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Ozzy Osbourne Claims He Was Never a Sex Addict

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Ozzy Osbourne has never been one to filter his words and, now that the cat's out of the bag about his years of infidelity, he isn't afraid to share many details that we probably all wish we didn't know.

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"I’m in a fucking rock band, aren’t I?" Osbourne said in a new interview with The Times. "There have always been groupies. I just got caught, didn’t I? It was a bump in the road. I bet your marriage has bumps in the road too and all. In any marriage, you grow apart if you don’t spend enough time together, and that was part of the problem. I don’t think I’m a fucking sex addict."

This clearly contradicts the announcement last year that Osbourne had a sex addiction problem.

Really, I don't know why we're discussing the terminology here: The man had sex. Lots of it. With women who were not, in fact, his wife. Call it whatever you want. Does he somehow think it sounds better if he calls it the rock-star lifestyle versus a sex addiction? Either way, it's not generally seen as an awesome thing.

More: In one harsh tweet, Kelly Osbourne annihilated Ozzy Osbourne's hairdresser GF

His mistress, Michelle Pugh, referred to the term "sex addiction" as a publicity tactic.

"He was my boyfriend for four years," Pugh said, according to People. "He was never a sex addict. That always read as a PR maneuver. I still love him. He treated me kindly. He has never spoken ill of me. Nor have I of him."

I think one thing we can all agree on: Osbourne is definitely his own person, which means he may change his mind about his bedroom shenanigans by tomorrow.

More: Kelly Osbourne takes defending her 3-year-old niece just a bit too far

Before you go, check out our slideshow below.

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Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban Showed So Much PDA at the SAG Awards

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There are a lot of private couples in Hollywood: Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling, Beyoncé and Jay Z, Jessica Biel and Justin Timberlake... You get it.

Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban are not one of those couples. It's so fantastic to see two celebs who are so clearly in love.

More: Nicole Kidman's return to The Tonight Showwas just unbelievably weird

They hammed it up on the red carpet at the 2016 SAG Awards tonight, laughing together...

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Nuzzling each other...

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keith urban nicole kidman sag pic 2

Touching one another...

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keith urban nicole kidman sag pic 4

And even taking some time for a little red carpet intimacy.

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keith urban nicole kidman sag pic 3

The couple also took some time to show just how supportive their relationship is.

More: Does Donald Trump have nothing better to do than tweet about Meryl Streep?

During an interview with E! News, Kidman revealed that Urban cried after watching her film Lion.

"I knew we were onto a good thing when my sister and my husband saw the film and they both came out weeping and wanting to hug me," Kidman said to Giuliana Rancic. "I thought that’s an amazing response to a film."

Urban added that Lion is a "really, really beautiful film — and I always want to stress that so much of the crying is really more about the triumph of the film and the triumph of love. That’s really what it’s about."

More: Tom Cruise, Scientologists tapped Nicole Kidman's phone

Clearly, Urban and Kidman both have an intimate understanding of the triumph of love.

Before you go, check out our slideshow below.

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Winona Ryder Was So Baffled by David Harbour's Powerful SAG Awards Speech

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Winona Ryder clearly had an emotional night at the SAG Awards because we saw every single one of her feelings play out on her face.

When Stranger Things won the SAG Award for Best Ensemble in a Drama Series, the awesomeness began.

While the kids of Stranger Things jumped around all over the place, unable to contain their excitement, Ryder was clearly shocked.

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Then the cast gathered on stage and Ryder's co-star David Harbour gave his empowered speech.

"In light of all that is going on in the world today, it is difficult to celebrate the already-celebrated Stranger Things," Habour said.

Meanwhile, Ryder was all...

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Habour continued, "But this award from you, who take your craft seriously and earnestly believe — like me — that great acting can change the world, is a call to arms from our fellow craftsmen and women to go deeper and through our art, to battle against fear, self-centeredness and the exclusivity of a predominantly narcissistic culture and through our craft to cultivate a more empathetic and understanding society by revealing intimate truths that serve as a forceful reminder to folks that when they feel broken and afraid and tired, they are not alone. We are united in that we are all human beings and we are all together on this horrible, painful, joyous, exciting and mysterious ride that is being alive."

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"Now, as we act in the continuing narrative of Stranger Things, we 1983 Midwesterners will repel bullies. We will shelter freaks and outcasts, those who have no home. We will get past the lies. We will hunt monsters. And when we are at a loss amidst the hypocrisy and casual violence of certain individuals and institutions, we will, as per Chief Jim Hopper, punch some people in the face when they seek to destroy what we have envisioned for ourselves and the marginalized. And we will do it all with soul, with heart, and with joy. We thank you for this responsibility!"

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Let's just all agree that as powerful as Harbour's speech was, I'm so glad I got to end my night with Ryder's expressions.

Before you go, check out our slideshow below.

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9 of Your Most Pressing Cat Health Questions Answered

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At PetCoach, we answer nearly 2,000 questions per week from pet parents, so we know the kinds of questions that have them scratching their heads. Here’s a list of some of the most common health concerns from cat owners.

Why does my cat vomit routinely?

I’ve often heard, “He’s a vomiter,” when cat owners describe their otherwise apparently healthy cat’s habits at his routine veterinary visit. It’s as if this is normal for cats, which is an unusual thing to assume, since most people wouldn’t consider the same thing “normal” in themselves or their human children.

Since cats groom themselves by licking, they often swallow fur, and subsequently get hairballs that they need to relieve themselves of. But actual vomiting, i.e., bringing up food or liquid from the stomach, isn’t routine, and should always be investigated. The causes of frequent vomiting in cats include food allergies and sensitivities, intestinal parasites, heartworm disease, kidney disease, inflammatory bowel disease, liver problems, and many, many other things. If regular vomiting doesn’t resolve with the addition of a hairball paste or diet, it needs to be investigated.

More: How much does it actually cost to own a cat?

Why is my cat peeing outside of the litter box?

Abnormal litter box use is the bane of cat ownership. How can your beloved fur-ball take vengeance upon your grandmother’s Persian rug? The answer isn’t always simple.

In most cases, the simple answer is that cats avoid the litter box when they associate it with pain. When they seek out other places to urinate, such as directly on top of your boyfriend’s shirt, it’s not because they’re trying to punish you for spending time with him. It’s because their tiny kitty brains are telling them that if it hurts to pee in the litter box, they should try going somewhere else.

What’s causing the pain? In cats over 7 years of age, urinary tract infections are frequently the cause, and they can have bladder stones or even bladder cancers as well. In cats under 7 years of age, the cause is most frequently a condition known as feline idiopathic cystitis, which means all of the pain and inflammation of a bladder infection is there, but there’s no infection. This can be a complex situation to manage and often requires a diet change and medications.

Why does my cat sleep all the time?

Adult cats sleep a lot under normal circumstances — by some estimates as much as 15 to 20 hours per day. If your cat is acting normal otherwise, this shouldn’t be cause for concern.

