I have taken an overdose. There is no other way to get respect. I am not at home, I'm at a hotel, somewhere in Ireland, under another name."

The 48-year-old musician, best known for her 1990 hit "Nothing Compares 2U", which went to number one all over the world, has spoken openly in the past about her mental health issues. She suffers from bipolar disorder, and has been hospitalised several times. In 2007 O'Connor told Oprah Winfrey that she had attempted suicide on her 33rd birthday. In 2011, concerns were raised after she posted several tweets talking about suicide. The following year, she cancelled her world tour, posting on her website: "With enormous regret I must announce that I have to cancel all touring for the year as am very unwell due to bipolar disorder."

Today's online suicide note was the latest of several distressing posts over the weekend referring to difficulties in O'Connor's personal life.

Much to the relief of concerned fans, around 90 minutes after the post appeared on Facebook, police at Pearse Street station in Dublin confirmed that the singer was "safe and well" and receiving medical assistance.

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Read O'Connor's worrying post in full: 

Sinead O'Connor suicide note

Sinead O'Connor suicide note

Let's hope O'Connor gets the help she so desperately needs right now.

If you need information and/or support, please call the Samaritans on 116 123 or visit www.samaritans.org.

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15 Gifts under $25 that will excite even hard-core techies

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1. Designer data cables

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Hard-core fashionistas always have the hottest accessories. And so do hard-core techies. Why settle for boring cables when you can have pretty prints instead? They come in several designs and extended lengths so you can easily reach any outlet. (Rue 21, $4)

2. CableDrops

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It's safe to assume that your techy friends own a lot of gadgets... and with those gadgets come a lot of cords. CableDrops grasp charging cables to keep them right where you want them. No more crawling under your desk or digging through that cluttered drawer. They come in fun colors or in black and white, so they'll blend in with your decor no matter what. (Amazon, $10)

3. Swivel phone and tablet holder

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No matter how hard you try, your handheld device is never at the perfect angle. That's because you're always moving around. But this 360-degree swivel stand fits any size tablet or smartphone and makes it easy to turn the screen as you move. Use it in the kitchen to display your favorite recipe while cooking, at the office so you'll never miss another alert or anywhere else you need quick access to your phone. (Komando, $12)

4. Solar-powered cell phone charger

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Image: Amazon

This is the perfect gift for techies who are frequent travelers. There's nothing worse than needing a quick charge while on the go — and, whether you're at the airport or in a busy coffee shop, there are never enough outlets available. With this charger you don't need one. You just need to place it out on a flat surface or mount it in a window where it can receive direct sunlight. (Amazon, $19

5. Range Rover wireless mouse

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Image: Amazon

The techy in your life may not drive a fancy car, but they can still own a Range Rover. This wireless mouse is a bit smaller than the actual SUV, but still just as fun to take for a spin. It's wireless and comes with a USB receiver that is compatible for both Mac and Windows. Plus, it just looks really cool on your desk. (Amazon, $13)

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6. Smartphone tool case

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Techies love gadgets — there's no question about that. So you can't go wrong by giving them a gadget that holds even more gadgets. This one-of-a-kind cell phone case not only holds your phone, but also keeps trimming scissors, tweezers, a bottle opener, screwdrivers and even a nail file close by. It comes in four different colors and isn't heavy or bulky even with all of the goodies it carries inside. (Komando, $17)

7. Five-way headphone splitter

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Want to give something practical to a hard-core techy? Well, they love sharing music and videos with all of their friends, so this five-way headphone splitter is perfect. It has five jacks for attaching headphones or iPod devices, which means five people can all listen in at the same time. It can also be used to connect multiple music players at once, which is great for mixing music. (Amazon, $15)

8. Glow-in-the-dark zipper earbuds

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To go along with that five-way headphone splitter, give these glow-in-the-dark zipper headphones a try. They have great sound quality, are compatible with Apple and Android devices, come in multiple colors and have patented zipper cabling that never tangles. Plus, the Ergo-Fit earbud shape is designed so they won't slip out of your ears. (Komando, $25)

