Deciding whether or not to have kids is a major life choice for anybody, and living with a chronic illness is an extra layer of complication. Multiple sclerosis has undoubtedly changed my life in many ways.

There are so many factors that often play into the decision of whether or not to have children — such as finances, locale, support and age — knowing any potential child might contract a chronic illness makes the decision doubly difficult.

While some conditions are hereditary, and the likelihood of a baby contracting them are much higher, chronic illnesses in nature are a little more unpredictable. As Dr. Patricia Coyle, the director of the MS Comprehensive Care Center at Stony Brook University says, “MS is not a directly inherited disease — there’s no single gene that passes on MS.” And according to the MS Society, if the mother or father has multiple sclerosis, approximately 1 in 67 children will contract it. While these rates might not seem high, it’s impossible not to think about whether or not having a baby will result in passing on my condition.

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I’ve met a lot of people for whom the idea of passing their chronic illness on to their future children is a deal-breaker, even if it’s unlikely they will do so. It’s perfectly understandable that the possibility of passing on a degenerative and potentially life-limiting condition to offspring is one of the reasons individuals with disabilities and chronic conditions decide not to have kids. But it can also be a reason to have them, and being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis made me reconsider my previous stance.

Since receiving the diagnosis almost four years ago, I’ve moved across the country, started dating a new person, spent way more time with my family (including my two nephews) and changed careers. In a strange way, MS gave me permission to make several difficult and unexpected choices. Finding out your body is different and that a condition is working against your immune system, against your will, is shocking. It’s also the catalyst that shakes the foundation of your life and lets you know what you really want from your own future.

For me, being diagnosed with a chronic illness didn’t put me off wanting to have kids, it made me want them more.

I’ve never felt particularly maternal, and starting a family wasn’t at the top of my list of priorities before, but my diagnosis brought the issue into focus and made me reconsider my previous “not bothered” attitude. While the possibility I might pass on my condition to any future children haunts me occasionally, I also don’t want to limit what my life could be. MS already attempts to limit my life in several ways, but having a baby shouldn’t be one of them.

Actually, what far outweighs the possibility my children might contract my chronic illness is knowing my own limitations. As MS has affected my mobility and causes major fatigue on a daily basis, I’m well aware of my own failings and the extra challenges I’ll face if I become a parent, which is why I’m so grateful to be with someone who I trust completely and who I know will support me through any major life changes involving children. We want to have a baby together, but we’re also realistic that wanting one may not lead to actually being able to have one.

None of us knows what health challenges we might face in our lives. While some people might call my decision selfish, knowing my children might have a higher chance of contracting my chronic illness isn’t a reason to stop living. Don’t get me wrong — chronic conditions can make life a lot more difficult — but they’re not necessarily a death sentence. In many ways, my life is much better post-diagnosis, as it’s more honest, and I’m learning who I am and what I need.

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There are, of course, alternative options to giving birth if you have concerns like mine.

Adoption is a definite possibility, and according to Adopt America Network, there are “102,000 children in the U.S. foster care system waiting to be adopted.” But there is also the choice to remain child-free if that’s the right choice for you or the best thing for your health. The most important things are to stay informed and to know how starting or not starting a family will affect your condition.

By Amy Mackelden

So many of us woke up this morning still processing the news of another mass shooting: This time, in a church in a small town in Texas. Learning of this huge loss of life didn’t exactly make us ready to face the week ahead — in fact, a lot of people probably had the same question: How am I supposed to function and carry on like it’s a normal day after what happened in Texas?

Even if we aren’t directly involved with the shooting in Sutherland Springs that left more than two dozen killed, it’s completely normal to react to the news with a mix of feeling helpless, guilty, depressed, anxious and angry. Logically, we know feeling bad about the shooting won’t actually help anyone, but we also need time to process the tragic events and not pretend it didn’t happen.

Carolyn Wagner, a licensed professional counselor and psychotherapist practicing in Wilmette, Illinois, agrees, saying, “Our lives and day need to go on as usual,” but “this should not be confused with ignoring what happened or not taking the time to think or talk about it.” Along the same lines, Tracee Dunblazier, a grief counselor, cautions that “ignoring the news or pushing away the emotion doesn't work, as it only saves the feelings to be processed for another time.”

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Dr. John Santopietro, president and medical director of Silver Hill Hospital in Connecticut, was involved as a psychiatrist in the Sandy Hook shooting and has seen firsthand how people come together to survive during tragedies, as well as how devastating these events can be to a community. Unfortunately, he says that there is no formula for when someone should return to work and their usual routine after an event like the one in Texas, but emphasizes the importance of watching for signs of stress in anyone who has been affected, including changes in eating and sleeping habits, major behavioral changes or depressed or anxious moods, for example.

Fear is completely normal

When something bad happens, it makes sense that it makes us afraid or anxious. In fact, Dr. John Mayer, a clinical psychologist, says that being fearful is a good psychological and emotional protective mechanism during times of danger, and it’s OK to reexamine your behavior in terms of crowds and public events and be mindful of your surroundings.

“Even if we are not directly impacted, this type of public mass tragedy does have an effect on us,” Wagner says. ”It shakes our sense of security and naturally leads us to start thinking about what it would have been like to be one of the people there or to have a loved one there. This is a normal reaction and it deserves some reflection.”

So how long is it normal to live with this fear? Dr. Nekeshia Hammond, a psychologist, says that experiencing these emotions for a few days or even a week isn’t uncommon, but if they last more than a few weeks and are to the point of affecting your ability to function in your work or family life, it may be time to seek out a mental health professional.

Dr. Melissa Flint, associate professor of clinical psychology at Midwestern University, echoes that sentiment, saying, “The most important part is that you seek help if you need it.” This can be done by calling 911 in an immediate crisis or a mental health hotline.

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Guilt is normal too

You know that feeling where next to the tragedy everything else seems frivolous? According to Hammond and Lindsey Pratt, a psychotherapist in New York City who specializes in trauma, that’s a form of survivor’s guilt and another common reaction to the events.

“Coping with this guilt may have you questioning the senselessness of violence and feeling guilty about continuing on with the normalcy of the day-to-day,” Pratt says. “However, it's important to consider that experiencing both joy and sorrow does not in any way minimize the pain of others.”

Dunblazier explains that “guilt is the presence of unexpressed grief and heartbreak” and that expressing anguish through crying or an emotional response is a skill set and not weakness.

But why are we feeling guilty about something we had nothing to do with? Dunblazier says it’s a common experience to transfer your grief and anguish from things you can’t control — like these mass tragedies — to things you feel you are in control of, like your friends, family, work or social situations. In this case, she says it’s important to practice self-awareness by asking yourself what you’re feeling and where it originated as well as taking five minutes at the end of the day to reflect on your emotions and release them.