However, if your previously normal cat begins to sleep more, take note. Don’t mistake sleep for true lethargy. Lethargy can have a number of causes, including low oxygen levels due to anemia (decreased numbers of red blood cells) or heart disease and just plain not feeling well due to nausea or pain. Evaluate your cat’s well-being in a holistic fashion, noticing food and water consumption, litter box use, and interaction with family members and other pets.

Is sneezing a sign of illness in my cat?

Surely, a sneeze here and there isn’t likely a big concern. But sneezing that becomes frequent, especially when accompanied by nasal or ocular (eye) discharge, may be a sign of a respiratory problem.

Feline herpesvirus is extremely common, to the point that the majority of cats in the U.S. have it. Most of them never have problems with it after they become adults and their immune systems mature, but some cats will be affected their entire lives, especially during times of stress. Just like in people, the virus replicates when the immune system is compromised, and the results in most cats are mild respiratory signs that usually resolve in a few days. If lethargy, decreased appetite or yellow or green nasal or eye discharge are noted, a veterinary visit is warranted, since these signs likely signal the presence of a secondary bacterial infection.

More: 12 surprising (and sometimes creepy) signs your cat doesn't actually hate you

Why do my cat’s eyes seem to water all the time?

Once again, our old friend herpes is often the culprit. Herpes virus often manifests in cats that are chronically affected as watery discharge from one or both eyes. It’s usually not a big problem, but when the discharge turns cloudy or the cat begins to squint (which indicates sensitivity to light and thus, pain) it’s time to consider treatment.

Supplementation with the amino acid lysine seems to slow down the rate at which the herpesvirus can reproduce, and subsequently improves the symptoms. Lysine supplements for cats come in many forms, many of which can be bought over the counter at pet stores. Discharge that persists should always be checked out by your vet, as it can indicate a serious eye problem that can quickly worsen.

Why does my cat seem skinny all of a sudden?

While you may be trying to get your hefty kitty to slim down, you want to do it in a controlled fashion that encourages gradual weight loss over time. Rapid weight loss, especially when coupled with a normal or increased appetite, can be a sign of hyperthyroidism. Hyperthyroidism occurs when the thyroid gland kicks into overdrive and ramps up the cat’s metabolism, causing increasing nutrient consumption and ultimately weight loss.

Another important cause of weight loss, especially in previously overweight cats, is diabetes. Unlike in dogs, weight loss is a relatively late stage complication of diabetes in cats and indicates that the disease is significantly advanced. Cancer and heart disease can also cause weight loss along with other serious problems. Unexplained weight loss needs to be investigated by your vet immediately.

Why is my cat hiding out?

In the wild, cats are nocturnal animals, which means that they sleep during the day and hunt at night. Thanks to us, they don’t have to hunt anymore, but especially when they’re young, many of them retain this schedule until they start to adapt more to ours as they age.

When a previously social cat suddenly starts to avoid contact with the other animals and the humans in the family, it’s likely a sign that something is wrong. Withdrawing from social contact is a common response to feeling unwell in wild animals since the animal does not wish to appear weak to potential predators. If your cat starts to avoid you, make an appointment with your veterinarian to determine what could be causing this sudden change in behavior.

How come my cat is so itchy?

There are basically three causes of itching in cats: parasites, fungal infections and allergies. Parasites, like fleas and mites, are clearly much more common in cats that go outside, but in households with cats and dogs, fleas can hitchhike in on the dogs and jump onto the cats. Mites are less common, but can be transmitted from other cats and dogs. Ringworm is actually a fungus, and not a worm, and is common in cats and kittens recently housed in shelters or rescues.

If fleas, mites and ringworm have been ruled out, it’s likely that allergies are making your cat itchy. Allergies can be tough to treat in cats, and usually we need to use special medications that suppress the immune system and thus, the allergic response. Many cats also benefit from a change to a prescription hypoallergenic diet. Allergies typically require lifelong therapy, although some cats are affected only during specific seasons of the year.

How do I know if my cat has parasites?

Intestinal parasites in cats, especially cats that go outside, are common. Usually, the cat will show some signs of intestinal distress, such as vomiting or diarrhea. Your veterinarian can easily pick up on most intestinal parasites by checking a sample of your cat’s feces for parasite eggs. But tapeworms, which are one of the most common intestinal parasites in cats, often don’t cause a lot of symptoms, and don’t usually show up on fecal tests.

Tapeworms are almost always transmitted to cats when they are bitten by fleas, but they can also get tapeworms from eating rodents. Owners are often disgusted to actually see the tapeworm “segments” crawling around on their cat’s rear end, where they quickly die outside of their preferred environment (the cat’s intestines). If your cat has tapeworms, you’ll want to be sure to not only treat the tapeworm infestation with appropriate deworming treatments prescribed by your veterinarian, but also treat your cat for fleas every month, to prevent another infestation.

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These Are the Arguments I Imagine Ina and Jeffrey Garten Have Off-Camera

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Ina and Jeffrey Garten have shared a 48-year love affair that has spanned the world and captured the imaginations of millions of foodies and cooks across the country. The strength of their relationship would be utterly disgusting if it weren't so wonderful: They both support each other’s highest ambitions, they both respect each other’s time and space and they both lean into each other in the most freaking adorable way in all of their pictures.

Last fall, Ina released her 10th and latest book, Cooking for Jeffrey, which basically solidified what we’ve all been thinking: They are truly in love, and Ina makes the meanest brisket in the land. But I have to wonder: Do they fight like all other couples do? They can’t be totally perfect. Maybe their fights look a little something like this.

The Paris Camping Stove

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Jeffrey: Do you remember when we traveled through France in the early 1970s, living in a tent and spending all of our money on fresh food from exotic city markets, which you would transform into delectable, authentic dishes on a tiny camping stove?

Ina: Yes, those were such wonderful days, spent just loving each other in the clear, warm light of the Paris spring.

Jeffrey: I remember once you made an amazing boeuf bourguignon with the most tender cuts of filet, fresh spring carrots, delicate pearl onions and wild mushrooms, which you picked from the mossy floor of the nearby forest — all served atop a fresh sourdough baguette.

Ina: The baguette wasn’t sourdough.

Jeffrey: I can taste it like it was yesterday. It was crusty, thinly sliced sourdough.

Ina: I think I can remember the kind of bread I ate in a tent in Paris with my soul mate 45 years ago, Jeffrey.

Jeffrey: I might sleep on the couch tonight.

Ina: That sounds like a simple, elegant solution.

More: 12 seasons of Food Network Star winners — Where are they now?

Store-Bought

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Jeffrey: This item on the grocery list you gave me says that I should plant some thyme, nurture it lovingly throughout the spring months and then pluck the most tender and aromatic leaves from its stem for the soup you’re making tonight.

Ina: Was that a question?

