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25 Stripper names we secretly love

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First, we must discuss what makes a name a "stripper" name. Usually names that are more childlike, animal-like or light and airy are ones that adult entertainers choose when their given names aren't quite flirty enough. Some stripper names are highly sexually suggestive, particularly when paired with a made-up last name, or liberties are taken with the spelling (for example, Texxxas). However, not all stripper names remind us of the taking-off-the-clothes variety. Here are some of our favorites.

Ruby, Jade or Emerald are good choices if you like jewels, but think Diamond and Sapphire are way over the top (which, yeah, they probably are).

Some adult workers choose color names. Amber is extremely popular among the stripper set, but I think Indigo, Teal, Silver or Coral would make an excellent baby name for your non-stripper baby.

Do you love animals? Well, Bambi, Foxy and Bunny do too, but those names may not be your first choice for a baby. Try Kitty; while it can be used as a stripper name, it has also been a classic choice for decades. Birdie is another awesome classic name that won't necessarily saddle her with stripper expectations. Raven is a little more modern but it fits in as a good animal-based name that would work for a baby.

Girls with food-based names, like Cherry, Peaches or Candy, often twirl around poles, but what about the name Clementine? Sure, it could be a stripper name, but it definitely doesn't have to be.

Nicknames are also chosen as stripper monikers, but honestly they don't sound much like stripper names when they are bestowed upon a baby. We love Penny, Trixie, Polly, Poppy and Charlie as given names that aren't sexy at all in the right context.

Another popular bank that adult workers draw from are location names — Asia, Aspen, Brooklyn, China and Savannah could be construed as stripper names. That doesn't mean that all location baby names are stripperish. What about London, Geneva, Juno or Sydney? Yes, they may be used by strippers too, but they don't have quite the same feel as their more popular counterparts.

Nature names are popular with many populations, including adult workers. Stormy and Windy are popular picks in the industry. But there are so many other nature-inspired baby names to choose from that, while they may also be used by a stripper, don't necessarily bring that to mind at first. Think Meadow, Wren, Flora, Sparrow and Ivy — unique names, but they're not exclusively stripper territory.

Whatever field of work your child chooses to go into is her business, but if you're looking for a baby name that isn't totally stripperish but could really go either way, these may be the names for your baby name list.

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Ferguson decision sends Twitter in a wild spiral

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A grand jury was formed and has deliberated for months over whether Officer Darren Wilson should be indicted for the shots that killed Ferguson teen, Michael Brown. Now, the verdict is in: Wilson will not be indicted.

As rumors of a decision began bubbling to the surface early this afternoon, social media has been blowing up with promises of protests, civil disobedience and challenges to the city and state police. Even as the rumors started, many businesses began boarding up ahead of the announcement, concerned about more violence and looting, no matter what decision was made.

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Ferguson - Pre-Tweet

Meanwhile, protesters and live tweeters on the scene began sending threats of what was to come in Ferguson and beyond.

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Now, they have their answer: Officer Wilson will not be charged for the murder of 19-year-old Brown. What happens in Ferguson now lies in the hands of the protestors and law enforcement officers on the ground. Brown's family asked for peace and respect of the decision prior to the announcement. Tweets rolling through on a continual basis suggest it's more likely things could get a lot worse before they get better.

#Ferguson feed

#Ferguson feed

What's next for Ferguson? The coming hours, days and weeks could not only potentially set a new tone for racial relations in Ferguson, but in cities across the nation.

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Kourtney Kardashian's Instagram post has us worried for her relationship

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Would Kim Kardashian mind if her daughter followed in her naked footsteps?

Kardashian posted a picture from the classic Disney film, Lilo & Stitch, with the quote, "If you want to leave, you can. I'll remember you, though. I remember everyone that leaves." Kardashian captioned the photo with a broken heart.

Kourtney Kardashian Lilo & Stitch Instagram post

Kourtney Kardashian Lilo & Stitch Instagram post

Kardashian is currently pregnant with the couple's third child together. She is getting ready to give birth.

As we've seen in their reality show, Kourtney & Khloé Take the Hamptons, Kardashian and Disick are having relationship struggles. Disick lost both his parents during the first part of 2014, which led him on a downward spiral of partying and drinking. On a recent episode of the show, Disick had his stomach pumped at the hospital after drinking too much and swallowing an entire bottle of sleeping pills.

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Still, the couple has been fighting this together and Disick promised to stay sober until Kardashian gave birth at the end of this year.

But during the show, Kardashian said, "I feel like he's angry. He's like, 'The biggest problem is me and you and we need to be civil for the kids.' I'm like 'I can't deal with you.' And he's like, 'Fair enough. We need to figure out a plan how I can see them.'"