One thing to watch out for, says Dr. Paul Hokemeyer, an addictions therapist and certified clinical trauma professional, is destructive forms of self-medicating, specifically excessive alcohol consumption, overeating and another reckless behavior. Engaging in these will only add to your sense of hopelessness, he adds.

Getting back into a routine can help

Yes, the mere act of going about with your regular routine when a major tragedy just occurred could be the source of guilt, but it could also do you some good.

Dr. Robin Goodman, a licensed clinical psychologist and art therapist with particular expertise in trauma and bereavement, suggests balancing what it's necessary in your life to continue to do with what you can do to help others. Along the same lines, it’s important to stay engaged in some routine activities — even if you’re not at full speed.

“Recognize that doing your regular job can be helpful to recovering and maintaining perspective,” Goodman says. “Yet at the same time, it can be a time for reflection and awareness about one's life. Individuals can pay attention to these thoughts and feelings and consider what to do with them over time rather than immediately.” 

Limit your media exposure

There is a fine line between staying informed and obsessively watching a video of the shooting over and over. Julie Barthels, a licensed clinical social worker in Illinois and co-author of Resilience Revolution: A Workbook on How to Stay Sane in an Insane World, says that too much media coverage “reinforced the horror of it and does not allow you the opportunity to process the emotions that come with it.”

Similarly, Hammond suggests limiting your intake of social media as well as news outlets. “If it feels like too much to process all of the details, videos and articles that emerge, be sure to take a break for your mental health,” she adds.

Avoid negative friends & family members

Whenever something bad — or good — happens, you know there are certain family members and/or friends who will have strong opinions about it and perhaps get you all riled up. There’s a time and place for those people — and this isn’t it, says Richale Reed, a therapist practicing in North Carolina. Instead, reach out to people who will help you process what happened in a constructive way.

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Turn thoughts & feelings into productive actions

Several of the mental health professionals suggested taking some sort of action as a way of proactively dealing with your feelings of helplessness. This can range from doing things that will help you personally to those that also impact the community. Giving blood and finding meaningful volunteer opportunities are always good options. In addition, Wagner suggests doing things like reaching out to your loved ones to let them know how much they mean to you and making an emergency plan with your family so you know how to respond should something like this happen to you.

If you would like to make a monetary contribution, a nonprofit, the Hardest Hit Family Relief Fund (HHFRF) has set up a GoFundMe page to raise money to provide relief and financial support to the victims and families of the horrific mass shooting​.

“In these moments, finding ways to express compassion where we are able, in our spheres of influence, become the ways we can make a small impact in our worlds that feel so out of control,” Flint adds.

Admit it: You freaking love Meghan Markle and Prince Harry. I love Markle and Harry. Everyone and their mother loves Markle and Harry. Why? Because these two are arguably one of the sweetest and most stable couples in the public eye. It's been such a joy to watch love blossom between them over the last year or so, and admittedly, we can't wait for good news about them. We want that royal wedding magic to happen ASAP, y'all!

When we see them together, it's such a treat. They look so comfortable with one another, so at ease. They're always smiling, or holding hands, or they have their arms wrapped around each other. It's easy to see that they are deep in the throes of a good relationship, and we can only hope that things continue on this road.

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But make no mistake: These two have come a long way in the development of their relationship in a fairly short time. Thinking back to the way things were in the earliest months of 2017, it's surprising to see just how far they've come. So, where did Markle and Harry begin as a couple in 2017, and where are they now?

February

In February, Markle and Harry were officially spotted together for the first time while out on a date night in London. Their first paparazzi shot together helped confirm that the lovebirds were in fact dating. They were snapped while crossing the street in London, Harry leading the way and holding Markle's hand, as they left the exclusive Soho House.

March

In March, Harry brought Markle to Jamaica, where she was his date to a friend's destination wedding. Sneak paparazzi photos showed to the two at what appeared to be the reception in their best beachwear, with Markle wrapping her arms around Harry's shoulders at one point.

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April

April saw Markle shut down The Tig, her successful lifestyle blog and a creative outlet for her. The conversation soon turned to what this move meant for her relationship with Harry in regards to moving out of the public eye as a blogger and actor and potentially into a more humanitarian or stately role, as was the case with the Duchess of Cambridge.

While Markle's official statement didn't indicate anything about how serious she was regarding a possible future as a royal, many believed this was her first step towards royal status: "After close to three beautiful years on this adventure with you, it’s time to say goodbye to The Tig. What began as a passion project (my little engine that could) evolved into an amazing community of inspiration, support, fun, and frivolity. You’ve made my days brighter and filled this experience with so much joy.”

May

In May, the two were caught on camera having a secret kiss while at one of Harry's polo matches. So cheeky — and sneaky!

Even better, while we never saw the photos, we do know that Markle was Harry's date to Pippa Middleton's wedding. Markle didn't attend the ceremony (a common English custom for weddings of this nature and not at all a rude move), but word on the street was that she did attend the private reception. Rumors also began surfacing that Harry secured permission from his grandmother, Queen Elizabeth II, to propose to Markle.

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August

August saw the couple jaunt to Africa for a luxurious vacation together. Engagement rumors hit new levels during this time (and haven't subsided since then) as many felt this kind of grand vacation would be the perfect time for Harry to pop the question. While it didn't happen, public interest in the progression of the couple's relationship only increased from there.

September

September was a big month for Markle and Harry. Early in the month, Markle landed on the October cover of Vanity Fair. In her cover issue profile, she took a moment to declare her feelings for her royal boo: "We’re a couple. We’re in love. I’m sure there will be a time when we have to come forward and present ourselves and have stories to tell, but I hope what people will understand is that this is our time. This is for us. It’s part of what makes it so special, that it’s just ours. But we’re happy. Personally, I love a great love story."

At the end of the month, the pair were spotted at the Invictus Games in Toronto, Markle's home away from home while she filmed Suits. Harry was there as an official part of the games themselves, but Markle was spotted with Harry at various sporting events and at the closing ceremonies in support of her sweetheart.

October

In October, news broke that Markle was very possibly leaving Suits as she and Harry made plans to move in together in London. The news sparked even more serious engagement rumors.

Whether if you’re a parent, a caretaker, a loving aunt or uncle or a dedicated best friend to both your pal and their offspring, the desire to protect our young folks is often instinctual. Unfortunately, while the world is a wonderful, immersive and curious place, it far too often presents its darker side — unexplained violence and tragedies that can leave children with questions you might find difficult to answer.