Jeffrey: Well, do you mind if I just got store-bought? It’s $3.99 for thyme sprigs.

Ina: Fine. Store-bought is fine.

Jeffrey: Do you mind very much if, instead of placing three five-pound chickens in a 20-quart pot with a bouquet garni of fresh herbs in order to make homemade chicken stock, that maybe I just got... store-bought? Since I am at the store?

Ina: You can purchase store-bought chicken stock if you want. Just never come home with it.

Ina: I hope you and your cans of chicken stock are happy.

More: Why all the hate against Food Network Star's Giada De Laurentiis?

A Casual Lunch

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Jeffrey: Do you want to grab lunch with me today?

Ina: Sorry, dear. I am having a causal lunch with five of my closest, most attractive gay friends from around East Hampton. Nothing special, just roasted salmon Niçoise, my fun, modern spin on borscht and double coconut cupcakes.

Jeffrey: That sounds a bit more than a casual lunch.

Ina: Don’t be ridiculous. The table setting is extremely casual, featuring handfuls of sand dollars, breezy linen napkins and a simple, improvised centerpiece of entangled branches of beach wood.

Jeffrey: I feel like when we have a casual lunch, we just eat sandwiches over the sink.

Ina: Don’t be like this.

Jeffrey: Maybe you shouldn’t be like you’re being.

Ina: This is terrible. I hate this. I am sorry. You’re right. It’s really pushing out of the casual lunch category.

Jeffrey: It’s OK. I was just feeling a little jealous of your dozens of close-knit friendships with young, attractive men.

Ina: Can I roast you the most perfectly roasted chicken?

Jeffrey: Only if we can eat it over the sink, my forever love.

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Who Loves Who More?

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Ina: I love you more.

Jeffrey: No, I love you more.

Ina: Don’t freaking start with me, Jeffrey.

Jeffrey: Empirically speaking, I love you more.

Ina: I said don’t start. It’s obvious to everyone that I love you more. I make you souffles you don’t even ask for. The end.

Jeffrey: But I love you more. I always love eating your souffles.

Ina: I am really, really upset over this.

Jeffrey: Me too.

Ina and Jeffrey: I want a divorce.

Ina and Jeffrey: Jinx!

Ina and Jeffrey: I love you more.

Ina and Jeffrey: Jinx again!

Before you go, check out our slideshow below.

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No Excuses: If Gigi and Bella Hadid Are Protesting the Immigration Ban, You Can Too

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The last Sunday of January 2017 was an intensely political one in the United States of America. While a great quantity of celebrities took time during the SAG Awards to voice their political concerns over recent immigration bans implemented by President Trump and his administration, other celebs were taking to the streets to voice their concerns over yet another problematic decree.

This time it was Gigi and Bella Hadid, who marched against the immigration ban, which was specifically aimed at a handful of Muslim countries and their citizens. The sisters- and models-in-arms proved that there are no excuses when it comes to voicing concern and that these political issues affect literally everyone, no matter how famous they may be.

More: 13 Times Celebs Condemned Donald Trump & His Muslim Ban Policy at the 2017 SAG Awards

There's no time for eye rolling: The Hadid's meant business on Sunday night. The sisters took to the streets of New York City on Sunday night to march with other protesters against the proposed immigration ban that was recently issued. Both young women appeared to be nothing less than fired the heck up. They appeared vivacious, loud and proud. They were marching in solidarity for a good cause, and sending the message that yes, even supermodels have political leanings. Basically, don't mess with the Hadids.

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Gigi Protest Sign

The New York City protests began earlier in the weekend but continued late into the evening on Sunday night. Both Gigi and Bella Hadid took the opportunity to make their voices heard, at one point holding a sign that said, "We are all Hindus, Buddhists, Muslims, Atheists, Christians, and Jews," and the words were aligned in such a way to spell "Humans" vertically.

More: No one wants to see their ex move on quickly, & Bella Hadid's no different

It's not difficult to understand why these young women would be protesting the immigration ban; it hits very close to home for them. Gigi Hadid is currently dating Zayn Malik, who is an English Muslim. Unfortunately, Malik has faced anti-Muslim discrimination in the past. While he is from the U.K., and thus not immediately affected by the immigration ban, his religious affiliations imply he could come under scrutiny.

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Bella Protest Sign

Additionally, both Gigi and Bella Hadid (along with their brother, Anwar Hadid) are the children of two immigrants: Mohamed and Yolanda Hadid. Mohamed Hadid is a Jordanian-American of Palestinian origin, while Yolanda Hadid is Dutch-American. This immigration ban, it could be concluded, is deeply important in the eyes of the Hadid sisters in that they feel compelled to protest its existence. But more than that, it is heartening to see that they are getting vocal about their dislike of the ban, stepping away from social media and turning their feelings into actions.

More: Zayn Malik and Gigi Hadid have big, really big, plans for their future

So guys, I think it's fair to say that if the celebs you like are taking to the microphone and the streets to voice their concerns over recent problematic political issues, you can too. Even Kim Kardashian tweeted about the immigration ban. These issues are no longer off-limits to celebrities (although they never were) and thus, they are not off-limits to us.

Yes, Your Partner Can Go Down on You During Your Period — and It Can Help with Cramps

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In all honesty, periods can suck. Between the bloating, the cramps and the money shelled out for tampons, there’s not much to love about bleeding a few days out of the month, but one thing that can make them just a little bit awesome? Cunnilingus!

It may be foreign territory in your bedroom, but oral sex during menstruation is just as natural as it is any other time of the month. (FYI, all safe, sane, consensual sex is natural!) If you’re feeling a little shy about muff-diving in the red sea, this is for you.

More: 6 Oral Sex Techniques That Deserve Some Kind of Medal

What are some things you need to know and some tricks to make the most out of oral sex during periods?

1. Hormones can work with you or against you

Since we go through waves of hormones all month long, our temperaments and libidos regularly shift. While some may find they have lowered sex drive while bleeding, a lot of people end up with heightened arousal, often due to reduced estrogen and something called "pelvic congestion.”

Whether the excess pressure and water retention allow the body to feel more engorged and aroused or we simply crave an orgasm to cure cramps, a lot of people find sex during menstruation to be especially satisfying. That said, some folks might be a little extra sensitive to the point of needing extra-gentle stimulation, especially internally.

If your partner is bleeding, it's important to find out if they enjoy penetration or prefer external-only stimulation during this time. For folks who do enjoy a side of penetration with their cunnilingus, fingers or a well-made toy can work wonders. To make cleanup as easy as possible, use barriers like condoms and gloves, and throw down a dark towel beforehand. Speaking of avoiding messes…

More: 6 Oral Sex Techniques for Women Who Feel Awkward Receiving It

2. Use a menstrual cup to put a dam in the crimson tide

Some people may not be willing to mix blood with their pleasure. While there's absolutely nothing gross about sex or periods, it's OK to have preferences! For those who'd rather avoid sheet stains, try using a menstrual cup. These neat little easy-to-use cups catch the blood and keep it inside for up to 12 hours. Insertion requires a little technique, but they save money in the long run, and they're totally sanitary.