9. Transformer USB drive

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For the techy who isn't afraid to admit they're a bit of a geek, the Transformer USB drive makes the perfect gift. Everyone has USB drives — but not everyone has a USB drive like this. It's quirky and fun, but also practical with 16 gigabytes of storage. Fold it flat and it fits easily in your pocket. Unfold it to show off to friends. (Amazon, $12)

10. Minecraft character cases

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Let the techy in your life express their Minecraft fandom with these unique cell phone cases. The popular game took the world by storm and almost everyone has played it. Whether their favorite character is the pig, the wolf or the creeper, there's a case for every style. The cases fit the iPhone 6, 5/5s, Samsung S5 and even the iPad mini. (Amazon, $25)

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11. Security fingerprint reader

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Give a gift that's fit for James Bond. The security fingerprint reader makes it possible to use your fingerprint as a password. It's used to prevent unauthorized access to computer logins and files. Plus, it has a way of making people feel like they're pretty important. (Amazon, $13)

12. Two-pocket wrist wallet

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This two-pocket wrist wallet is just the right size to hold essential items you need while running around. It's perfect for travel or exercise. The pockets zip and are large enough to hold your cell phone, earbuds, credit cards, cash and car keys. And, since you wear it on your wrist, it's easily accessible — much easier than those cell phone holders you wear on your arm. (Komando, $16)

13. MirrorBook compact pocket mirror

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It's not electronic, but anyone who loves Apple products will get a kick out of the MirrorBook compact pocket mirror. It comes in silver or white and looks exactly like a MacBook. And since it's only around 3 inches wide, it fits perfectly in your purse or pocket. (Amazon, $5)

14. Glowing memo clock

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For someone who always worries they'll forget an idea in their sleep, this is the perfect alarm clock. Not only does it keep the time, it comes with a glow-in-the-dark marker and lit glass plate so you can write down notes. It also comes standard with three different alarm settings and even a birthday reminder. (TinyDeal, $15)

15. Silly laptop sleeves

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Covers, cases and sleeves are some of the best ways techies show off their personalities. Prove how well you know them by getting them a laptop sleeve that fits their style. Whether they're into Star Wars or off-the-wall humor, there are plenty of designs to choose from under $25. (Cafe Press, $23) 

Have a larger budget? Here are four gifts under $50 you'll love:

Games under $50

Games under $50

New pictures of Princess Charlotte are utterly adorable (PHOTOS)

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The images show the 6-month-old princess, who is fourth in line to the throne, wearing a floral dress with a white frilly collar and a pale pink cardigan.

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Princess Charlotte new pic 1

Princess Charlotte, who was born on May 2, hasn't been seen in public since her christening in July so fans of the royal family are delighted to be able to see how she's changing as she grows older. Now able to sit up unaided, she has the same blue eyes as her father but has inherited her mother's dark hair — a contrast to her blond big brother, Prince George.

More: Prince George's 2nd birthday photo is too cute for words

According to MailOnline, the photographs weren't initially intended to be made public but keen photographer Kate Middleton was so pleased with how they turned out she decided to share them, as a thank you to the public for their "warm messages" about her daughter.

Kensington Palace said in a statement: "The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge are delighted to be able to share two new photographs of Princess Charlotte. They were taken by The Duchess in early November at their home in Norfolk. The Duke and Duchess continue to receive warm messages about Princess Charlotte from all around the world and they hope that everyone enjoys these lovely photos as much as they do."

Princess Charlotte new pic 2

Princess Charlotte new pic 2

The Duke and Duchess are keen for their children to grow up away from the glare of the media but Prince William is at ease talking about them. He recently described Princess Charlotte as a "little joy of heaven" and said she was well-behaved and "ladylike" compared to her boisterous older brother.

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The Amazing Race: 5 reasons this might be the worst season ever

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It's not just me that's feeling it... follow along on Twitter and you'll see TAR fans dropping like flies because they're over it.

TAR Mary Kemp tweet

TAR Mary Kemp tweet

Why does this season seem to be so lackluster? I have 5 reasons that I think are causing it — let's see if you agree.