How can we help kids maintain their wide-eyed innocence while also helping them grow and learn tactics to overcome fear and deal with harsh realities?

“Kids are big thinkers, and their imaginations are not limited to fun, carefree topics," explains clinical psychologist and author Stephanie O’Leary. "When you have honest, age-appropriate conversations about scary things, you provide an outlet for your child's feelings, model healthy coping and establish that you are a source of support, even when topics are uncomfortable or frightening,” 

Below are some tools and strategies for leaning into age-appropriate discussions of violence, racism and other tough topics — and tailoring the conversation to educate and comfort kids.

Racism, bullying & discrimination

Depending on your community, your child might be surrounded by people of a thousand different cultures the moment she's born. But she might not be. For children in homogenous communities, it can be a startling discovery to meet people from other backgrounds. Young kids may not know how to act around people who are different from them — or how to respond if they see or hear about someone being abused or otherwise mistreated because of their race, religion, culture, sexual or gender identity, disability, etc.

For kids under 5:

The key here, O’Leary says, is to never avoid questions about race, religion or other identifiers, as you could inadvertently breed a judgmental attitude in kids by making something seem like a taboo topic. It's an unfortunate reality of our time that your child will likely witness an act of discrimination at some point — and be rightfully baffled by the hatred behind that act. This is when O’Leary says to allow kids' questions to come up as they may. Make sure the child knows the scary thing that happened is absolutely wrong — but that doesn't mean it's wrong to talk about it. This way, you can turn the unfortunate experience into a learning opportunity. If your child asks questions about someone who was mistreated, "it's best to answer honestly and keep lines of communication open,” O'Leary says.

For kids ages 5 to 10:

As a child develops friendships, meets new people and expands their community, they might become more candid about their questions and perhaps more direct. At this age, you can step in and help them develop a healthy — positive but assertive — attitude. “Talking about current events and daily experiences within your community are great places to start because discrimination is not a thing of the past,” O’Leary says.

She also adds that it’s important to prepare your child for what, unfortunately, is the inevitable. He or she will likely observe or experience acts of hate or discrimination at some point and will likely be confused about how to react. Here, O’Leary says to get personal with your preteen. “Share personal experiences to model how you felt, how you reacted and what you wish you had done differently. Choosing examples from your own childhood will make the biggest impact on your son or daughter. Focusing on practical steps your child can take is important, such as being vocal or seeking help when observing bullying,” she suggests.

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Guns

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, there are more than 31,000 deaths every year involving guns in the United States. This makes the topic that much more fraught — and more likely to come up with a child. From the minor ("guns" in video games) to the major (mass shootings in the news), kids are bound to encounter gun violence at some point. “Even if you try hard to monitor what your child is exposed to, guns are present on television, integrated into various toys and action figures and carried by various authority figures, including police officers,” O’Leary explains. It's never too early to start talking about them.

For kids under 5:
O’Leary says the most important lesson to teach a preschooler is that under no circumstances are guns toys; it’s important to underline how much harm they can cause. “Answer any questions that may arise simply and honestly to provide factual information without creating undue anxiety,” she says.

For kids ages 5 to 10:
With a more mature child, O’Leary says you can get more specific regarding gun safety and offer solutions for how to protect themselves and handle various situations. “Make sure your child is fully aware of the fact that guns can be deadly, and review what you expect them to do if they are ever in a situation where a gun is present," O'Leary urges. "While every parent fears this, the fact is that guns are often present in homes. Gun violence can occur even during innocent playdates,” she adds. “Empower your child with a focus on gun safety, and answer any questions that arise.” 

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Other acts of violence

Tensions are soaring high these days, and it can feel like an attack or tragedy of some sort is happening every other week. When a child catches the evening news or the anniversary of a tragic event is discussed at school, you might be asked questions like "Why would someone do this?" or "Are they coming for us next?" Sadly, these inquiries don’t always have concrete answers; but you can provide valuable context.

For kids under 5:
While O’Leary doesn’t suggest approaching a topic like terrorism with a child under 5 unless they specifically ask, she says that being direct and simple — without providing graphic details — is ideal. However, with one important caveat: Avoid labels and dichotomies such as "good guys" versus "bad guys." “This perpetuates the idea of continued conflict," O'Leary explains, "and it's likely less stressful for your child to hear you say, ‘There are some people who want to hurt others who are different, and we do everything we can to try and stop that."

For kids ages 5 to 10:
As a kid ages through elementary school, he or she may become more comfortable talking about what they hear at school and throughout the community. This makes them consider violence through a more analytic lens since they might have had experiences like going through a metal detector or security at an airport. “At this age, you can provide some more factual background regarding the cultural and political circumstances that have contributed to terrorist acts as well as the specific safeguards that your family relies on for safety,” O’Leary suggests.

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The world we live in can be a frightening place, and the people in it don’t always help. But when you're raising kids, it’s always more helpful to have sad, difficult conversations than no conversations at all. That way, you can prepare them as best you can to face our frightening world — and change it for the better.

This article was originally published in September 2017 and was republished in October 2017 and November 2017.

My childhood was just about as small-town-idyllic as it gets. I grew up in the woods of New England; I ran outside barefoot all summer, playing tag and catching fireflies until long after dark. We knew everyone in town, and all the parents kept an eye out for each other’s kids (my mom joked that she had “eyes” all over town).

But today, I’ve made the choice to raise my daughter in a vastly different environment — in the heart of one of the biggest cities in America. Why? Too many reasons to count, really, but here are a few.

Diversity

In my small town, the vast majority of the residents looked like me: white. It wasn’t until I went to college in Boston and Los Angeles that I became exposed to people of different cultures, races, ethnicities, religions, genders, sexual orientations, abilities... the list goes on. Simply meeting people who are different opened my eyes to global issues more than any school lesson could. And now, my daughter has been exposed to more diversity at age 3 than I was at 18. My hope is that this means she'll grow up with a deeply ingrained sense of respect and compassion for those who are different from her.

Then there's the bonus of living in a diverse community: food. In my hometown, our choices were limited to fast food, pizza and Chinese takeout. In her few years of life so far, my daughter has already gobbled down delicious and surprisingly cheap Thai pad see ew, Japanese ramen, Korean bibimbap, Mexican tamales, Filipino barbeque, Vietnamese cold rice noodles, Indian aloo gobi... Oh, and all of these dishes are available within a 2-mile radius of our apartment.

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Living efficiently

In cities, living spaces tend to be much smaller. Our family of three lives in a 750-square-foot apartment. This means our energy bills (and carbon footprints) are low, and we can’t accumulate a lifetime of clutter — because we have no place to put it. We have to make careful decisions about what purchases we bring home, and we have to stay organized. This means we save on everything from toys to clothes to furniture as well as the hours we'd spend cleaning a larger place. Most of all, we spend a lot more time together because there aren’t opposite ends of a house to retreat to.