She added that they'll discuss the relationship "once he's in a better place."

Is Kim Kardashian's deep dark secret really that shocking?

Remember, the show is behind real life, meaning what we're seeing each week in the episode isn't indicative of what the couple is currently going through, which is why Kardashian's Instagram post seems like such bad news for the two who have been together since 2006.

Is it possible that they broke up while Disick was in rehab?

#Tansel: 9 Sweet nothings Taylor Swift and Ansel Elgort whisper to each other

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Kim K vs. Taylor Swift, Beyoncé for Time's Person of the Year

Both of them are kind of nerdy (in the best way possible), they're both musicians, they are so sweet, we can't stand it and they are both just so gosh-darn adorable, we want to pinch their cute little cheeks.

#Tansel, so hot right now

#Tansel, so hot right now

Can you picture it? In our minds, this is exactly what they are saying to each other as they tuck the other one's shiny golden locks behind their ear and whisper sweet nothings.

1. Ansel, I knew you were trouble when you walked in... to the 2014 Teen Choice Awards

Taylor Swift Trouble

Taylor Swift Trouble

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2. Taylor, from the moment I laid eyes on you, I knew I wanted to invite you over to my house to see my miniatures

Wanna see my miniatures?

Wanna see my miniatures?

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3. I can't believe how perfect we are for each other. You said you never met one girl who had as many EDM records as you, but I do!

Taylor Swift I do

Taylor Swift I do

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4. Taylor Alison, I love it when you talk musical to me!

Ansel Elgort- anyone in love does

Ansel Elgort- anyone in love does

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5. All of my love life is played out for everyone to see and I always hated it. But #Tansel? It's so hot right now!

So hot right now

So hot right now

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6. You are so beautiful. None of my dad's models have anything on you, baby

Ansel Elgort's dad's models

Ansel Elgort's dad's models

7. I know you will never be the reason for the teardrops on my guitar

Ansel Elgort crying

Ansel Elgort crying

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8. Yeah... about that. You're probably going to be the theme of my next album, so you might want to learn how to shake it off

Swifty shakes it off

Swifty shakes it off

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9. I reject that

Ansel Elgort rejects that

Ansel Elgort rejects that

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'Vagina facial' trend a major insult to women

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The "vajaycial," as dubbed by the New York Post, is a scrub and cleaning of the pores and skin that surround a woman's nether regions. The vagina facial is not necessarily a new concept, but in recent days, it has gained steam thanks to the famous J Sisters, waxers to the stars, who made a name for themselves with the Brazilian wax. They operate a salon in Manhattan.

This treatment, known as "Gommage Therapy," is described as: "a facial type thing for the area 'down there,' and helps deal with cosmetic issues including ingrown hairs." "Gommage" is a form of facial exfoliation that is not typically used on women's nether regions.

As a woman, I am horrified on so many levels. First, is there any part of us that is sacred? Between "vajazzling" and plastic surgery for our vulva, it's really kind of overwhelming how many parts of us can be "ugly." Isn't it possible for a woman to just feel good about herself? Or is it just our lot that every part of us is up for scrutiny?

I am all for beauty treatments if they make us feel good. By all means, enjoy a pedicure or manicure or a massage. All of these treatments serve a higher purpose than just "beauty." They help us feel polished and relaxed. They allow us to feel better about ourselves and enjoy our lives a bit more. But a vajaycial? What purpose does that serve? Does it improve our sex life? Maybe. But it seems unlikely.

I've never in my life heard of a man who is lucky enough to get in that general region with a woman who then complains about it being ugly. "Gee, thanks for the opportunity to get between your legs, but I think I am going to pass on this experience since you are just not pretty enough there."

Get serious. This is just another way to get women to spend their money unnecessarily. Personally, I have no interest in beautifying an area of my body I can't see anyway. Keep it clean, by all means. But the buck stops there. To imply that we need to do anything more is just insulting.

Look, I am a busy mom of three. When I want to get a beauty treatment, you'd better believe there has to be something in it for me to see or enjoy. This? Sounds painful. My vagina has been through enough after three kids. I think I'll sit this trend out.

Would you get a vaginal facial?

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8 Roasted poultry recipes from classic to gourmet

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1. Roasted chicken

This roasted chicken recipe is as basic as it gets, but its simplicity is what makes it so delicious. Without tons of special flavors and sauces, it goes with anything.

2. Herb-roasted turkey legs

There's no need to roast an entire turkey if you're serving a small crowd. Instead, try roasting just the legs.

3. Asian-inspired roast chicken

It's easy to get in a rut with chicken dishes, but this dish will help you solve that problem. Soy sauce, sesame oil, ginger and honey make this like no other roasted chicken you've ever tasted.