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1. The winner seemed determined at an early stage.

As I've said before, it's not a question of who's going to win the million dollars anymore but who's going to come in second and third at this point. I know I was hating on The Green Team, but they have conquered this game. Even if it has come with the price of being the most hated team this season.

TAR RSA Garcia tweet

TAR RSA Garcia tweet

2. The challenges aren't challenging.

There have been no gross eating tasks. No truly adrenaline-pumping exercises. Nothing. When I auditioned a couple of years ago, I wondered if I would have made it through the tasks without having a coronary. This season, all I would have to worry about is sweating to death.

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3. Constant bickering.

I know the word "bickering" sounds old but so is all the arguing in some of the teams. Ahem... Paparazzi. I almost choked tonight when they were talking about the possibility of getting married. Maybe constantly fighting is their relationship, but good lord it's exhausting to watch and honestly? A little uncomfortable.

TAR PhotoLadyWeeks tweet

TAR PhotoLadyWeeks tweet

4. Too many non-elimination rounds.

I may be wrong about this, but it seems there have been a higher number of NERs this season and they've all been used on the wrong teams. Why couldn't we keep the Dancers? There were some great teams who really never got a chance and others who got too many chances but survived because it was a non-elimination round.

More: The teams are making too many mistakes on The Amazing Race

5. Where in the world has Phil Keoghan been?

I can't recall another season where Phil Keoghan has been as MIA as this season. Seems like the only time he's showing up is on the mat and even there he's not very chatty. Keoghan is the one constant, great thing about this show and without him to throw in his witty quips, the show just doesn't flow as smoothly as it can and it loses a big entertainment piece.

I'm not sure if this is just an "off" season for The Amazing Race, but I'm wondering if we're ever going to have a leg that is exciting the way the show used to be. I do have some hope that next week may have some promise, judging from the clips we saw tonight. Fingers crossed!

What do you think? How has this season been for you? Boring? Exciting? About what you remember from past seasons?


5 New programs to help fight domestic violence in Australia

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Your home is meant to be your sanctuary. But for thousands of families across Australia, it's an anxious place where you tread on eggshells, watch what you say and feel constantly on edge, because of how your partner may react.

The statistics on domestic violence in Australia are tragic: More than one woman per week dies at the hands of her partner, with countless more women, men and children injured and living in fear.

It seems that the government, together with private support groups, is taking a stand and committing to offering real support for families suffering through these unthinkable situations. Five of the latest programs include:

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1. New QLD legislation that kicks the perpetrator out of the home

Changes to the Domestic and Family Violence Protection Act passed through the Queensland parliament in recent weeks have made “ouster conditions” a mandatory consideration for all domestic violence cases.

This Australian-first mandatory requirement will mean that perpetrators, instead of victims, will be forced to leave their family homes in the event of abuse or violence. Victims of domestic violence, both men and women, often have low financial resources and need to remain close to friends and family for support, so these changes may allow them to retain some fraction of normality in an incredibly stressful and terrifying situation.

Ouster conditions are not new, but they originally had to be applied for. According to Minister for Women and Communities Shannon Fentiman, “Only about 28 per cent of cases in the last three years included them.” Mandatory consideration for ouster conditions, along with on-going support and counselling, is a very important step towards empowering victims of domestic violence.

More: iMatter: The app combating domestic violence against women

2. Share Your Story, a campaign designed to encourage women to talk to their doctors

One in 5 women experiencing domestic violence will first report it to their GP, making doctors a crucial part of a person’s escape from an abusive life. The Australian Medical Association (NSW) is hoping to improve access to services for people who are experiencing domestic violence with a new campaign called Share Your Story. It aims to educate doctors on referral pathways to social workers, emergency accommodation services and legal support. For doctors outside of NSW, Federal AMA has produced a national version of the GP Toolkit.

3. $100 million in federal government funding to help families escape domestic violence

Prime Minister Malcolm Turnbull recently announced a $100 million package to help tackle domestic violence levels in Australia, describing the disturbingly high levels of abuse as a “national disgrace” and “un-Australian.”