Using a menstrual cup frees up all of the delightful real estate known as the vulva for pearl-polishing pleasure. Resting just the pad of the thumb against the entrance of the vagina won't interfere with the menstrual cup (if there is one), but it will provide a whole new world of sensation for the receiver. As things get more heated, try sliding the thumb up and down gently, just a few centimeters, to add even more excitement.

3. Extra reassurance might be required

As mentioned above, some people get a little uncomfortable at the idea of sex during menstruation. Whether this is due to social conditioning, mess or something like a change in the way we smell, we might need a little bit of reassurance to relax into fully enjoying ourselves.

Before you go down on them, mention how you can't wait to have your mouth on their body. Communicating your intention provides an opportunity for them to express any embarrassment or to let you know that actually, they really do need to step into the bathroom first. Allowing space to prepare (or decline, which is also OK!) will do wonders for their comfort and confidence.

More: The Truth About Using Condoms During Oral Sex

Once you have permission, make use of one of the best sex toys in your toolkit: communication. Tell them how hot it is to feel them get turned on or how excited you’re getting from eating them out. Knowing a partner is enjoying what they’re doing is seriously reassuring, not to mention steamy as hell.

Periods come and go, but good sex — and solid communication — are forever.

5 (More!) Uses for Birth Control That Have Nothing to Do with Sex

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I’m a firm believer that the phrase “Me too!” holds powerful bonding potential between women.

When I first started writing for HelloFlo, I wrote about uses for birth control that weren’t related to preventing pregnancy. Having started the pill for ovarian cysts myself, I thought this topic was a great way to get people thinking about oral contraceptives.

And with hundreds of subsequent comments on Facebook and dozens of “Me toos,” it was clear that birth control had transcended its namesake.

More: We're One Step Closer to Getting Birth Control Pills without a Prescription

At first, I felt a bit shy about my tiny pack of blue pills. I thought people who knew about it assumed things about my personal life without a second thought about my health. As I offered up the info about my gnarly cysts, I felt empowered to have educated someone on an extra use of the pill.

Nowadays, I’m all for talking about birth control and a few other female issues I have direct experience with. Aside from the warmth of that "Me too," I think sharing testimonies gives women a stronger voice in the media — and in the medical community.

The first article I wrote covered five common uses of birth control, citing conditions such as endometriosis and acne. But I think there’s still a lot more to be said for taking the pill, and it was the HelloFlo community that said it best.

1. Low hemoglobin/iron deficiency

Some women experience iron absorption abnormalities, as well as inherited iron diseases that affect hemoglobin levels. Besides these, heavy periods (menorrhagia) and regular menstruation can amplify symptoms and cause anemia.

Add conditions such as endometriosis or fibroids to the mix, and heavy bleeding is even more of a concerning factor. For premenopausal women, menstruation is a primary cause of blood loss. But taking a hormonal birth control can slow heavy bleeding, regulate abnormally long periods or stop menstruation altogether.

More: The Birth Control Method That Just Might Save Your Life

2. Amenorrhea

Sometimes women experience the flip side of heavy bleeding, called amenorrhea. Though this seems like a gift in disguise — even with the word “amen” in its name — a lack of menstruation isn’t necessarily a good thing. In fact, estrogen is essential for healthy, strong bones.

Aside from pregnancy, common causes of amenorrhea include reproductive organ issues, inconsistencies within the glands that regulate hormones, eating disorders and excessive exercise and genetic defects. When it’s a case related to hormones (secondary amenorrhea), birth control can help kick-start the menstrual cycle.

3. Controlling hair

According to the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, birth control pills can help control hair growth on a woman’s body. Male hormones called androgens are responsible for tiny chest hairs and happy trails, but oral contraceptives can reduce androgens produced by the ovaries.

Women do produce androgens too, yet some women are extra sensitive to them. It’s even possible to experience “male-pattern hair loss” though symptoms like upper lip hair also appear. Birth control can help regulate this hormonal imbalance, particularly if it’s a low-androgen formula.

4. Migraines

Lately, there’s been even more of a push for public acceptance and acknowledgment of migraines — for good reason. The Mayo Clinic says progesterone and estrogen “play key roles in regulating the menstrual cycle… and may also affect headache-related chemicals in the brain.” Estrogen levels that fluctuate can make headaches even worse, especially right before your period.

Since every woman is different, using hormonal contraceptives to switch up estrogen patterns — and potentially disrupt hormonal migraines — isn’t a guaranteed migraine solution. But when your temples pound and your eyes feel like they may pop out, minimizing that drop in estrogen is worth a try. Especially since 60 percent of women attribute menstruation to the onset of their migraines.

More: What Birth Control Is Right For You?

5. Money (yes, money!)

After combing the comments, this reason to take birth control was one of the most surprising — but also made total sense.

Science says there’s no reason to have a monthly period if you aren’t trying to have children. So why pay for Midol and tampons and all the other doodads it takes to prepare for and endure menstruation? That’s easily a few hundred bucks a year you could spend on way less painful things.

The list could — and has — gone on. Whether you’re taking the pill for one of the original reasons I mentioned, one of the above or to prevent pregnancy, more power to you. Just know that baby-making isn’t the only reason your daughter, sister or BFF could enlist help from a trusty pack of blue pills.

By Kaysie Garza

Originally published on HelloFlo.


Are There Really Any Benefits to Ear Candling?

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You've probably heard crazy stories about people holding burning candles in their ear to clean out wax —and if you have ear problems, you might have even considered giving it a try. Hell, you're here right now, so obviously your interest is piqued. Ear candling (also referred to as coning) has been around for ages, so there must be benefits, right?

It's safe to say that ear candling is a polarizing subject — some sing its praises, while others offer harsh warnings to stay far, far away. We investigated a little to get the real low-down on coning.

So what the heck is it?

In short, it is an alternative medicine technique which uses a burning candle in hopes to remove earwax and debris from your inner ear.

More: 5 ways to ensure your holistic medicine isn’t actually hurting you

The process starts when a practitioner inserts a lit, cone-shaped candle (made of muslin and dipped in paraffin) into the ear canal. As the candle burns, warm smoke fills your ear, which supposedly loosens wax and other debris. It's said that a vacuum-effect sucks the wax into the cone, which is then removed from your ear.

"The candling therapy is actually a cleaning of the eustachian tubes. As the cone burns, the burnt beeswax forms a slightly tacky powdery smoke is pushed into the tube, the sticky particles adhere to toxins and incoming smoke causes them to return to the cone to be collected, as the blocked tube is in itself a closed channel," claims the website of Cura Salon & Spa in Sparta, Wisconsin. "The heat from the paraffin cones does stimulate the acupressure points, which is a good thing."