4. Crispy roasted chicken with mango and lemon

Enjoy a taste of summer all year 'round with this dish, made with just one pot.

5. Roasted glazed Cornish game hen

Don't be intimidated by this dish! Cornish game hens are simple to prepare, and packed full of flavor. Serve up these cute little birds the next time it's your turn to host.

6. Roast duck with herb-infused compound butter

Duck has a bad rap, mainly because no one knows what to do with it. No worries. We've got a recipe for roasting it, as well as some fantastic suggestions for what to do with the leftovers.

7. One-pan roast chicken with root vegetables

You can create this versatile dish with whatever veggies happen to have on hand. No special trips to the grocery store needed.

8. Curry-roasted chicken

If you never cooked with curry, this is your chance to experiment with some Middle Eastern flavor.

This post was sponsored by Hannaford. Join them in the fight against hunger this holiday season with Hannaford Helps Fight Hunger.

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'I want to eat your baby' and 9 other things never to say to new parents

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Parents with a newborn baby are in the thick of it. They want you to come over and toast their new protégé because they are so desperate for human contact. But they are also bleary-eyed and exhausted and don't know night from day. They can't tell if you're complimenting or insulting. Choose your words wisely.

Surely no one would insult a baby? You'd be surprised. I've accidentally done it several times myself. As a rule of thumb, it's best to steer clear of commenting on a new baby's appearance, unless you plan to use guaranteed safe words like adorable, cute, adorable and cute, cute, cute. (When in doubt, stick with "cute.")

What sounds like an innocent observation can come off as a slam against a new creation. Commenting on a baby's big ears that are "just like daddy's" will never go over well. It's common knowledge that babies are kind of "smushed," waterlogged and cone-y when they come out. If you want to preserve your friendship and prevent a potential new parent freak out, do not acknowledge the newborn baby elephant in the room.

Newborns look weird. New parents need your support. Tell them what they so desperately want to hear and offer to make them coffee while they put their feet up and relax. Everybody wins.

Make sure these 10 things never come out of your mouth if you want to see your new mom friend again.

1. "I want to eat your baby!"

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2. "I want to bite off all his tiny fingers and widdle toes"

Elegant | Sheknows.com

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3. "Aw, his head's still all pointy from the birth canal"

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4. "Does that baby acne go away?"

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5. "Why's his hair missing on one side?"

LOL | Sheknows.com

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6. "He's so cute — he doesn't look anything like you"

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7. "He's HUGE — how did you do it?"

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8. "He's TINY — must've slipped right out"

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9. "He looks sleepier than Mama"

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10. "When are you going to have the next one?"

Forget you | Sheknows.com

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Funny Thanksgiving nutrition facts show how we really feel

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Every Thanksgiving, articles start surfacing with alarming titles like "Ways to cut fat on those holiday sides!" or "Healthy Thanksgiving meal ideas!" or "Low-calorie alternatives to enjoying life!" Okay, maybe not that last one but I wouldn't be surprised.

And while there's nothing wrong with a little self restraint and taking care of yourself, I want to be the voice of reason this Thanksgiving season and remind you that it's just one meal.

Call me an turkey enabler, but I don't think the Pilgrims would have wanted us worriedly checking nutritional info while we attempt to make our feast. So we whipped up (mmm whipped cream) the only nutritional facts that you should be concerned with on Thanksgiving.

Thanksgiving meal nutrition facts

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Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling named their daughter after a beloved fairy tale

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"Ryan and I both love the Esmerelda character from the Victor Hugo novel The Hunchback of Notre Dame, and we just think it's a beautiful name," Mendes explained during an interview with Violet Grey's digital magazine, The Violet Files. It's Mendes' first interview since giving birth in September.

"Amada was my grandmother's name," Mendes continued. "It means 'beloved' in Spanish."

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Mendes said she and Gosling are basking in baby bliss over their new daughter. "Motherhood is cake compared to what it's like to be a baby.

"Everything is a struggle for her," Mendes joked. "For instance, I haven't thrown up since the '90s and she's thrown up twice since we started this interview."

Another struggle Mendes recognizes is protecting the baby's privacy.

"Whether we like it or not, privacy is going to be very difficult for Esmerelda. I think it's unfair, but that's our reality," Mendes revealed. "Ryan and I decided early on to give her as much privacy as we could. And my pregnancy was the first opportunity to give her that."

The couple managed to keep the pregnancy under wraps for several months. They are also rarely photographed together and prefer to stay out of the spotlight.

How did Eva Mendes hide a pregnancy for so long?

Still, don't think the actress is bored at home.

"I thought my wild nights were over, but these are some of the wildest nights I've ever had," Mendes said of motherhood.