The package includes provisions for:

  • GPS tracking for perpetrators
  • Safe phones for victims
  • Further funding to educate young men about healthy relationships, and more

While this is a good start, it’s not enough. Campaigners have unanimously agreed that more funding needs to be provided, with a report by domestic violence campaigner Fair Agenda showing that more than $300 million is needed to fill the gaps.

For instance, over 2,800 women fleeing domestic violence are turned away from crisis accommodation every year, according to Fair Agenda, but there was nothing in the government’s package to address this much-needed accommodation issue. At a state level, Queensland is establishing two new 72-hour crisis centres in Brisbane and Townsville, which will give women and children a safe place to stay when fleeing from abusive partners or ex-partners.

More: Confronting a friend when you suspect domestic violence — read this first

4. Legal funding to help victims understand their legal options

Part of the federal government's $100 million package included $15 million for legal aid, which means women will be able to access legal assistance from 12 new domestic violence units and also from hospitals in five locations. Queensland’s Palaszczuk government is providing an additional $100,000 specifically to allow access to free legal counsel for those experiencing or fleeing an abusive situation. The additional funding will allow the Women’s Legal Service helpline services to be expanded to cater for more women and in a greater capacity.

5. Former Attorney General Dame Quentin Bryce leads task force

The Not Now, Not Ever report, released by a task force headed by former Attorney General Dame Quentin Bryce, highlights the skyrocketing numbers of domestic and family violence in Australia.

The Queensland government has backed all 140 of the task force's recommendations — 121 government recommendations and 19 non-government recommendations — including harsher penalties for perpetrators, additional education for schools and young people, additional shelters and a national awareness campaign.

Of course, there will always be more we can do to help victims and survivors of domestic violence, but the Queensland and federal governments' commitment to the issue is a sign that we’re heading in the right direction.

1-800-RESPECT (1-800-737-732) is a 24-hour phone service offering support to people experiencing domestic violence. More here.

Hateful fat-shaming group is handing out vile cards to women on the Tube

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More: Woman who lost half her body weight has a message for 'fat shamers'

NHS worker Kara Florish shared pictures of the card she was handed on the Tube on Saturday, commenting that it could "potentially upset people struggling with confidence."

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Fat shamers on Tube 1

She also shared the pictures on Facebook, writing: "Dear all — I was handed this card this morning on the underground and I would appreciate it if people tweeted, posted etc. all over the internet. I am not upset myself, I am smaller than the national average and not exactly obese, but this is hateful and cowardly and could potentially upset people struggling with confidence and eating disorders."

More: Female jogger has best response ever to guy who fat-shamed her

Social media users have reacted with disgust, and another commuter also tweeted about seeing an "overweight girl" being handed a card on the Tube at Oxford Circus.

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Fat shamers on Tube 2

He adds that he was "99.9% sure this wasn't staged," posting "She didn't even realise I was watching at first. Her stunned, desolate reaction was very real. Then tears."

Aside from the widespread online support and encouragement, there's a positive outcome to this story. One company decided to print its own body-positive cards, and went to Oxford Circus to hand them out to passers-by.

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Fat shamers on Tube 3

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Fat shamers on Tube 4

The same company is offering the second girl, who still hasn't been named, an outfit up to the value of £500.

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Fat shamers on Tube 5

Whatever Overweight Haters Ltd wanted to achieve with their stunt, all they've done is make themselves look despicable.

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Kim Fields' RHOA co-stars reportedly have some serious issues with her

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Fields apparently already has her co-stars Kenya Moore, Phaedra Parks, Porsha Williams, Cynthia Bailey and Kandi Burruss fuming over her diva behavior.

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Perez Hilton reports that Fields comes and goes from the set as she pleases, but also suspects that her co-stars' anger could stem from jealousy.

Other sources who are close to Fields tell the outlet that she has been on time for every scene and is always in a good mood.

Still, Fields apparently disregards producer's directions. For example, TMZ reports that when the cast was filming in Jamaica, Fields showed up with her kids even though she was specifically told not to bring them prior to the scene.