According to patient.info, the eustachian tubes (shown in yellow in the picture below) are actually the narrow tubes that connects the space behind the eardrum (the middle ear) with the back of the nose — so if all the claims are true, ear candling is really getting all up in your business.

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eustachian tubes

The practice has been around thousands of years and was believed to be used as a hygiene practice by the ancient Egyptians, but today you can have it done in holistic spas for about $35 to $50.

The pros

Many practitioners believe ear candling detoxifies the lymphatic system and clears the sinuses, which in turn improves the clarity of hearing, sight, smell and taste. There's also claims that coning can relieve swimmer's ear, alleviate pain, ease discomfort associated with allergies, reduce stress, and equalize pressure in the ear.

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Some practitioners believe even more powerful effects can occur, such as subtle changes in energy that result in greater emotional stability and an overall sense of well-being. Doesn't sound like a bad deal, right?

The cons

If you ask anyone that practices western medicine how they feel about ear candling, they'll probably tell you it's a huge waste of time. Apparently, there are solid barriers (like an eardrum) that would stop the smoke from cleaning out the pathways deep in your ear and prevent it from getting into eustachian tubes, according to WebMD.

Also, earwax, especially when impacted, is sticky and would require strong suction to pull it out — and WebMD points to an uncited study that found there was no suction force whatsoever during a candling procedure. On top of that, temperatures produced by the candle were below body temperature, far too low to melt the wax.

Some practitioners will take out the candle after ear candling and show you all the wax and funk on the end (um, ew — but probably oddly satisfying), however a doctor will most likely tell you not to believe the hype. Studies have revealed that the contents that show up on the end of the candle are usually a blend of burned candle wax and fabric.

Not only that, doctors believe the practice can actually do damage.

"The claimed benefits of ear candling are based on dangerous, illogical and incorrect assumptions. Ear candling is in fact a dangerous, ill-conceived and potentially disfiguring protocol, with no foundation in science." said Dr. Beck, audiologist and Editor-In Chief of www.healthyhearing.com and www.audiologyonline.com, via Audiology Online. "Candling demonstrates ignorance regarding the basic laws of physics and blatant disregard for anatomy and physiology."

So what's dangerous about it? According to the Mayo Clinic ear candling comes with the following hazards:

  • Deposits of candle wax in the ear canal
  • Burns to the face, hair, scalp, ear canal, eardrum and middle ear
  • Puncture of the eardrum

And then there's this anecdote from Audiology Online: "In 2000, a woman in Toronto paid a 'candler' $25 for a session of ear candling. During the session, hot wax from the candle ran down her ear canal and adhered to her eardrum. The woman reported it ultimately took four months to remove the wax entirely from her ear canal. She now lives with permanent ringing in the ears."

Um, yeah. No thanks.

The verdict

So should you try ear candling? Holistic treatments don't always get the greenlight from western medicine, but that doesn't mean they're totally bunk. If you're suffering from ear trouble, it might be worth the $50 bucks to give ear candling a try.

But just say "no" to home practice. If injuries can occur in a facility that regularly practices ear candling, we can only imagine the horror stories that come from trying this out at home. Find a reputable, high-end facility with great reviews before you give coning a whirl. Just keep in mind that you might be disappointed.

And if you don't want to try it, the Mayo Clinic suggests you consult your doctor about simple steps you can take to safely and effectively remove ear wax.

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30 Yoga poses you don't need an expensive studio to teach you

Originally published May 2008. Updated January 2017.

Selena Gomez Can't Decide If She's Instagram Official With The Weeknd

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New relationships can be hard. Navigating all the rules when it comes to making your relationship Facebook/Insta/Snapchat official can be especially tough — just ask Selena Gomez.

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It's no secret that Gomez and The Weeknd are a thing. There's only, like, a million photos of them all over the internet, cementing in history that time they made out all over each other on a sidewalk. We know they're dating or hooking up or whatever the kids are calling it these days, so why is Gomez still treating it like some big secret?

While she and The Weeknd are off in Italy on some big romantic getaway (because they're totally together and the whole world already knows that), Gomez briefly made their relationship Insta-official by posting a video of The Weeknd captioned with a heart eyes emoji, but then, a few hours later, deleted it with no explanation why. Did The Weeknd not like the video she took? Is she trying to smooth things over with Bella Hadid after very publicly hooking up with her ex-boyfriend? Were her fans pissed off that she's dating someone who isn't Justin Bieber like they get every time she dates anyone who's not Justin Bieber? Did they break up already mid-vacay? Because girl, I've been there and deleting an Instagram post is a much more measured reaction than I had.

It's probably safe to assume they haven't already called things off because their social media is still full of glamorous shots of their Italian getaway — just without any pics of each other. Power to them if that's how they want to play things. Really, though, do they think they're fooling anyone?

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Before you go, check out our slideshow below.

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Why People Are Deactivating Their Uber Accounts

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If you’re anything like us, each morning you whimper as you click on the first terrifying headline of the day. The world appears to be going to hell in a flaming handbasket, which means you’d better figure out alternative transport, stat. That handbasket is not going to fit all of us, OK?

Ride-sharing to hell is the coolest way to go as our democracy crumbles. You should at least get comfy and make some informed decisions since the end is nigh and there are only so many Priuses out there. So, are you an Uber-to-hell kind of a person or a Lyft-leaning soul?

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Well. Uber’s been... problematic. The company has been discriminatory to people of color and has been in the news for its rather concerning treatment of employees. Plus, there’s that lovely practice of surveying riders to figure out just how much cash they can get out of you. But it’s what they were up to this weekend that once again has Uber on many people's do-not-ride lists.

Customers’ anger with the popular ride-share company spiked over the weekend when Uber made the really, really bad gaffe of lowering its prices (turning off “surge pricing”) at JFK Airport. The company tweeted:

Uber tweet

Uber tweet

What’s wrong with that, you may ask? Lower prices! Getting a ride out of JFK is usually a pain in the ass!

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Not so fast, there. Context, context, friends. About 30 minutes before Uber dropped its prices, the New York City Taxi Workers Alliance had announced a one-hour work stop at JFK. The taxi drivers were expressing their solidarity with the massive numbers of protesters at airports across the country.

(If you’re Sleeping Beauty and missed all of this, numerous travelers found themselves trapped at checkpoints in airports by Trump’s latest executive order targeting people (even those with U.S. visas or green cards) from countries on his carefully curated — ha! — no-no list.) 

The official NYTW Alliance statement on Facebook reads, in part, “Drivers stand in solidarity with refugees coming to America in search of peace and safety and with those who are simply trying to return to their homes here in America after traveling abroad…We stand in solidarity with all of our peace-loving neighbors against this inhumane, cruel and unconstitutional act of pure bigotry."