Through the unforgettable all-nighters, Mendes said she "read the comments section from other mothers because I find so much solace in that.

"Just knowing that I'm not alone out there and that other moms have gone through the same thing can at least get me through the night."

Pan: Everything you knew about Peter Pan is wrong (VIDEO)

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1. Peter was abandoned at an orphanage

We think the filmmakers are borrowing a little from Dickens' Oliver Twist with this one, especially when Peter (Levi Miller) throws down his bowl of porridge in disgust, practically starting a riot. It seems, however, that little Peter may get reunited with his mum, Mary (Amanda Seyfried), in the world of Neverland.

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2. Neverland is a mine

Though we're not sure exactly what they are extracting out of Neverland's mines, it appears that the owner is stealing boys to work in them. We love the red gondola lifts used to transport people, but the work looks backbreaking. Certainly, Peter is planning an escape.

3. Hook isn't named after the hook on his hand

The Disney animated film, Peter Pan, had us believing that a crocodile bit off Captain Hook's hand, requiring him to tie a hook onto it and earning him the nickname. In the trailer, Hook (Garrett Hedlund) has both hands, so we're not sure if the movie involves a hungry, ticking crocodile at all.

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4. Tiger Lily isn't Native American

We also thought that Tiger Lily was part of a Native American tribe, but in this version of the story, she's played by Caucasian actress, Rooney Mara. Tiger Lily refers to her "tribe" in the trailer, but we're guessing it's a group of made-up natives, not related to any real people. A bit of controversy was stirred when Mara was cast, but Lupita Nyong'o was also considered for the role, reinforcing the idea that this Tiger Lily isn't supposed to be Native American.

5. Blackbeard the pirate

From the trailer, it appears that the mine is run by Blackbeard (Hugh Jackman). We never considered adding another pirate into the story, but since Hook is so young in this one, we can only assume that it's Blackbeard who turns Hook evil.

6. The pan flute

Tiger Lily says, "The pan is our tribe's greatest warrior," as we see an image of a silver pan flute on a string. Bringing the symbol of the flute as a talisman for bravery is an exciting idea and will no doubt lead to merchandising opportunities.

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7. Scary evil clowns

The shots of the evil clowns are pretty short, but they appear to be dropping down from the ceiling and snatching boys from their beds. With painted white faces and 360-degree ruffled collars, these characters sure are nightmare-inducing.

Pan opens in theaters July 17, 2015.

Pan movie trailer

Pan movie trailer

9 Moments in Kurt Cobain's life that must be in Montage of Heck

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There's something about a fandom that makes fans feel like they own a piece of their coveted actor or musician. It's obsessive and controlling and wildly unhealthy, but often strangely cathartic... at least, for the fan. For the ones on the pedestal, it's most certainly a burden. And, while many people thrive off the limelight, Cobain would always be uncomfortable, always bristle at the thought of being the voice of a generation... despite the fact that he most certainly was.

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Over the two decades that have followed his death, fans have seen no short supply of documentaries, biopics and books detailing Cobain's life. However, very few have offered much along the way of credibility. HBO, along with filmmaker, Brett Morgen, is hoping to change that. Coming in 2015, HBO is set to release the first official and authorized look at Cobain's life. Just how "authorized" will it get? Cobain's daughter, Frances Bean, served as executive producer on the doc, which explores everything in Cobain's archives of art, music, journals and photography.

As excited as I am, I have a few stipulations that must be met before I'm willing to accept this as the documentary we've been waiting for.

1. We must see more of his art

According to Morgen, much of Cobain's archive is made up of drawings, paintings and sculptures done by the singer. In the past, biographers and family have touched on Cobain's drawing ability. It's time we saw it. (Moreover, it'd be great to see a more in-depth scrapbook of sorts become available with copies of his art and writing.)

2. They need to touch more on his parents' divorce

Somewhere in those journals, Cobain had to have written about his parents' divorce. He previously mentioned it in a few interviews, but given how much he disliked the attention, it seems his journals might shine more light on why he was so greatly affected.

3. What did he think of being a dad?

Frances Bean wasn't even 2 years old when her dad died, so she didn't have much time to properly enjoy him. Still, from what little we saw of Cobain and his daughter, he seemed genuinely happy to be a dad. Of course, Frances was hardly born into a functional family or nourishing environment. What do Cobain's journals say about news of her existence? Was he worried about being a good father? Did his drug addiction or mood swings factor into his feelings at all?

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4. Why'd he play the guitar the wrong way?

Kurt Cobain was actually right-handed, but he chose to play a left-handed guitar. Was he just being stubborn? Was he trying to prove something?