Culture & entertainment

This holiday season, I’ll be taking my daughter to a production of The Nutcracker just like quite a few families across the country. But not all those families have dozens of Nutcracker productions to choose from. Shall we hit up the Moscow Ballet? How about a Debbie Allen hip-hop revamp of the Tchaikovsky-Balanchine classic? Or perhaps we'll check out The Nutcracker performed by puppets.

From Disney on Ice to Paw Patrol Live, if it’s touring, it will come here. But it's not all big-ticket shows that cost a pretty penny; our city also boasts a seemingly unlimited selection of affordable or even free museums, zoos, aquariums, botanical gardens and play spaces to choose from at any moment.

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Education

Does your kid want to learn Mexican folklorico dancing? Maybe she wants to try rock climbing, learn to code or go to zoo camp? Or how about a foreign language — Arabic, Hindi, Swedish, anyone? If your kid can dream it, there’s probably a class available with an expert to teach it. Yes, a lot of these classes cost a lot of money, but you'd be surprised at the affordable options out there. Even the public school system in our city offers dual-language programs in Spanish, Mandarin, Korean, you name it. When you live in a densely populated area, there’s a wealth of experience and talent at your fingertips for a wide range of price points.

Delivery (yep)

Can’t make it to the grocery store because you’re home with a sick kiddo? Having a dinner party and forgot the wine? Working late with no time to make dinner? In my city, there are seemingly countless delivery services that can bring you everything from food to booze to household supplies. Of course, that doesn't mean we're lazing it up, never leaving the house and spending our entire salaries on getting random items toted to our doorstep. But, boy, is this a nice option to have for "emergencies" large and small. I know if I ever wake up the day of my daughter's friend's birthday party and realize I forgot to get a present, I can order something on Amazon Prime Now that will arrive in an hour or two. It's amazing what this knowledge does to lower one's anxiety levels.

Walkability

Even in small towns, “walkable” is one of the most sought-after real-estate buzzwords. Being able to walk to your local coffee shops, parks, libraries, farmers markets, restaurants and shops makes for an active and often more happy family. And if you’ve been trying to get a sullen older kid to open up a little, there’s nothing like a long walk to stimulate conversation.

Parent networks

When I was pregnant with my daughter, I was worried I'd never be able to recreate that small-town community vibe I'd grown up with. I thought it would be impossible in this big city — but I was so wrong. Since my daughter’s birth, I have met so many amazing friends and parents (many through nothing more than a neighborhood Facebook group) and I now have the same close-knit, caring community I had back home — just on a slightly larger scale.

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Bottom line: While I don’t have a huge backyard or recognize every face in the grocery store, for me, the benefits of raising a child in the city far outweigh any negatives. By being immersed in diversity, educational opportunities and cultural experiences, this city is educating my daughter far better than I would be able to on my own. And I like to think that education is turning her into a more compassionate, global-minded citizen too.

It’s been a month and a half since rumors emerged that Kylie Jenner is reportedly pregnant with her first child with boyfriend Travis Scott — and still no word from the star herself. That all changed yesterday, when the 20-year-old Keeping Up with the Kardashians star addressed her rumored pregnancy for the first time ever.

On Sunday, Jenner took to Twitter to deny that a "baby bump" was visible in recent paparazzi photos of her, published by The Daily Mail. The photos showed Jenner dressed in an oversized black hoodie and sweatpants, and she appeared to be (somewhat) visibly pregnant.

Jenner immediately slammed the photos, claiming that they were heavily Photoshopped to make her look pregnant. She pointed to “crooked lines” in the photos as evidence that they were altered. Though Jenner didn’t specify which lines she was referring to, one photo does show wonky curves on the trunk of a car in the background.

“First of all, if you’re going to photoshop my photos blogs/paps!! Check for the crooked lines in the background. 2nd photo is clearly altered,” she tweeted.

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Though Jenner didn’t confirm or deny her rumored pregnancy, her tweet suggests that, even if she is pregnant, she may not be as far along as the the paparazzi and gossip rags claim she is. After Jenner posted her tweet, X17Online, the original source of the photos, posted a claim that the shots are indeed authentic.

“They’re 100% REAL! No Photoshop, #nofilter, no additives, no preservatives — all organic and all REAL!” the site wrote.

To prove that the photos were likely edited, Jenner posted a picture of herself with her sister, Khloé Kardashian (who is also rumored to be pregnant), on a junk food run at a convenience store. The pictures showed Jenner dressed in the same outfit as the paparazzi shots, but with no noticeable bump.

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Whatever the truth is, we hope momager Kris Jenner 'fesses up soon, because we don’t think we can stand the mystery any longer.

Originally posted on StyleCaster.com

With a pair of newborn twins to take up his time, George Clooney probably has plenty on his plate without worrying about getting acting jobs. But that doesn't make the news that he's pretty much officially quitting acting any easier to swallow.

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But surprisingly, the twins aren't the reason for Clooney's departure from his career.

"Look, I acted for a long time and, you know, I’m 56. I’m not the guy that gets the girl anymore," he said in a new interview with The Sunday Times, adding, "shouldn’t be the guy that gets the girl."

The good news is that doesn't necessarily mean Clooney is out of the acting game for good. If the right role comes along, he's willing to take it.

"But, look, if somebody’s got Paul Newman in The Verdict, I’d jump," he explained. "But there aren’t that many like that. Acting used to be how I paid the rent, but I sold a tequila company for a billion fucking dollars. I don’t need money."

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He continued, "I have money. So I can fight to make movies I want to make. If you look at what I’ve been in over the past 15 years, for the most part they weren’t going to get made if I didn’t do them. Nobody was going to make Good Night, and Good Luck, Michael Clayton or Up in the Air, and I fought to get those out there."

As for the next steps in Clooney's career? Even though he comes from a family of politicians, he says he has no political aspirations of his own.

"I have always been involved in politics. My father ran for Congress. It’s been in our family forever. But, mostly, I can help in ways I actually know very well, like messaging [voters]," he said. "So many people since Trump was elected have really been pushing on me to get more involved in actual politics, specifically at the highest office. I don’t have political aspirations."

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So President Clooney is off the table. At least we have dad Clooney.

In case you ever doubted Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner's love, let the photos from their engagement party prove some things to you. The star-studded affair was captured by a lot of their famous guests and then leaked all over Jophie fan accounts online, which is kind of a low-key invasion of privacy, but we can't even be mad, because the cuteness!