We’re not about to disagree. And needless to say, nobody loves a scab. So Uber’s move to dive right into JFK, open for bottom-dollar biz, was about as scabby as your legs after a week at Grandma Ellie’s in Maine in August. (That’s a mosquito reference. Just go with it.)

Many who saw Uber’s tweet about surge pricing were outraged and felt Uber was breaking a strike, undermining the NYTWA’s protest against the disturbing executive order, and profiting off the strike. Aaaaand that’s when people took to Twitter with the hashtag #DeleteUber. Because don’t you dare, and especially don’t you dare in New York: 

#deleteuber #1

#deleteuber #1

deleteuber #2

deleteuber #2


So if, say, you'd rather not spend your hard-earned transportation budget on Uber rides anymore — and, say, you want to send a message to Uber that their actions have not gone unnoticed — it's not enough to simply delete the app: you should deactivate your account. Just FYI.

In case you're looking for some inspiration for what reasons to give about why you'll be using Lyft taking the bus crawling across broken glass walking instead, here's our favorite so far:

Insta uber

Insta uber

Mariah Carey Takes Jab at James Packer in Her New Song

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We all have to go through bad breakups. But some of us are better than others at getting back at our shitty exes, like Mariah Carey, who not only rebounded with her super-hot backup dancer, but is also already releasing a song inspired by her breakup with Australian billionaire James Packer.

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On Sunday's episode of Mariah's World, we get a sneak peek of Carey's new ballad, which is pretty much a fuck you letter to Packer in song form.

"Ever since the tour wrapped I took some time just to process my feelings and I started writing a song to express what I’ve been going through," she explained, going on to throw the subtlest of shade, adding, "And if you’re not getting the love that you need from someone that you’re supposed to be in a real relationship with, then why remain in that situation?"

As the song puts it, "'Cause when you love someone, you just don’t treat them bad, you messed up all we had. Probably think I’m coming back, but I don’t, I don’t."

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Carey is obviously pretty excited about the new song (or she just wants to make damn sure it ends up in Packer's ears), so she teased in on Instagram too.

Mariah Carey teases her new James Packer breakup song 2

Mariah Carey teases her new James Packer breakup song 2

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Mariah Carey teases her new James Packer breakup song 1

Meanwhile, Carey is still dating Bryan Tanaka, her backup dancer who, though he may not be a billionaire, is way hotter than Packer. That's how you win a breakup.

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Before you go, check out our slideshow below.

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Rural Drug Use Contributes to Rise in Early Deaths for White & Native Americans

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Increasing numbers of white and Native Americans are dying prematurely, a new study reports, with drug overdose and suicide being primary causes of the jump.

According to the study published last week in The Lancet, mortality for white, Native American and Alaskan Native people ages 25 to 30 went from 2 percent in 1999 to 5 percent in 2014.

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Meredith Shiels, an investigator with the National Cancer Institute's Division of Cancer Epidemiology and Genetics and lead author of the study said that she was most surprised by the extent of the increase.

"The last time we saw increases like this was during the AIDS epidemic in the '80s and '90s," Shiels added.

Accidental deaths, which include drug overdoses, increased across all 50 states for women and in 48 states for men, with West Virginia having the highest rate of premature death.

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Dave Thomas, a program official in the National Institute on Drug Abuse’s Division of Epidemiology Services and Prevention Research and a co-author of the study pointed to prescription and opioid overdoses as the main reason behind the increase in untimely deaths, noting that opioid abuse predominantly affects white people in rural areas.

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The good news is that other minority groups — including black, Asian and Hispanic people — have seen a decrease in deaths among 25- to 64-year-olds thanks to advancements in the treatment and detection of cancer, HIV and heart disease. The decline was especially pronounced among black people who saw a decrease of premature deaths of up to 3.9 percent in certain age groups.

Chrissy Teigen, Who Is Not Pregnant, Is Having a Boy

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Being a celebrity is the coolest, probably. Being Chrissy Teigen? A billion times cooler than that. Not only do you get to decide whether you want to borrow a neck load of Harry Winston or Neil Lane diamonds for your red carpet outing, you get to pick the sex of your baby in one easy step. Just make a wish and tell Fairy Godmother Giuliana Rancic at the SAG Awards. Presto. It’s a boy!

OK, so maybe it’s a little more complicated than that. You have to science and stuff to seal the deal. But Chrissy Teigen makes it all sound like a piece of cake.

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No, Teigen’s not pregnant yet. Don’t you go spreading any rumors. She and husband John Legend are perfectly happy with crazy-cute baby Luna. Teigen is just planning ahead, so cool your jets. Teigen and Legend were interviewed by a glittery Giuliana Rancic from E! while at yesterday’s SAG Awards, where Teigen was more than happy to tell Rancic (and thus, the world), “Oh my God, a little boy is next for sure!”

Teigen, who’s spoken openly about her infertility struggles, told People she had the option of choosing a female embryo when she and Legend decided to undergo in vitro fertilization. And they did (hello, Luna schmoopie!). Now, screening for the sex of the baby can add a few thousand dollars on top of the expense of your boring, run-of-the-mill genetically miraculous basic IVF, which averages $12,000. Sooooooo… you know. Not really an option for most of us, but have at it, Teigen-Legends.

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We’re wondering what else the magic IVF genetic screeners can do. We’re pretty sure you can pay extra to guarantee an adorable piano prodigy or R&B crooner embryo. And since Teigen’s not shy about telling everyone she wants “another baby sooner rather than later,” we’re thinking we won’t have to wait too long to find out just what the next Teigen-Legend creation will be like. (Instagram is already preparing a 2-by-2-inch nursery square for the new arrival.)

Brad Pitt Wants All of Angelina Jolie's Stuff Gone — Unless It's 'Tasteful Vintage'

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Brad Pitt is finally starting his breakup purge — sources say he's getting all of Angelina Jolie's stuff out of the house his five houses, so it's gonna take a while.

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Except he's not tossing everythingRadar Online reports that he's hanging onto anything that's "tasteful vintage" and can add to his personal collection of antiques.

"Brad doesn't need all of Angelina's stuff — things like rugs from the Far East, weird ornaments and blankets — and various pieces of furniture which they bought as a couple," a source told the site. "He's keeping the antiques, watches and tasteful vintage items Angelina bought for him, but downsizing on a lot of things that has accumulated over time."

That means he's stripping all the houses of furniture, photos and souvenirs that Jolie has collected from her travels all over the world. Who knows where it's even going, because Jolie's Malibu rental probably doesn't have room for five houses worth of her stuff.

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Meanwhile, a source tells Radar that Pitt is using all the empty space in the complex to stock up on toys and entertainment for the six kids he shares with Jolie — 15-year-old Maddox, 13-year-old Pax, 13-year-old Zahara, 10-year-old Shiloh and 8-year-old twins Knox and Vivienne. After the beginning of a messy custody battle, Pitt is clearly working overtime to win over the kids, who are living primarily with Jolie.