More: Why Kim Fields joined RHOA after turning down other shows

She also was rumored to have left during a taping of Burruss' baby shower because she needed to help her kids do math homework.

It's great that she seems like such a hands-on mom. And we totally support her putting her kids first. But there's a fine line between priority parenting and unprofessionalism. It seems that maybe Fields is still searching for that balance as she settled into her RHOA role.

Meanwhile, on the show last night, Fields had her first real cry fest over her lack of female friends.

But Parks was there to help a girl out by helping Fields realize that she needs to find some inspiration through some new hobbies. Maybe these two could bond over time.

More: NeNe Leakes talks moving on from RHOA to become an LGBTQ advocate

Of course, a Real Housewives bond is never complete without some ongoing drama, so there's a good chance a friendship with Parks will leads to some fighting down the road.

Do you think the rumors about Fields' diva behavior are true?

Joe Jonas' recent actions indicate his feelings toward Gigi Hadid

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More: Gigi Hadid shut Joe Jonas down hard the first time he asked her out

But was it really?

The breakup seems to have created some serious bad blood, not only between Jonas and Hadid, but between Jonas and Hadid's new love interest, former One Directioner Zayn Malik.

According to Us Weekly, Jonas has wiped his social media clean of both Hadid and Malik, even going so far as to delete a months-old photo of himself and Malik.

The social media purge comes just after Hadid and Malik announced officially that they are dating. Jonas first unfollowed both his former flame and her new beau, and then deleted the photo, taken at a Valentino show in Paris back in June, showing Jonas and Malik posing with Kanye West. At the time, the photo was captioned, "#SQUAD."

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Hadid and Jonas only ended their relationship earlier this month, and earlier this week, the Victoria's Secret model and Malik were seen leaving a West Hollywood club early in the morning, hand in hand. Sources later confirmed to Us Weekly that the two are dating.

“They seem equally super into each other, texting each other all the time,” the insider said. “They’ve only been hanging out a couple weeks."

Right after Jonas and Hadid broke their relationship off, sources close to the couple said there were no hard feelings between the two.

“It was just due to busy schedules,” an insider revealed. “They are just going to be friends for now, but it wasn’t [due to] anything serious."

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Creative bride spends 8 months making her wedding dress by hand

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If you've ever gone shopping for a wedding dress, either for yourself or for a friend, you know how easily you can experience dress burnout. Abby Ramirez-Bodley, 23, from Oklahoma, went through that when she first went shopping for her own wedding dress. Like many women, nothing in her price range wowed her. “I looked and looked and looked, and the ones I liked were outrageously expensive,” she told ABC News. However, rather than letting that discourage her, Ramirez-Bodley took matters into her own hands — literally. She decided to design and build her own wedding dress from scratch.

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“I wanted to make my own dress because I saw another woman had done it, and it was by far the most beautiful dress I’d seen,” she told BuzzFeed. The look she fell in love with was rather unusual — it featured a gorgeous crochet pattern covering the entire thing.

As such, the process was no small undertaking. Ramirez-Bodley, together with her obliging aunt, worked tirelessly for eight months to create the dress. And while it was certainly an impressive project, the two women had a little something up their sleeves — they both were crochet experts.

Ramirez-Bodley was taught to crochet by her aunt when she was just a little girl, so it was most fitting that the two came together again for this important life moment.

Crochet dress

Crochet dress

However, one of the most exciting aspects of this handmade marvel was how much it cost. The yarn for the crochet overlay was only $70, and the green dress Ramirez-Bodley wore underneath was $100, making the entire dress a whopping $170, plus a lot of familial love, which is, of course, priceless.

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As you can see, the finished product is stunning and utterly original. The couple's guests could not stop complimenting her on it the whole night. Her efforts more than paid off and made the whole affair that much more special.

Bodley and Ramirez

Bodley and Ramirez

Now that she's married, this brilliant little designer might want to think about starting a dress business for brides with unique taste. “I’ve had many requests for help and advice on starting [other women’s] own projects, and that’s really cool,” she told BuzzFeed. I'd say that's a clear indication that a Ramirez-Bodley design label would be very welcome in this world.

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