5. Scoliosis/heroin

Speaking of that left-handed guitar, it's been suggested that if Cobain had played the right-handed guitar with the strap on the other shoulder, it may not have exacerbated his scoliosis as much and may not have driven him to turn to heroin for pain relief.

6. Kurt Cobain's stomach issues

Cobain had one seriously messed up gut and he talked about it often. Doctors continually told him it was IBS (irritable bowel syndrome) and there was nothing they could do about it. In the last 20 years, doctors and allergists have begun taking gut issues far more seriously. It's nerdy, but it'd be cool to see a doctor look over his journals where he talks about his issues and we see them diagnose him with something, so it's no longer just a claim he made.

7. All the drummers Nirvana went through before Dave Grohl

Before Grohl, Nirvana went through a series of drummers. It'd be interesting to see what Cobain had to say about each of them and the reasons they left. Furthermore, what made Dave Grohl stick? Why did they finally mesh?

8. What happened to "Smells Like Teen Spirit" and "About a Girl"

Ever look at the lyrics to the original versions of some of Nirvana's biggest hits? The words were pretty different. As a matter of fact, the original lyrics to "Smells Like Teen Spirit" were downright bloody. What changed them? Are there transitional lyrics between the drafts we've seen in his formally published journals and the final product on the published songs?

9. MTV Unplugged

Four months before his death, Cobain and the rest of Nirvana loaded into Sony Hell's Kitchen to play what is now unarguably the best MTV Unplugged performance in the show's history and an unmatched moment for the band. When Kurt Cobain played, eyes closed and alone, through "Penny Royal Tea" his discomfort was unmistakable. Did he write about that moment? Are there more moments like that that we just haven't seen?

Montage of Heck is due out sometime in 2015. Can you keep it together until then?

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Details on Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie's blowout fight are really intense

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The Brad Pitt vs. George Clooney weddings

New photos have surfaced of the couple's recent trip to Australia and they show the Hollywood pair in a heated argument on the balcony of their hotel.

Pitt and Jolie were traveling to promote their latest film, Unbroken. Unfortunately, things between the two were reportedly more than a little strained. According to Woman's Day, which released the images of the couple fighting, industry insiders reported the tensions could be because of Jolie's hectic work schedule this past year.

The outlet reported, according to a witness, that Pitt downed a Crown Lager at 10 a.m. and both can be seen smoking on the balcony during their reported intense discussion. Though we do want to note, because of the time difference, that morning beer could make a little more sense.

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Still, there's no denying the photos show some obvious stress. Pitt has his hands raised in a lot of the images, while Jolie raises her arms in what appears to be frustration at one point and then proceeds to lean against the glass wall of the balcony.

The magazine reported that tensions continued into the evening at the premiere of Unbroken, which Jolie directed.

When asked about her married life, Jolie told reporters, "It makes us happy to be married, if that makes any sense. I don't think we needed it, but it feels... he's my husband."

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Though Woman's Day did say the couple was seen hugging briefly and kissing at one point in the night, one onlooker described the affection as "stiff."

We're going to go ahead and say couples fight. It's normal in any relationship. And, after nine years of being together, we're guessing Pitt and Jolie have had their fair share of arguments just like the rest of us.

What do you think of Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt's reported blowout fight?

EXCLUSIVE: Tokio Hotel's Bill Kaulitz in his own words on heartbreak and looking for love

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I guess I wanted to do it because ever since I can remember, I have believed in it. I believe in love and nothing but love. The big kind of love, the overwhelming, the completely out of control and over the top, the "I'd do anything for you" kind of love.

Why do I believe in it? I don't know, I have no idea. All I know is that I do.

From the time I was a little boy sitting in my room in my parents' house in a tiny little village with 800 souls called Loitsche in East Germany, where I grew up, I was consumed thinking about big cities, singing, being on stage and finding my big love. My twin bother, Tom, never understood that part. He didn't give a shit about that.

My friends sometimes make fun of me and almost everyone I know thinks I have a fairy tale idea about love and they always tell me it's not like how it is in the movies — that I'm way too romantic and that all of this is just my fantasy. They say, "In real life, love works way different!"

People think I'm so naive because I've never been hurt and all I think is that they probably got hurt too much. That's why they say stuff like that. That someone broke their heart or maybe they never really loved someone enough and that's why they can't relate to what I'm talking about.

The funny thing is that I'm probably the one who got hurt the most out of all these people put together. Heartbroken, completely destroyed, the worst kind of heartbreak you can imagine. Worse than I ever thought could happen to me. Betrayed, cheated on, taken advantage of. I'm saying this without telling the whole story, of course, but I want people to know that things like this happen to me, too — to the ones who seem to be "covered in gold."