"Brad wants to make a house of fun. The trampolines are just the start of it," a source told Radar. "He's also ripping down the house at the back to make it into a children's playground. They've been wondering what to do with it for years, he bought it 18 years ago, and it's not been touched since. Makes sense to have this as the kids' hideaway."

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Before you go, check out our slideshow below.

Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt through the years
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VPR's Stassi Schroeder Defends Brittany's Mom Against Homophobia Rumors

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Everyone who actually watches Vanderpump Rules is rolling their eyes hard enough to pull a muscle right now, because these rumors about Brittany Cartwright's mom being homophobic are just ridiculous.

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On last week's episode, we were all treated to seeing Sherri Cartwright on the show since she was in town visiting Brittany, and we should all be able to agree that the woman is an absolute delight. She knows how to put Jax Taylor in his place, which is fantastic because he needs it all the damn time. And she can hang with Lisa Vanderpump and all the other ladies from the show with no problem despite being from a farm in Kentucky, which is more than a far cry from the lives they all live in LA. LEAVE SHERRI ALONE.

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During the episode, Tom Sandoval was roasting his buddy Jax, who has been dating Brittany for quite a while. And during the roast, he brought up those old rumors that Jax had a gay affair in Miami. After the group gave Jax some shit for the rumors (which I fully believe are true, for the record), Sherri mentioned that she was offended by the rumor and she wanted to talk to Jax about it when they got home.

Apparently, that part of the show received some (ahem) manipulative editing, because social media is going after Sherri for being homophobic, and the cast of the show is rushing to her defense. And obviously, because anyone with eyes can see that she's sweet and progressive and just a shining light of a person.

Stassi Schroeder defends Sherri Cartwright

Stassi Schroeder defends Sherri Cartwright

Apparently, the discussion (insert air-quotes here) between Sherri and Jax is going to continue on tonight's episode. I don't know about y'all, but I'm going to start tweeting my support for Mama Cartwright now.

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Before you go, check out our slideshow below.

Vanderpump Rules one-liners slideshow
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Your Vibe Attracts Your Tribe: Where to Find Mom Friends

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As an expectant mom, I was new to Los Angeles and I didn’t know many people. The few friends I had were nowhere near having kids, and my old friends, scattered around the country, weren’t either. At 30, I was basically a teen mom in my circle.

In the four years since then, I’ve built up a great group of friends with kids the same age as mine. As a stay-at-home mom, I really consider other parents my co-workers. We meet up during the week, commiserate, share advice and generally have fun together. My friends are fun, smart, helpful and most important, offer the kind of support you can only get from other mothers. Where can you find these unicorn moms, you ask? Allow me to lay it out for you.

Mom groups

When I was a friendless preggo with zero mom experience, a friend from NYC introduced me to her friend Lisa, who lives in my neighborhood. Lisa suggested joining the local branch of MOMS Club, a national organization created to provide support for mothers. I was hesitant. Would it be Stepford-wifey? Would it be sorority-ish? I didn’t know if I’d find my crowd within a pre-planned group; I’ve never been one for organized friendships.

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I joined anyway. I was going to stay home with my baby girl, so I’d at least need the playgroup. As it turned out, joining was a great move. I met some cool women who became very good friends: Maritza, for example, who stayed with my daughter when I was in labor with my son. Or Poukhan, who co-writes a blog with me.

Danielle Murphy, who is in an online moms group with me, joined a MOPS group, which led her to an awesome Meetup group for moms of preschoolers. “I've met some awesome mamas I totally clicked with,” she says. Look up local groups in your area or ask parents for suggestions! Generally, the fees are minimal ($20/year for MOMS Club) so there’s little risk.

Coffee shops

When I was just a wee new mama, I lived a few blocks from a place called Café de Leche — which, it turned out, was somewhat of a mom meat market. I met my friend Liz there when our toddlers were enjoying the play area together. Alana Vormehr and Kate Trumbull also met there, and now we all go camping with our families. Thanks, Café de Leche!

Alana says they started chatting at Café de Leche while their sons played. “Kate and I bonded over the fact that we wanted to teach our toddlers sign language and take swim lessons, but were too lazy,” she recalls. “We decided we should be proactive and do swim lessons together, so I got her number and the rest is history.” 

Inspired? Figure out which coffee shop in your neighborhood attracts parents. If they have a play space and caffeine, you’re in the right spot.

The gym

Meeting moms at the gym child care center is a solid bet, although since I rarely go to the gym, this hasn’t been my venue of choice. Kallie Rogers, who is in an online mom group with me, says this method worked for her. “I take a lot of the classes at the gym and tons of moms are dropping off their kids in the gym day care and then taking classes,” she explains. “You just kinda start talking to people. I met one of my best friends like this.” If being healthy isn’t a motivation, maybe your lack of social life will get you into the gym. Two birds, one stone, ladies!

Classes

Baby classes are probably the easiest place to meet other moms. My daughter and I attended a music class, where I made lasting friends like Ann and Ted, whose twins now go to school with my daughter. Ice breaks quickly when you’re singing ridiculous songs in unison to infants. My former neighbor Lindsey met Alex, Katie, Robynn and Ansook at a My Gym class with their baby sons, and we all now enjoy an annual holiday party at Katie’s and go out for drinks whenever we get the chance.

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Even before the baby is born, a class can be a great way to find kindred spirits. “I ran into a friend's girlfriend in a prenatal yoga class,” says Eva Ingvarson Cerise, who is in a Facebook group with me. “We didn't know each other well before we got pregnant, but became closer from the shared experience.” 

Preschool

Hanging out at pickup, you might naturally chat with other parents. If you’re as talkative as I am, other moms will be forced to interact with you! Eventually, you’ll figure out whom you click with.

Rachel, Kristen and I had our little ones in school for the first time together, so between spying on the kiddos through the classroom window and sharing schedule information, we got to know each other. I admired Rachel’s vintage outfits, and we started chatting about how much we love flea markets. We ended up going shopping together. Kristen and I both had baby boys in Ergos when we arrived to pick up our girls: a natural starting point for conversation.

The internet

Facebook groups have been such a huge support for me as a mother. It’s weird (for me) to have virtual mom friends, but also amazing. I highly recommend finding at least one of these by searching on Facebook for a local mom’s group.

Anne Walls Gordon, who’s in my online group, says she’s part of a Facebook group that started up in her neighborhood. “It was magic and I have a ton of good friends from it now. Yay technology!” Virtual mom friend Sam Bangs also attests to the power of social media. “There's a couple local moms Facebook groups that I joined for the sole purpose of seeking mom dates,” she says. “I also made a really great friend using the Bumble BFF app!” Yes, there’s an app for that.

The park

A classic (platonic) pickup spot for parents, the park won't let you down. Before I had kids, I used to make friends at the dog park and that was probably weirder than picking up friends at the kid park.