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Just look at them dancing with their flaming bottles of Champagne. (Side note: I need to know where one acquires flaming bottles of Champagne, because those are a necessary part of every celebration event from now on.) If this isn't proof their wedding is going to be lit (literally), I don't know what is.

Besides the shenanigans from the bride- and groom-to-be, the engagement party was a little Jonas Brothers reunion, which is just what my Disney-obsessed, '90s kid heart needs on a dreary Monday morning.

Here's the media-shy Kevin Jonas and his wifey Danielle:

And of course Nick made an appearance in some adorbs photo booth pics with Kevin and Joe and all their lady friends.

While we're on that subject, how cute are all these photo booth pics?

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Word on the street is that the other highlight was the musical performances. Joe Jonas reportedly sang his hit "Cake by the Ocean" for Turner, while others took the mic to sing all kinds of sappy love songs. The engagement party bar has been set, and it's been set high.

It is with a heavy heart that I must confess something. It's been simmering for a while now, poking around at the back of my brain, trying to be heard. It's a controversial truth but one that I've got to say aloud: Folks, Will & Grace isn't really that good. The revival is just capitalizing on something that was pretty canned and crowd-pleasing in the worst ways, and we shouldn't really be celebrating the fact that Will & Grace is back.

Before you get too worked up, it should be said that it might look like I'm sending mixed messages on this topic, but I'm really not trying to do so. Recently, I published a piece on SheKnows on things we love about the Will & Grace revival. So, you might be scratching your head and saying, "What gives?" when, in fact, I think it's possible for me to find the small moments of joy in this revival while still openly disliking it. It's happening, friends. Right now. We're talking about it.

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While the revival has its small, good moments — the amusing wokeness of aging liberals and firmly intact gender and sexual orientation dynamics proliferate here to pleasing ends — it's still grating as hell on the nerves. It's not just the fact that Will & Grace is still being performed and filmed in front of a studio audience, but the fact that it feels like too little, too late.

A major factor in my dislike for this revival is actually the fact that there's a strong "We filmed this in front of a studio audience" vibe to it. The laughter is too loud and forced. The pause for a punch line to wash over said studio audience is palpable and unbearable. The performances now feel even more noticeably fake. All this is to say that it's arguably a detriment to the revival itself that this convention is still in place; sadly, we all know it wouldn't be a Will & Grace revival without it.

Even worse than this are the jokes. They're so predictable and schlocky and fatiguing that after the third round, you just feel knocked out. More noticeably, these jokes seem to feel a bit too nudge-nudge-wink-wink at the audience ("Do you get it? Do ya?"). The show, by way of its core cast, wants applause from us and approval that they're still as irreverent and lovable in their amusing oddness as they were over a decade ago. Give me a damn break, Will & Grace. Fine, here's a cookie for your wisecracks, but please, calm down.

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Also, is it just me or is the blatant wokeness of the show somehow less appealing in presentation than in theory? Yes, I'm glad that the politics of Will & Grace has progressed with the times (something it has done since Day 1), but it feels like, in every episode, there is a constant and repeated jabbing of the metaphorical finger on the "We understand modern politics" button. If there's ever a chance to make a joke about President Trump or pussy hats or modern dating practices in the LGBTQ community or redneck middle Americans who just don't "get it," Will & Grace has certainly gone there.

And while I absolutely commend the revival for having the inclination to tackle all of these topics, sometimes it noticeably gets in the way of the storylines being told to us. It's a thumbs-up from me that Will & Grace wants to take a poke or two at our current president with a visual gag involving Cheetos or propping a "Make America Gay Again" hat on the corner of a wingback chair in the Oval Office, but by the fourth episode, when the ragging on conservative politics and the seeming narrow-mindedness of Republicans in many forms gets shit on, I think it's high time the show re-examines what it's doing here. Why do you exist, Will & Grace 2.0?

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Listen, I don't want to completely rip on Will & Grace. At a time when television is ravenous to reboot and revive any property that might make money, the fact that Will & Grace is back is nice. It provides a nice update on the lives of characters who were integral to the changing face of television in the late '90s and early '00s. The performances from actors Debra Messing, Eric McCormack, Megan Mullally and Sean Hayes are still fun and fresh. The show, as I said, isn't afraid to be unabashedly contemporary and critical.

However, something still feels off. Simply returning to the formulaic trappings that helped catapult this show to success and its status as a cultural touchstone isn't enough to win over this sincerely skeptical fan. And while I can appreciate the good things about it, there's still a long way to go before this revival can feel as fresh and new as it earnestly believes it is.

We’re used to coffee creations that are more about being photo-ready than even the ingredients — from unicorns to rainbows, we’ve seen them all. Except now it’s gone next-level.

Introducing glittery coffee, a creation of Coffee By Di Bella, a coffee chain founded in Australia. Their Mumbai location has just blown up social media thanks to their new glitter-infused cappuccinos.

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If you like a normal cappuccino, you’ll like this one: It’s the same steamed milk and espresso —but then it’s topped with a spoonful of either iridescent, diamond-like glitter or gold sparkles. And the glitter is edible (it’s made of sugar crystals and food coloring) — so it’s totally safe to enjoy without worrying about swallowing shiny dust.

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Unfortunately, for now, you can only get this creation in India — that said, we expect stateside baristas to start making their own versions very soon.

The poshest spice of all time, Victoria Beckham, made Instagram fans very happy this week. Beckham posted a video clip of Harper, her 6-year-old daughter with soccer star David Beckham, singing "All I Want for Christmas Is You."

In the video, Harper is happily drawing what seems to be a gingerbread man encircled in Christmas lights while she croons the holiday tune and hits some Mariah Carey-worthy high notes. Of course, it's possible that Harper is a Stranger Things fan and is actually drawing a demogorgon wrapped in Winona Ryder's magic communicating Christmas lights. Whatever the case, the whole scene is adorable — especially with what we presume is Beckham's delighted giggle in the background.

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“4th November and Harper is getting into the Christmas spirit!!” Beckham captioned the clip. This isn't the first time Beckham has shared a Harper serenade. The little girl sang a sweet rendition of 'Happy Birthday' to her proud mum back in April.

Harper's musical stylings simply prove that our Beckham family fandom is well-founded. And though chances are slim we'll ever meet them at a tea party at Buckingham Palace, we can dream, right?

OK, so we get that Chris Pratt has had a lot on his mind. His split from Anna Faris was probably a really difficult and devastating time, and the fact that he stayed off social media while that hit the headlines and died down is probably smart and definitely respectable. That said, however, we love Pratt on Instagram, and we needed him back.