Although I'm still trying to heal, I feel like I still believe — which is a good thing. I still believe in the magic, in the big once-in-a-lifetime love. Is it gonna happen to me? I don't know. I thought I had already found it once, so maybe not… but I'm hoping, because hope is what keeps all of us going and I truly believe that love is all we are here for! No other reason. Only love!

People like to categorize and label everything. That's less dangerous; it feels safer. Especially in the industry that I'm in. I feel like it drives people nuts not to know if there is a woman or a man in my bed. That's why I've been getting the ''gay question'' ever since I turned 13, when I started giving interviews. I always wondered… why does that even matter? I thought I was here to sing and perform for people?

I never felt like I owed any answers to anyone about it and it amuses me that they made such a big deal out of it. In my world, it's not that black and white and I think that the real question should be: Why are we asking this? Why does it matter? Why do we need labels? Can we not just live?

No one knows what's gonna happen in the next minute, the next second. Who knows who I may run into? Maybe I'm just about to meet someone who changes my life forever and, if that happens, does it really matter what gender they are? What I do know is that love is the one beautiful thing we can't control. We have no power over it. We don't know where it comes from and we never know when it's gonna hit us and that's the beauty of it.

So, I guess I'll wait and see… I hope I find the magic, the type that heals what's been broken and gives me wings.

My only advice is: Love who you want to love and love who loves you back. Life is way too short.

But, then again, what the f*** do I know?

You can check out Tokio Hotel's new album, Kings of Suburbia, on iTunes, and be sure to watch their music video for "Love Who Loves You Back":

Tokio Hotel's

Tokio Hotel's

Ellen DeGeneres in 50 Shades: 7 Sexy scenes that'll make you blush

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1. When she waxes poetic about miniature gift-wrapped fruit

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2. When she implies she is not actually a lesbian

Ellen Degeneres

3. When she makes googly eyes at Christian Grey

Ellen DeGeneres

4. When she sees Christian's buff bod for the first time

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5. When she has popcorn stuck to her lip

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6. When she sings "Maneater"

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Ellen DeGeneres and Kristen Wiig butcher "Let It Go" (VIDEO)

7. When she sees Christian's lair for the first time.

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Haha, made you look! But, seriously, the video is hilarious and you can watch the whole thing over on EllenTube.

Richard Sherman puts the NFL on blast in epic press conference (VIDEO)

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It started out unexpectedly, as Sherman spoke at the podium while Baldwin crouched behind a cardboard cutout of himself. But, things quickly took a turn for the epic.

The players wasted no time cutting to the chase by discussing the recent news that their teammate, Marshawn Lynch, was being fined for not speaking to the media.

"You know, the other day, the league fined Marshawn Lynch $100,000," Sherman said. "$100,000. And it's like, they wouldn't have even paid him $100,000 if he had talked... Doug, do you think they would have paid him $100,000?"

"Nope, they sure wouldn't have," Baldwin responded

Baldwin and Sherman want to see an end to the NFL's habit of putting sponsorships ahead of players' interests.

Now, no one is saying NFL players aren't making a lot of money. In fact, Sherman is quick to address it.

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"But, you know who does pay me a lot of money? Beats by Dre, the wonderful headphones I wear," Sherman continued. "But, the league doesn't let me say anything about them. Doug, why is that?"

"I don't know," Baldwin said. "Sounds, uh, sounds kind of hypocritical to me."

The big question is: Does the amount of money players are making give the NFL the right to manipulate stars into supporting their sponsorships or face repercussions?

It's a clear "no" in Baldwin and Sherman's opinion.

The two also poked fun at the NFL's double standards on player safety, all while cleverly inserting some more plugs for their various sponsorships.

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The NFL has had a long history of double standards and illogical policies when it comes to their players, so it's nice to see some of them finally speaking out against it. We hope this encourages more players to come forward and advocate for change within the league.

It will be really interesting to see how the NFL responds to this situation, especially now that Baldwin and Sherman are creating some buzz over this issue.

Watch the full video of the press conference below.

Richard Sherman, Doug Baldwin mock the NFL media policy

Richard Sherman, Doug Baldwin mock the NFL media policy

Do you think Richard Sherman and Doug Baldwin did the right thing calling out the NFL for its media policies? Especially so close to the big Thanksgiving game?


Cumberbatch fangirls: This is how Benedict really feels about you

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"It's funny and I'm flattered," Cumberbatch told People, adding that he doesn't condone the name. "But on a serious note, come on, give yourself more power as women.

"Don't just call yourself bitches!"

Cumberbatch is fairly new to the idol game and is taking his fans seriously. He just hopes those women aren't taking that name seriously.