If chatting up strangers isn’t your thing, just wait for your child to interact. Maybe there’s a kid close to your kid’s age. You can throw out the benign “how old is she/he?” to get the ball rolling. You can also ask about specific gear or clothing. “How do you like that stroller?” Or maybe, “Where did you get her dress?” I find that most parents are more than happy to talk. It’s like a weird unspoken agreement that moms are open to other moms. And if the other mom isn't open, well then — she's not your person. Move along.

Now what?

Now that you’ve zeroed in on your target — I mean, cool-seeming mom — what do you do? “Honestly,” says my friend Janelle Randazza, “if I see a mom who seems cool or someone who looks nice and has a kid that my son gets along with, I just flat out ask them for their number. I was the same way when I dated.” The direct approach works, folks. “I feel like moms are almost always looking for an opening to connect — particularly if you have some idea of fun things to do with kids.”

Another pal, Jennifer Lacques, agrees: “I just barged right into a conversation at the park this morning.”

But if the idea of jumping into a conversation with unfamiliar people makes you break into a cold sweat, just remember, the other mom probably wants friendship — or at least adult interaction — as much as you do. We’re all going through this crazy experience called motherhood, and we could all use support. Fight through the initial awkwardness and it’ll get easier over time to approach people and initiate friendships. Ultimately, the support of other mothers is so worth it. Hopefully, you’ll wind up with great friends who don’t mind if your house is a mess or you forgot to bring a diaper (again). Friends you can vent to about your defiant preschooler or ask for tips on clearing up diaper rash. Your own tribe of like-minded mamas.

Next thing you know, you’ll be posting #SquadGoals on Instagram. And isn’t that what parenting is all about?

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Who Kidnapped Ed Sheeran's Sweet Ginger Charm & What Did They Do With It?

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We really need to talk about Ed Sheeran, you guys.

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Ed Sheeran wrote "Thinking Out Loud," which is the undisputed greatest love song of all time. Anyone who thinks otherwise can fight me.

Ed Sheeran is a sweet, sweet ginger who sings about what's inside a girl: her heart, her soul, her mind.

His new song is none of that. In fact, it is terrible crap.

Despite the fact that it has the most annoyingly cliché pop music beat, it also features lyrics like, "I'm in love with the shape of you / We push and pull like a magnet do," and, "I'm in love with your body / Every day discovering something brand new / I'm in love with the shape of you." I really thought Ed Sheeran was better than reducing a woman to just her bod, but apparently not anymore.

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And while the song is super-annoying, the video might be even worse:

Ed Sheeran's new music video that is total crap

Ed Sheeran's new music video that is total crap

In it, Sheeran is working out so hard like the frat bro he apparently is now, and fawning over a girl at the gym. Let's all say it together now: We women go to the gym to fucking work out, not to be ogled by dudes. And especially not to be ogled by dudes who are also singing about how they love our bodies and nothing else about us. The whole thing just has a really skeevy vibe to it.

Can someone start a petition or something for this? Bring back the old Ed Sheeran, please and thank you.

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Before you go, check out our slideshow below.

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Jill Duggar Knows What Kind of Baby She's Having: The Boy Kind

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Right, so apparently, another Duggar is having another baby. And they know if it's a boy or a girl. We’d really love to give you details, but we have completely lost track of the swelling population of Duggars and our heads kind of hurt right now.

OK, fine. It’s Jill Duggar. Jill Duggar Dillard. You know, the one whose name starts with a J. (Oh, sure, pretend you can tell them apart.)

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The Counting On star and her husband, Derick Dillard, married in 2014 amid much Duggar fanfare. They already have one son, Israel, and yep, another is on the way, due in July. You know how we know it’s another boy? Because she posted a picture of herself holding a tiny blue and black T-shirt and wee red pants.

That’s "IT’S A BOY" in Duggar clothing code. No self-respecting girl would be seen wearing blue or black or red or pants. The couple actually revealed the gender of the new baby to their family through a scavenger hunt with the younger Duggar siblings. Can't we just tell each other news like this? Do we always have to have a cute reveal party? What's that? We do? I see. All right, then.

It must be fun to be a Duggar. Endless baby showers and weddings and scavenger hunts and shiny, shiny hair.

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So anyway, it's a boy, and they’re like, "Whatever. Yawn."

Just kidding. THEY’RE OVER THE FREAKING MOON, PEOPLE. (Gotta make sure you’re paying attention.) The couple released a statement that doesn't have enough exclamation marks at all:

“We are so excited to be expecting Dillard baby #2! Children really are a wonderful blessing from God. Having Israel has been such a delight to us that we know a second sweet baby will only continue to add joy to our family."

We say this sweetly, Duggars: d’uhhhh, of course. Babies = joy. We know. But maybe you could all help us out a little and start wearing tees with your names on them in your Instagram accounts and on Twitter? That would kinda help us keep track. Thanks.

These Are All the So-Called Rogue Government Twitter Accounts

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It’s ugly out there. And with all of the fake news — er, sorry, alternative facts — swirling around, it’s fast becoming more and more difficult to get the truth. Plus, don’t forget that Trump has instituted a gag order on the social media output at the Environmental Protection Agency, the Department of Agriculture, the Department of Health and Human Services and the Interior Department (which is in charge of the National Park Service). And these are just the ones we’re aware of.

As Kellyanne Conway proved in a recent memorable conversation with NBC’s Chuck Todd, which went viral, the facts in a Trump world are malleable, apparently. They are no longer based in “an objective reality,” as Merriam-Webster tweeted after this conversation occurred. So, some scientists who work at government institutions have allegedly chosen to retaliate by establishing their own Twitter accounts — and tweeting “what’s really going on.”

But the credibility of these Twitter accounts hasn’t been proven, and many accounts were first “established” by government employees going “rogue,” followed by the “transfer of power” to those who are not actually government employees. (See: NASA, for example.) In other words, this might just be more fake news created this time by liberals. Forbes wrote a really thoughtful pieces about this; same with Vice, here and here.

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Unfortunately, it doesn’t look like these accounts are the secret window into the soul of the government that everyone is hoping for. That said, they’re certainly fun to look at. All in all, there are more than 80 rogue Twitter accounts out there; below, find 12 you might want to check out first.

Chuck Todd and Kellyanne Conway on Meet the Press

Chuck Todd and Kellyanne Conway on Meet the Press

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  1. Rogue POTUS Staff
  2. Alt Department of Education
  3. Alt Environmental Protection Agency
  4. Alt FDA
  5. Alt National Park Service
  6. Rogue NASA
  7. Alt NIH
  8. Alt NOAA
  9. Alt U.S. Forest Service
  10. Alternative Alt U.S. Forest Service

Note: Apparently the two Forest Service social media accounts are run by people who are in completely different departments. “Giving a quick shout-out to the FaceBook group. We don't know you, but we are all in this together! Good Luck!” the first Forest Service wrote.

  1. Alt USDA
  2. Alt Department of State

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