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Apparently he heard our pleas, because for the first time since last July, Pratt posted a photo to Instagram over the weekend. And because we basically live for Pratt's Instagrams with his perfect, precious son, Jack, and the man knows what we want and need, guess who was in the photo with him?

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That's right! Pratt and Jack flexed their muscles as they posed for the camera outside a screening of Thor: Ragnarok.

"HOLY CRAP!! THOR RAGNAROK IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING!!!" Pratt wrote alongside the sweet snap. "We just laughed our asses off!!! So proud to be part of the Marvel universe."

Sources who spotted Pratt and Jack at the theater reported to Us Weekly that they shared a giant tub of popcorn while they watched the movie. Can they be any more perfectly adorable? I think not.

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Pratt and Faris are reportedly sharing equal custody of five-year-old Jack since their split. Before Pratt let his Instagram go inactive, he posted photos with the kid all the time, and we kind of fell in love with them both. Here's hoping this new photo is just the beginning of a new trend.

We’ve all been there: It’s 3 p.m. on a Thursday afternoon, dreams of the weekend chipping away at your concentration, and the thought of a doughnut seeming like the best idea to keep you going. Or after a particularly indulgent weekend of cakes, cookies and desserts, you can’t help but reach for another treat to satisfy your taste buds. The only issue with overdoing it on foods that are high sugar is the impact they have, not only on your waistline, but on your mood, emotional levels and overall health. In fact, registered dietitian Kaleigh McMordie explains a sugar craving is actually a signal from your body that you need energy — and quickly.

Here, the scoop on what causes these gotta-have-it-yesterday hankerings — and how to curb them, especially during the holiday season when gatherings of sugar abound.

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Why you might be craving sugar

Like McMordie says, when you’re double-tapping on those scrumptious-looking posts from your favorite bakery influencer, it’s your body wishing for a pick-me-up. But while a part-cupcake, part-ice-cream-sandwich creation looks amazing, it’s not actually what your body needs.

“You can get sugar cravings for several reasons, most often because your body doesn't have enough fuel. This can be because you haven't eaten in a few hours, because your last meal wasn't big enough, or you simply haven't provided your body enough nutrients to give it the proper energy it needs,” she says. “Sugar is broken down into glucose, the body's preferred energy source, very quickly, so when you need energy fast, you are likely to crave sugar.”

Why people struggle with sugar cravings

There’s a reason that 3 p.m. slump is so relatable. As McMordie says, more often than not, people have a consistent urge for sugar at specific, recurring times of the day. “This could be because of habit — for example, if somebody eats a sweet snack at 3 p.m. every day or eats a candy bar after dinner every night while watching TV. It could also be because the person is simply not fueling their body correctly,” she explains. And the cold, hard fact of the matter is the more sugar you give your body, the more it will want as you unwillingly create an addiction that’s tough to shake.

And with office parties and family gatherings centered around food, the struggle might feel even more real. “During the holiday season, we tend to eat more sweets and more filling foods that don't necessarily provide us all the nutrients for lasting energy. We also tend to be much busier, running around without stopping to eat. Before we know it, it's been six hours since we've last eaten, and our bodies need energy now,” McMordie explains. “Sugar is also much more visible during the holiday season, from candies and cookies to holiday coffee drinks, so it's easier to crave.”

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How to curb sugar cravings

Put up your dukes and prepare your backbone, as standing firm against sugar cravings will take some practice, especially if your habits are far from healthy. But we have experts' smart, useful and effective ways to shy away from sugar and improve your lifestyle.

Make sure your body has enough balance fuel

The more full you feel, the less likely you will be to give into the temptation of a Butterfinger or a chocolate croissant. As McMordie explains, when you give your body enough fuel in the form of long-lasting complex carbs, protein and healthy fats, the less snacking you’ll be tempted to take part in. And eat more often than three times a day, she adds. “Ideally, you want to eat about every three hours or when you feel just a twinge of hunger. You want to avoid getting too ravenous.” 

Try a naturally sweet snack instead

You already know how that Starbucks run makes you feel: At the moment, that cake pop is exactly what you need to get through a tough call with a client. But in an hour? You’ll feel even more exhausted than you did before you logged into the conference line. That’s why McMordie says paying close attention to how sugar makes you feel will help you make smarter choices that still ignite your sugar tooth.

“Try something naturally sweet, like fruit paired with a fat or protein, such as a handful or nuts, some cheese or yogurt. The fiber from the fruit combined with protein or fat will give you a slow, steady supply of energy and keep you from bottoming out later,” she adds.

Have the desert on occasion, but really enjoy it

Registered nutritionist and dietitian Keith Ayoob says while it might seem counterproductive, actually allowing yourself the indulgences you can’t stop gushing over is OK as long as it’s done mindfully and infrequently. “It’s far better to build in a sweet treat than to decide to go cold turkey, end up bingeing down the road, then feeling like you failed,” he says.

To do this, McMordie says to pick up your all-time favorite goodie that always hits the spot. Then much like fostering a new relationship with a partner, take your time. “Notice the smell, texture and taste. Take small bites and put your fork down between bites to notice how you feel and if you are satisfied. Enjoying your sweets mindfully will help you to enjoy your treat more fully and help you to be satisfied with less. Eventually, you might find that you don't want that stale cookie because you know it won't taste very good and you have a really good piece of chocolate waiting at home for you,” she explains.

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Eat breakfast every single day

Yes, even in a rush. Yes, even if you don’t usually want it. As Ayoob says, this all-too-important meal can make a big difference in your food choices throughout the day, especially when it features the key players of nutrients.

“Your breakfast had better have more protein than cereal and milk. That’s a start, not a finish. Add at least a 5 ounces of fat-free Greek yogurt or a hard-cooked egg or a piece of last night’s chicken. Chances are you get enough protein but do you get it early enough? Probably not, and this is a set-up for cravings later in the day. When you’re really hungry, you won’t eat healthy. That’s as simple as it gets,” he says.

Updated Nov. 6, 2017, 12:00 p.m. PT: Happy Monday to all because the official Fifty Shades Freed trailer is here! And oh, boy, this one is about as sexy and empowering and soapy as they come. Buckle up because this trailer promises to deliver the final adventure that your drama-loving self has been eagerly anticipating for months.

If you need a moment, go ahead and take one. I'll wait.

OK, we're ready to talk about this now, right?

First off, this movie is going to be quite a wild ride. The trailer confirms that the movie will be no different than that book; everything is going off the rails for Ana and Christian. There's the return of Jack Hyde. There are a bunch of guns. It looks like Elena Lincoln is back and there might be some suspected adultery between her and Christian. And of course, it's not just Elena vying for Christian's attention. It looks like Ana and Christian's man-eating architect wants a piece of him as well.