"I know it was a joke, and more of an empowering thing. The majority of [the fans] are smart and savvy and just having fun, but it's getting out there," he said. "It sounds a bit [rude]."

Cumberbatch even went as far as to suggest some new fan names, including "Cumbersomes? Cumbercollective? Cumberfans? There's lots of stuff!"

But no matter how much the Sherlock actor loves his fans, his heart now belongs to one woman. He was recently engaged to actress, Sophie Hunter, but he said she isn't too worried about his growing female fan base.

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"She's just so in command of it," he explained. "It could be a difficult thing, but she's just really cool. It's really impressive."

You can see Cumberbatch next in The Imitation Game, out Nov. 28.

How to cook seasonal winter vegetables (infographic)

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We're here to show you exactly what to do with some of winter’s best vegetables, so grab your apron and get ready to hit the kitchen.

How to cook winter vegetables

Acorn squash is one of those vegetables that's delicious baked with a pat of butter — or stuffed full of sausage and cornbread. Let's not forget about the sneaky spaghetti squash, which is the waistline-friendly vegetable that's low carb, but tastes and looks like pasta. Don’t believe us? Try out this recipe for spaghetti squash and meatball boats.

Get creative and put these winter vegetable recipes on your bucket list, such as Brussels sprouts (this baked Brussels sprouts gratin recipe is amazing) or slow cooker pumpkin pie.

This post was sponsored by Hannaford. Join them in the fight against hunger this holiday season with Hannaford Helps Fight Hunger.

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5 Ways to outsource parenting when you're busy

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Let's start with that precious thing called sleep. When you become a parent, a good night's sleep becomes a thing of fantasy. That's when you dial up sleep coaches and baby nurses to get your kid snoozing like, well, a baby. Companies like Let Mommy Sleep will not only tiptoe in for a three hour in-home consult, they'll whip up a step-by-step plan to get babies 4 months and older to sleep through the night.

Now after having two kids I can attest that potty training is a pain in the rear. Had I known you could hire someone like New York Potty Training to send our diapers packing, I just may have checked it out. This east coast-based company will travel anywhere in the United States and Canada and have your kid ruling over the porcelain throne in two days. Potty training will set you back $1,750, but for busy parents it's worth its weight in dirty diapers.

Or, worried that your child's thumb-sucking will surely lead to braces? You can help your kid kick the habit with "Thumblady" Shari E. Green, who boasts her two-session plan will leave your child sucking his or her thumb no more. The $4,300 fee includes travel expenses and follow-up phone support.

Now that you've made it through Baby's first year — or second or fifth or more — it's time to throw an unforgettable pint-sized shindig. Sure, we parents put the pressure on ourselves to throw the perfect birthday party for our kids. But Glamour Avenue Parties, based in Spring, Texas, will not only help you host the birthday party of the school year, but also juggle all the chairs, decorations, plates and everything you need to nail the theme of your child's choice for an average of $275 to $600 per event.

How about that rite of passage for kids: learning to ride a bike? But, just like teaching your teen to drive, sometimes kids learn better from others, even when mastering two wheels. Companies like Bike New York offer free bike-riding lessons in New York City, but you can also opt to hire companies that don't have a mile-long waiting list.

Now, before you judge, keep in mind that no one is suggesting you leave all the parenting duties to baby experts. But, when it comes to kid and baby milestones like potty training, you have to at least admit that these five ways to outsource parenting when you're busy can be sanity saviors.

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9 Questionable quotes from Ferguson officer Darren Wilson's first interview

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Wilson and Stephanopoulos spoke for about an hour in a "top secret" location and, soon after, ABC began parading their prized reporter around, letting him tease details of the interview to their viewers. Part of that interview was on ABC News, while still more was drawn out on Nightline and will be aired tomorrow during Good Morning America. While we're certain we haven't seen all there is to see of the interview or the last of Wilson's face, we thought we'd share a few key moments from the interview.

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1. Wilson's description of the blow he took from Brown

"The next thing [I thought] was how do I survive," Wilson said. "I didn't know if I'd be able to withstand another hit like that."

Brown was a large kid, that's for sure, and Wilson is by no means an imposing figure. Still, having seen pictures of the damage caused by their altercation, we can't help but feel like fearing for his life during hand-to-hand combat might be a little excessive.

2. On the moment he first unholstered his gun

Wilson went on to describe the moment during which he and Brown struggled within the police car.

"I take [the gun] out and I point it at him and what I said was, 'Get back or I'm going to shoot you,'" Wilson described. "And then his response, immediately, he grabbed the top of my gun. And when he grabbed it he said, 'You're too much of a pussy to shoot me.'"

3. How Wilson claimed that first shot went down

"I could feel his hand come over my hand and try to get inside the trigger guard and try and shoot me with my own gun," Wilson went on to explain. "And that's when I pulled the trigger for the first time. It didn't go off. The gun was actually being jammed by his hand being on top of the firearm. So, I tried again and again, another click. At this time, I'm like, 'This has to work or otherwise I'm gonna be dead. He's gonna get this gun away from me, something going to happen and I'm going to be dead.' So, I pulled the third time and it finally goes off."

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4. On if there was anything that could have been done differently

With the interview apparently "no holds barred," Stephanopoulos attempted to go big, asking Wilson if there was anything he could have done differently that may have changed the tragic situation that quickly unfolded. Wilson quickly and resolutely responded, "No."

5. Really? Nothing?

Stephanopoulos went on to question whether Wilson could have stayed in the car, instead of pursuing Brown on foot. Again, Wilson claims he did exactly what he believed was right.

"My job isn't to just sit and wait. I have to see where this guy goes," Wilson explained. " I mean, that's what we were trained to do."

6. And what about his conscience? Is it clean?

While an entire city and a large chunk of the nation still believe Michael Brown's blood is on Wilson's hands, he remains resolute that no ill will was meant. He was keeping himself alive and regrets nothing.

"The reason I have a clean conscience is because I know I did my job right," Wilson stated plainly.

7. He's seemingly unaffected by Brown's death

Despite whether one acts out of malice or out of self-defense, most people would agree that knowing they've killed someone would weigh on them. Stephanopoulos asked Wilson if Brown's death would haunt him and, of all his answers, this felt the most shocking.

"I don't think it's haunting," Wilson said calmly. "It's always going to be something that happened."

Brown's death may not haunt Wilson, but it's spooked our nation. Ferguson is smoldering and cities across America are seeing protestors take to the streets in dismay with the racial discord that still plagues our country.

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Elf on the Shelf's new friend is perfect for Jewish kids (PHOTOS)

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Let me introduce to you Maccabee on the Mantel. My kids have named him Bob.

This new toy (hoping to become your newest holiday tradition) comes in a keepsake box with a doll and a book. The book explains a little about Hanukkah and what a Maccabee is — the word literally means “hammer” — and describes in kid-friendly terms how the Maccabees (soldiers) helped the Jewish people fight for religious freedom.

Contrary to the Elf that can’t be touched, or he will lose his magical power to report back to Santa on whether or not your kiddies are being naughty, this little guy can be snuggled and taken all around town.

My kids are a little older, but they had a lot of fun finding our Maccabee in interesting situations. So much fun, in fact, that when I suggested donating the book and doll to our synagogue I got looks of outrage from my 8-year-old. Here are some of the places Bob ended up during his stay with us:

1. It's not a Sunday morning without bagels.

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2. That's actually a menorah we got as a wedding gift from my mother-in-law. Bob loved it.

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3. I don't care how long you've been playing the dreidel game. Another year rolls around and you know you are looking up which letter gives you half the pot and which allows you to take all!

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4. Bob found some friends to play with ... and the lucky little guy kept landing on Gimel.

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5. Grandpa cuts the challah while our Maccabee looks on.

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6. Chatting on the phone.

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7. Sitting on top of a very 80's Bar Mitzvah sign-in board.

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8. Will you just taste the soup!

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9. Even the Maccabee recognizes the importance of adding money to our tzedakah box.

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10. Not sure how he ended up there. I think he must also have an unhealthy love for Sharknado.

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11. It's not Hanukkah without piles of Hanukkah gelt.

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12. Bob the Maccabee and Reggie the Labradoodle got along great. He even taught our pup a few new tricks.

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13. Roxie the Lab/Hound mix on the other wanted to eat poor Bob. Luckily he was nice and secure in her Hanukkah bandana.

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14. It's not a Jewish holiday without some good 'ol Manischewitz

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15. Very good reading!

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16. "Taxi!"

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17. Bob came to work and got to taste test some delicious Hunger Games: Mockingjay cookies.

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18. And we took his portrait.

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19. Back at home our Maccabee is sneaky and liked to spy on the kids from high up.

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20. And he liked hanging with the ladies after the kids went to bed ...

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21. Thinking about his waistline around the holidays he made sure to have some of this green smoothie.

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22. Hanging on the stairs with his mini-Torah in-hand.

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23. Time for grandma to swipe some more Sweet'N Low from the local diner ...

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24. Woohoo ... his first subway ride!

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25. Getting a cuddle in with some cat friends. They were much calmer than the dogs.

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26. So this is where they keep the good wine. Never having that Manischewitz crap again!

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27. Smile for our Maccabee.

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28. Friday night services at temple with the family. Life is good folks. Life is good.

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Happy Hanukkah!

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