Oh, and let's not forget that there's this little moment where Ana, for the first time ever, becomes a character that is more than the human equivalent of wet laundry and asserts herself to the hot architect who hits on her hubs. From now on, anytime I feel remotely disrespected, my reply will be, "You may call me Mrs. Grey."

While this trailer was certainly a lot to handle, it's actually pretty dang satisfying — just like Fifty Shades should be.

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If you can believe it, the Fifty Shades franchise just got even more intense. On Sunday, the first teaser trailer for Fifty Shades Freed dropped — and it revealed that some decidedly dark days are in store for Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey. Or should we say Mr. and Mrs. Grey?

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The first look at the third and supposedly final Fifty Shades film isn't entirely foreboding. The trailer begins with Anastasia (Dakota Johnson) and Christian (Jamie Dornan) getting hitched. Predictably, they both look stunning.

"I solemnly vow to love you faithfully, forsaking all others. I promise to trust and respect you and to keep you safe for as long as we both shall live. All that I have is now yours," Christian is heard reciting as Anastasia's gown is buttoned up.

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After the wedding, the newlyweds board their personal jet ("You own that?" Anastasia asks. "We own that," Christian responds). We're then treated to a shirtless Christian while the happy couple honeymoons, followed by a few glimpses of their erotic interludes.

It would appear, though, that things soon go south... and not in the fun, naughty way.

There's a gun, Anastasia nearly being run off the road in her beautiful Audi, and what one can only presume is Anastasia being kidnapped by a mysterious man brandishing an extremely large knife. So, uh, I guess you could say the honeymoon is over?

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Fans of the book likely recognize the sequence of events as part of Anastasia and Christian's storyline created by the writer of the Fifty Shades series, E L James.

If you haven't read the books, you can catch up on what's really happening in the Greys' world when Fifty Shades Freed hits theaters on Valentine's Day 2018.

Joanna and Chip Gaines might be retiring from their totally bingeable show Fixer Upper, but they're continuing to make big waves in the home decor world. Most recently? This week, their Hearth & Home line came out at Target, and people are justifiably losing their marbles over it.

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Joanna and Chip were excited about it too.

And lots of other people couldn't wait to get their hands on the new merchandise, especially the holiday decor.

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Once the doors opened, it was game time. And TBH, after seeing how gorgeous Target's in-store displays are, it's a miracle the whole line isn't already sold out.

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Hearth & Hand is now available in store and on Target's website. And if you don't manage to get anything this time around, never fear — the Gaineses have a multiyear deal with the chain, meaning there's more farmhouse chic to come.

Oops. Kristen Bell's and Dax Shepard's notorious — and hilarious — acting skills came in handy recently when their daughters walked in on them having sex.

The always-relatable Bell recently described said stop, drop and roll of marital relations on The Talk to host Sara Gilbert — while wearing pajamas in a giant bed alongside Sharon Osbourne, of course. Like you do. Gilbert inquired about the most awkward thing Bell and Shepard's preschool-age daughters — Delta, 2, and Lincoln, 4 — had ever walked in on their parents doing. The always matter-of-fact Bell had no trouble remembering and instantly 'fessed up: "Oh, they've walked in on us having sex."

The studio audience gasped — as if this were a majorly shocking event in parenting history. But come on; is it really? Doesn't this sort of mishap happen to plenty of parents? No? Just me? Well, OK then.

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When can we curl up in a gigantic bed with our BFF Kristen and swap tales of embarrassing parenting moments? Because seriously, we've got loads on tap here.

Even though it may seem like it, not ever woman in Hollywood has spoken out about the recent flood of sexual assault and harassment accusations that's taken down top players like Harvey Weinstein, Brett Ratner and Kevin Spacey. Some people are still holding back, but not forever.

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Uma Thurman was on the red carpet at the premiere of The Parisian Woman when Access Hollywood asked her about all these allegations. And Thurman certainly has some thoughts, but she's saving them for us to enjoy at a later date.

"I find it commendable," she said of the women who have already spoken out, adding, "I don't have a tidy soundbite for you because I am not a child and I have learned that when I have spoken in anger, I usually regret the way I express myself. So I've been waiting to feel less angry, and when I'm ready, I'll say what I have to say."

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Needless to say, all of us be like:

Thurman has something to say, and the internet is here for it without even knowing what it is yet.

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So, in review: Uma Thurman is going to speak on this. And we have ample warning and time to prepare for when that day happens.Get ready, fam. This is going to be good.

Updated November 6, 1:00 p.m. PT: Alec Baldwin is leaving Twitter after some of the comments he's made about the Harvey Weinstein scandal and other recent claims of sexism, assault and harassment in Hollywood were perceived by some to be victim blaming.

In an interview with PBS News Hour, Baldwin was asked why "nobody said anything" about Rose McGowan's claims about Weinstein. Baldwin answered, "What happened was that Rose McGowan took a payment of $100,000 and settled her case with him. And it was for Rose McGowan to prosecute that case."

In a series of tweets announcing his decision to take a break from Twitter amid this controversy, Baldwin wrote, "It is w some degree of sadness that I will suspend posting on this, a TWITTER account, for a period of and in the current climate."

He continued, "It was never my intention, in my public statements, to ‘blame the victim’ in the many sexual assault cases that have emerged recently. I simply posited that the settlement of such cases certainly delayed justice, though I am fully aware that those settlements were entered into w the understanding that settlement is wise, intimidated into believing so. My heart goes out to all such victims. My goal is to do better in all things related to gender equality. Au revoir."

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Alec Baldwin just owned up to treating women poorly throughout his career, and honestly? We're not sure how to feel about it.

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While receiving a career honor from the Paley Center for Media on Thursday, Baldwin told reporters, "I certainly have treated women in a very sexist way. I’ve bullied women. I’ve overlooked women. I’ve underestimated women. Not as a rule, [but] from time to time I’ve done what a lot of men do, which is... when you don’t treat women the same way you treat men. You don’t. I’m from a generation where you really don’t and I’d like that to change. I really would like that to change."

Baldwin's comments come on the heels of accusations of widespread sexual harassment, assault and even rape made against other prominent men in Hollywood. Several of the film industry's most powerful men have seen their careers come crashing down in recent weeks, including Harvey Weinstein, actor Kevin Spacey and directors Brett Ratner and James Toback.

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Baldwin didn't outright admit to any sexual harassment or assault, only sexist behaviors. And immediately after calling for change in the industry, he admitted that he knew about the reputations these men had and never did anything about it. Like so many men, he stood by, silently complicit.

"I knew of certain things that there were rumors of things happening to people, but I didn’t necessarily know the scope when you hear the hundreds and hundreds of women who are complaining about this," he said. "In all the time I’ve known Jimmy [Toback], I never had one conversation about his sex life, which is not unusual for me because I’m not sitting down with some guy and he’s saying to me, ‘Man, you should have seen what I did last night with this girl in this hotel.’ I don’t go there."

He continued, "I’d always heard Jimmy [Toback] was peculiar. I remember years ago, with [the movie] The Pick-up Artist, Jimmy had this reputation 20, 25 years ago or more of hitting on [women], going up and saying provocative things to them. I’d heard of that. But in my time with Jimmy, it was absolutely, positively business."

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The problem with Baldwin's comments is that he's clearly trying to look like the good guy by coming clean without being publicly accused of misconduct. But he's actually admitting to the complicity that has allowed this abuse of women to continue, unchecked, for as long as the entertainment industry has existed. If Baldwin really wants to see change, we need more from him than empty words.

When you're a vegetarian, any family event is awkward to say the least — and Thanksgiving might be the roughest holiday gathering of them all. Between every single relative challenging your reasons for not eating meat and the lack of food options, well, it's enough to make you just want to stay home. But don't resign yourself to nibbling celery and guzzling vegan wine in the corner just yet.

Thankfully, we've been gifted with lots of recipes that feel hearty and traditional without the meat. And these meat-free and dairy-free recipes are so awesome, even non-vegetarian guests will gobble them up.

Here are some veg alternatives to add to your menu this year.

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1. Tofurky roast with vegetables

Served with carrots and yams, this main course takes a paltry one and a half hours to cook compared with the traditional big turkey of the table. The Popsugar staff omnivores prepared, taste tested and reviewed this tofurky roast with vegetables recipe.

2. Root vegetable baked lasagna

Prepare a delicious combination of ricotta cheese, garlic, parsnips, turnips and cinnamon for a quintessentially fall meal of root vegetable baked lasagna.

3. Vegan ratatouille with tempeh

Buck tradition in taste and style with vegan ratatouille with tempeh as the main course on the menu, and your table will be the very picture of autumn with the reds, oranges, greens and yellows of all the roasted veggies of this dish.

4. Roasted red beet hummus recipe

You've had your share of chickpea-, black bean- and white bean-based hummus. Now Thanksgiving is the perfect time to give roasted red beet hummus a try.

5. Quinoa-stuffed acorn squash rings

Served with cranberries and maple syrup, these quinoa-stuffed acorn squash rings might just put your average Thanksgiving sides and regular onion rings to shame.

6. Vegetable arty tart

This vegetable arty tart can double as your Thanksgiving centerpiece.

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7. Butternut squash, kale and crunchy pepitas taco

Why not celebrate America's original feast with fall squash and kale-based tacos?

8. Mushroom and leek cornbread stuffing

Traditional stuffing, who needs it? Try this mushroom and leek cornbread stuffing recipe -- your gluten-free and vegan guests will thank you.

9. Homemade pumpkin ricotta ravioli with brown butter walnut sauce

Pumpkin can take center stage on the dinner table this year when you serve this delish homemade pumpkin ricotta ravioli with brown butter walnut sauce.

10. Olive oil and garlic green beans with crumbled blue cheese

Who says Thanksgiving sides have to be boring? Opt for healthy, gourmet and easy-to-prepare with these olive oil and garlic green beans with crumbled blue cheese.

11. Vegetarian and sausage gravy and biscuits

Now your veggie guests don't have to miss out on a classic: biscuits and gravy!

12. Pumpkin curry with chickpeas

You might not find this on any other Thanksgiving menu, but that doesn't mean your dinner guests won't love this hearty, savory, pumpkin-based dish!

13. Butternut squash chipotle chili with avocado

The colors and flavors of fall combine for this Mexican- and autumn-inspired butternut squash chipotle chili recipe.

14. Maple-apple cider tofu with stuffing and apple-cranberry chutney

Moist, mouthwatering stuffing that's vegan-friendly? What's not to like about this maple-apple cider tofu with stuffing and apple-cranberry chutney recipe?

15. Butternut squash croquettes

Cinnamon, olive oil, salt and pepper combine for the perfect sweet and savory Thanksgiving side dish.

16. Vegetarian quinoa chili

Packed with veggies and black and red kidney beans, this vegetarian and gluten-free quinoa chili recipe may be the most filling and sought-after side on your holiday dinner table.

17. Shaved Parmesan and truffle mashed potatoes

Topped with sautéed wild mushrooms? Yes, please! Never ordinary in the kitchen? Try this shaved Parmesan and truffle mashed potatoes recipe.

18. Baked apple stuffed with candied ginger and almonds

You've perfected apple pie recipes, but what about baked apple? Obviously you must try it paired with wine.

19. Vegan cranberry coffee cake

Thanksgiving is truly the holiday of the cranberry, so why not celebrate the berry by making it the star of the dessert menu with this vegan cranberry coffee cake recipe?

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20. Vegan pumpkin spice scone with vanilla bean cream cheese frosting

It's not just your guests who deserve to try these pretty scones — you do too! And yes, the cream cheese frosting is really vegan.

We know we’re deep into all things fall right now, but when a summer seaside retreat of this caliber of prior celebrity tenant opens up, it’s definitely worth checking out. Chilmark House is the 7,000-square-foot home dubbed the “2013 Summer White House” that was once rented by none other than the Obamas themselves. And it’s now up for grabs, with a $17.75 million price tag.

Situated in Martha’s Vineyard, the property does a really great job of blending the area’s signature beachy charm with more modern luxe touches. Massive floor-to-ceiling windows allow plenty of natural light to stream through, providing a view of the surrounding landscape.

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A blend of materials adds an almost eclectic feel, incorporating opulent marble in the bathrooms, concrete in the statement-making fireplaces and oak paneled floors throughout.

Per Sotheby’s, the home was designed to showcase art, which explains the skylighted hallways lined with artwork that are almost reminiscent of a gallery. But despite the design-focused intention, the house is far from sterile: It includes many areas to entertain, including a family room, dining room and outdoor seating area.

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The home has six bedrooms, five full bathrooms and two half-bathrooms, plus a fully equipped guesthouse. It sits on 9.5 acres and overlooks the ocean from atop a 120-foot vantage point.

Speaking of the ocean, this estate has panoramic views of the water as well as a private beach and private dock, making it ideal for summer activities. Not feeling a dip in the Atlantic? There’s also a heated infinity pool, a half-basketball court and a screened-in porch that let you enjoy the outdoors in different ways.

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And if all that doesn’t sell you on this oceanfront gem, maybe this will: A photo of the Obamas from 1996 comes with the house. Consider it a signing bonus.

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